How is it hated? Even on GAF, "where the hardcore go", it's adored by most.
I personally dislike it a lot. Borderline hate, almost, mainly because it's created a vision of what a "good game" should be.
I see the draw, stupid mindless fun, pick up and play, but to me it doesn't do it. Horrible "actual" gameplay, and nothing else that screams spectacular. Every single element of it is "less than".
I do however admire and respect GTA3, as it did push gaming forward to a certain degree, but again this came with a stigma that THIS is what great games are, which is sad. Beyond that, barely changing the gameplay (OMG IN THIS ONE HE TALKS, OMG NOW YOU CAN TAKE BIKES AND GET FAT) and pumping out more is a copout. Do something new and refreshing again.
But, top selling games have proven, being fresh doesn't matter. Be it Madden, or GTA, people will eat up the same s hit time and time again.
Whatever, if people enjoy it, so be it. Have a blast, I only get upset when people hold it to some standard that it doesn't belong. Best game _____ is one, it's not the best anything. Never a GOTY, not one of the best titles around, it's stupid fun with some crafty radio writing, take it for what it is.
/end slight vent