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Why do people never get or close the curtains/blinds in their windows at night???

Kaizer

Banned
So GAF, this is a topic I've wanted to discuss for a while now, as it's something that I find quite interesting & slightly irking. But as the title states, I've never for the life of me understood people who don't have blinds/curtains in their windows or people who never close them no matter what time of day it is.

For some background info, I'm black & have lived in Georgia for the majority of my life, but no matter what state I lived in growing up, we always had blinds in our windows. As I grew up in my teenage years, I began to see it was often my white friends who tended to leave their windows exposed more than any other race, so I'm not sure if it's a cultural thing.

All I know is that if you grew up in a less than desirable environment or the ghetto like my parents did as kids or like I had to for a brief period of time, the idea of keeping your windows exposed at night is kinda crazy. To me, it's just always seemed like you're making yourself an easy or easier target for robbery/stalking or just plain nosy people in general. I'm talking about this:
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vs. this:

I'm I just being silly about this? I was watching a streamer on YouTube a few months ago & he was using Playstation VR with headphones on at like 11:30 at night with the windows completely open & was the only person in the house. The only thing I could think about is how silly it was to leave yourself purposefully exposed like that for someone with nefarious tendencies.

Idk, I don't like the idea of leaving my curtains or blinds open at night particularly because often the glare created from the lamps/lights in your home prevents you from seeing outside but anyone outside can see just fine - like the mirrors used in interrogation rooms. There are just some spaces where you need privacy in my opinion. What do you guys think?
 

DarkKyo

Member
Some of those pictures you posted are ridiculous in that I can't believe people live like that lol. I have my blinds/curtains closed 24/7 just for basic privacy reasons.
 
Yeah we close our blinds and curtains at night too. I don't get people who don't. Someone in my neighborhood leaves theirs open two streets away and I can see what they're watching on TV from my room. It's so weird.
 
I never close mine but I'm on the 20th floor of a condo building.

Yeah in a house I would never do that for street-facing windows.
 
How is Seinfeld not the first post.

"Lady across the street has nothing on, nothing on..."

People leave them open so you lose the contest.
 
Look, if you want to see me walking around naked, pick up a few binoculars and camp out on the flat across the street. I don't care.

I have them open basically all the time, except at night because I don't want the sun to wake me up too early the next morning.
 
I close the blinds at night when I'm in the room using it to prevent people prying in.

But as soon as I go to bed - I open the blinds again to let the light in first thing in the morning to help heat the house through
 

NekoFever

Member
I only close mine if the sun is in my eyes or something. I'm not overlooked by a road or another building, I'm not on the ground floor, and I like being able to see outside.

In my old place I closed them all the time because the neighbouring building was like ten feet away and I might as well have been sharing the place with my neighbours if I hadn't. But if it's at all possible I like them open.
 

HvySky

Member
Sometime's I'll forget to close them if I'm doing something as the sun sets, but yeah, normally I'll close them up once evening kicks in. Having my living space on display for the world at night is kinda weird.
 

Bustanen

Member
Only close the bedroom curtains at night. Have nothing to hide and the windows are mainly facing forest.
 

Ceres

Banned
Reminds me of the time we drove by a house watching porn on a big screen TV facing the road (on Halloween too). Both my husband and I were like "did we really just see what we think we saw?"

We have curtains but don't really use the front facing first floor rooms much. I have curtains always closed in the room with my computer since my back and computer screen would he visible from the road. Neighbors behind us are quite a distance away as well so we mainly have blinds to block the glare on the tv. They're always down but not always closed.
 

Haunted

Member
Basic privacy aside, I think thoughts like this will differ greatly depending on the environment one grew up in.

Born and raised in a safe and pleasant neighbourhood in the suburbs of a medium-sized city in central Europe in a slightly above average middle class family and thoughts like the OP seem a bit silly.

If you're in a less safe space or savoury neighbourhood, you'd obviously think differently about things like safety and privacy and the need to protect your belongings from those around you.

Traveling to unfamiliar territory (even though it might be perfectly safe) will also increase anxiety and the need for protection and safety.
 

Saganator

Member
I love natural sun light so I'm a window blinds open all day kinda guy, but I can't stand people being able to look into my home so easily at night, so I always close the blinds when it gets dark. I don't want people from outside to see my big screen TV, video game consoles, PC, or anything else of value.
 

Reckheim

Member
I live on the 29th floor of a corner condo which is practically all windows. If it wasnt for the shitty Glare the sun makes on my TV i would leave the blinds open the whole time.

