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Would you date a porn star?

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One of my friends is actually a famous JAV actress (for 10+ years). The thing that bugs me the most is that when we go out the guys assume they're obligated to get something from her just because of her profession.

And elctrician shouldn't be taken for granted, why should a JAV actress? She actually has a boyfriend. Never actually met him or asked much about him to her, but I've gotten the impression that their relationship is just like any other. She doesn't cheat on him outside of her job, which technically isn't cheating since he's well aware. I can however imagine that someone working in the porn industry have a different view on sex with a real partner though.
 
I don't think my wife would appreciate it very much.


If I was single?
Well, I didn't want to have sex until I was married, so that would be a likely sticking point...
Although, maybe she'd be happy to get away from work for a bit >.>

Given your sex drive issue, a pornstar would feel totally like in a vacation being with you

You would do better than all of us
 
One of my friends is actually a famous JAV actress (for 10+ years). The thing that bugs me the most is that when we go out the guys assume they're obligated to get something from her just because of her profession.

And elctrician shouldn't be taken for granted, why should a JAV actress? She actually has a boyfriend. Never actually met him or asked much about him to her, but I've gotten the impression that their relationship is just like any other. She doesn't cheat on him outside of her job, which technically isn't cheating since he's well aware. I can however imagine that someone working in the porn industry have a different view on sex with a real partner though.

A lot of people take my computer skills for granted...

So I feel her pain
 
If she was clean I really wouldn't care. I don't have a huge sex drive so it would probably be a good thing actually.
 
Yeah, sure. I mean, it'd bug me, but I think I could get over it. Her body, her right. I think that I'd be a lot more concerned if I found out she was fooling around off camera, actually.
 
Oh please. I never generalized that there are NO people who would hit on those points, just that they are probably not very common.

Let us not pretend that many college grads wake up in the morning and decide that porn would be a great career path.

Are you seriously telling me that this:
I tend to like educated, thoughtful, well spoken, classy individuals.... which isn't exactly the most common demographic in the porn industry.
isn't a generalization?
How many pornstars have you actually had a conversation with?
 
No. The baggage, the thought of my girl getting reamed like the porn star that she is, and the inability to trust would make the relationship impossible.
 
I don't have any problem with it in principle, but I wouldn't back off my other requirements.

I tend to like educated, thoughtful, well spoken, classy individuals.... which isn't exactly the most common demographic in the porn industry.

You need to exactly speak with the women. Now the guys are... Not the brightest people.
 
I think we should include the genre of said pornstar in our discussion. I'm gonna guess that the majority of neogaf is not going to want to date a German Scat Queen.
 
is it really polyamory though? It's acting, by that logic you couldn't date an actress that has a fictional husband.
This only really works if porn stars only pretended to have sex. They actually have sex, the acting comes in in between the sex and when they have to pretend that they like it.
 
Hasn't that porn star Christie Mack got a tattoo which says "property of war machine" from her former boyfriend. ppl sometimes do dumb shit.
 
This only really works if porn stars only pretended to have sex. They actually have sex, the acting comes in in between the sex and when they have to pretend that they like it.

Well fictional couples still kiss and fool around for real, no sex, but still something that would be considered cheating.

You really think they pretend all
the time? Stimulation is stimulation, porn stars are very good at stimulation, I'v even read stories from rape victims who had orgasms.
 
Of course I would. Porn star as a career is just as respectable as any other career. People who judge porn stars are no different from any other type of bigots.
 
Nope, having sex with someone that has sex with a dozen plus different people every month seems like an effective way of getting an STD.

given the amount of checking and protocol in the industry i'd suggest it's much more likely you're open to infection from hook ups in bars than you are from someone in a semi-regulated industry where health and STD Checking is a consideration.


End of the day - it all depends on what the person is like. I've only really held any sort of friendship with one porn actress and it wasn't exactly a close friendship, more we were in the same location at points in time and we'd chat but she was a very nice person. Interestingly one of the conversations was that she was curious about married life and what was the tipping point where i wanted to make the commitment.... but anyways....

Hell, i've dated people who had multiple partners before - again, if the person is my sort of person... why not?
 
Well fictional couples still kiss and fool around for real, no sex, but still something that would be considered cheating.
I'm sure there are people that wouldn't be comfortable with that either. But there is also a difference between being an actress that occasionally gets a role where he has to kiss another man and an actress that consistently or even exclusively gets roles where she has sex with other men.

I just saw your edit, no I don't think they pretend all of the time. I just meant that I'm sure there are times when they aren't into it but still act like they are because it's their job.
 
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