Just fyi, It's not about the game being ruined or not me no longer playing it, but simply consistently in the art direction. It annoys me that so many games with a darker look so willingly sacrifice cohesion for kicks. I'm not going to stop playing a game I like because I hate the look of the gear, but I don't think it's unfair to point out the game looks garish and ridiculous where it previously did not. I've commented many times in Gears of War threads, for example, that their trash glowing/neon weapon and character skins harm the visual identity of those games. I don't get why it's such a bad thing to want games to continue to look as good as they can just because it's multiplayer. If something's ugly, I'mma call it ugly.
This split in perception that you either don't care about a topic or are a raging lunatic is strange. It's okay to criticize the minutia without getting up in arms about it. That's half the reason this nerd haven we call GAF exists.