At some point you just stop caring about people seeing you in your underwear. I'd rather enjoy the view.
 

Chococat

Member
Windows are meant to let light in. Having them cover 24/7 would be silly.

I cover windows primarily for warmth in the winter, and certain room where privacy is valued (bathroom or bedroom).

Blinds give you the ability to adjust light while keeping some privacy. Sheers do the same thing.

Most normal people on the street don't care what people are doing inside their homes.
 

vypek

Member
I close mine at night and almost never open the ones on ground floor anyways. Just don't like it. Somehow seems odd to me that others leave them open all the time but that is probably just cause I like a lot of privacy.l
 
Not only do I not want to feel like I'm in a fishbowl, damn windows turn into mirrors at night in some cases! Who needs that in their life?
 

Stinkles

Clothed, sober, cooperative
I used to have this situation in my house. And in my case it's because we bought the house like that, and custom blinds were SHOCKINGLY expensive. Even chintzy ones. And I was too tight fisted to splurge on them until eventually long summer nights and early sunrises made me bite the bullet.
 

Ploid 3.0

Member
I also wondered this. I don't even like having the blinds turned so that light can enter them. I let my trees in the front grow in a way that they provide privacy. I have a tall wooden fence all around my back yard + more trees. Mississippi house, and my neighbors also have their curtains open all the time during the day, I could even see that they let the nasty cat that keeps entering my back yard to rip up my lawn furniture pillows on their couch and laps. I felt so bad for them because they have no idea what that nasty cat does and go through.
 

cwmartin

Member
We are a curtains only household. Whats up with the blinds and curtains people? Just seems like excess to me, pick one.
 

Zona

Member
My room never has blinds open, I'm one step away from putting tin foil over them. I'm the lightest sleeper ever so any daylight at all will wake me up. Rest of the house it depends on if it's summer or winter. In the summer I always keep them closed to help keep the house cool, and in the winter their always open to help keep it warm. I'm too lazy/forgetful to bother closing them ever night and I don't really see the point. Theres only like one window in the kitchen that really faces the street.

Now when I still lived with me parents we had the house redone. After it was finished the ground floor had like 20 big windows that faced the street and no blinds. That annoyed me.
 

snacknuts

we all knew her
I hate sunlight and I don't like the idea of people watching me, so I keep my blinds and curtains closed as much as I can. My wife loves sunlight and is convinced that I am a crazy person for thinking people might be looking in our windows.
 

Ploid 3.0

Member
i need the sun to wake up

also

how are curtains saving you from a robbery/intrusion?

Window shopping, literally. You don't want to let people know what is in your house, when people are in your house usually, and where people are inside your house to the point they can plan around habits. It's also not just about being robbed.

We are a curtains only household. Whats up with the blinds and curtains people? Just seems like excess to me, pick one.

I have thick long blinds, but they still don't keep the sun out. I like the sun control of blinds when I'm awake, I can turn it and let in a specific amount. I have thick curtains for blocking every bit of sun out and for decoration. Blinds look boring.
 
mine are always closed but when I'm up for a super late jog (2-3AM) my route brings me right past this young dude's house and he's always naked and watching cartoons, literally every single night.

I open my blinds if I'm wanting natural light or need the window open for air circulation or something.
 

Kurdel

Banned
My ex was super paranoid about this aswell, I don't give a shit I love in one of the safest countries in the world and iI have doors.
 

farisr

Member
We always do, heck we close all our blinds as the sun is setting basically. I sometimes open mine late night just to stare at the stars or let some fresh air in faster for a few minutes. Neighbor 2 houses over at the back freaks me out sometimes. Leaves the lights on and the blinds open all night long for their living room. Have random objects literring the place here and there, a couple of times, even mannequins. And randomly will be seen standing outside on the deck late at night in a hoodie (for a smoke break).
 

FyreWulff

Member
We are a curtains only household. Whats up with the blinds and curtains people? Just seems like excess to me, pick one.

blinds block vision but not sunlight, so you can have some sunlight but also privacy

curtains block both

combine for maximum lightblock. also on warm days you can pull the blinds up a bit and open the curtains and window for airflow while keeping privacy.

I have blackout tan blinds and a curtain. only cost me 20$ total for both.
 

Ploid 3.0

Member
I sometimes leave my sliding door wide open while I sleep all night. The outside breeze feels good.

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I was just going to bring that up too. Leaving windows and doors open with no screen. Bugs, animals, floating mess. I would probably only have a door open for a bit when it's pouring down raining outside as I look out.
 
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