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Would you date a woman who used to be a man?
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Its definitely one of those situations where I'd have to be in before I would know the outcome. I could never rule out not loving someone because of their gender, I'm straight as far as I can tell ::eyes Kyouji hush you:: but who knows, if I genuinely loved someone. Well just take it from Guitarwolf in Wild Zero: "AAAAIIIISU! Love has no borders, nationalities, or genders!"
Toss up, literally.
Toss up, literally.
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Shouta said:
Thank you, Japan.
Okay, you got me. But if we ever broke up I'd have to kill "her" to make sure no one ever knows the truth.doodyball5 said:
This reminds me of this Loius C.K. stand up I saw the other night. He had like a ten minute bit about sucking duck. At one point he said even though he considers himself a heterosexual male, he didn't want to rule out the possibility that he'd suck a dick. He just felt that he'd never in all his life seen a cock that swept him with the urge to give a blow job. It may be out there somewhere.Chojin said:
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It really sounds like a harsh life to lead. I mean, pre-op life doesn't sound terribly pleasant, but I always assumed that the trouble ended there, and that after surgery, a transsexual person could get on with a more or less normal life. There's the children issue, but normal couples sometimes can't conceive, too, and there's always adoption. Not really an issue for me, it's not like girl + girl = children anyway.
I suppose something like this will always be an issue for a lot of people, any way you dice it. More for me! Please send the pretty, passable-looking ones my way. We'll start with Harisu.
Also, Jiji is my hero.
I suppose something like this will always be an issue for a lot of people, any way you dice it. More for me! Please send the pretty, passable-looking ones my way. We'll start with Harisu.
Also, Jiji is my hero.
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I really dont know. That is just....intense. Something I hope I never have to deal with
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Kaeru said:
Uh uh.
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Kaeru said:
:lol :lol :lol
thesoapster
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Nope. Would not do it.
I technically would't have any problem..except the fact that I'm gay.. 
But anyway..it's a really weird situation..well, difficult for some..
He liked the girl, they talked and everything..they "clicked"..yet,wasn't born with a vagina so that means: "no thanks"..
I mean..
Do you get interested/in love with the person/personality?..do you fall in love on the idea of having sex?..or do you fall in love with the sexual organ?
It's like a case..a documentary I once watched, I think it was on HBO..
2 women met, as lesbians....went throught he hwole ordeal of coming out, their families, etc...then even married..
Turned out, that 1 of them was not a real woman, but a man that for some ..genetic condition didn't had a penis, was raised as a woman; realized that she was lesbian...then discovered that she's actually a ..well..a 'he'..
Yet, the other woman stood with him and continued married..but wait..she's a "lesbian", and met a woman and fell in love with a woman which even married..but turned being a man..wouldn't that make her.."straight"? ..and legally married to a man?
Really ..difficult situation, no matter what..
Sometimes, with me, everything's normal..yet, when one person discovers that I'm gay..they are like "Whoa, you like cock?!?!!? ".."You like looking at cocks?!?!?!"..when in reality, I don't...but, well..being straight seems to be the same..many met a girl, then tell their friends and the first thing they ask: "Does she has a nice rack?!?!!?" ..so many define interest, in just sex..oh well..
/end rant.
But anyway..it's a really weird situation..well, difficult for some..
He liked the girl, they talked and everything..they "clicked"..yet,wasn't born with a vagina so that means: "no thanks"..
I mean..
Do you get interested/in love with the person/personality?..do you fall in love on the idea of having sex?..or do you fall in love with the sexual organ?
It's like a case..a documentary I once watched, I think it was on HBO..
2 women met, as lesbians....went throught he hwole ordeal of coming out, their families, etc...then even married..
Turned out, that 1 of them was not a real woman, but a man that for some ..genetic condition didn't had a penis, was raised as a woman; realized that she was lesbian...then discovered that she's actually a ..well..a 'he'..
Yet, the other woman stood with him and continued married..but wait..she's a "lesbian", and met a woman and fell in love with a woman which even married..but turned being a man..wouldn't that make her.."straight"? ..and legally married to a man?
Really ..difficult situation, no matter what..
Sometimes, with me, everything's normal..yet, when one person discovers that I'm gay..they are like "Whoa, you like cock?!?!!? ".."You like looking at cocks?!?!?!"..when in reality, I don't...but, well..being straight seems to be the same..many met a girl, then tell their friends and the first thing they ask: "Does she has a nice rack?!?!!?" ..so many define interest, in just sex..oh well..
/end rant.
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Hell no.
I find it weird people here referring to them as "she".
Hell no.
I find it weird people here referring to them as "she".
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Pre-op? No, stay the fuck away.
Post-op? How does she look? And sound.
There's a pre-op tranny at work... she's about 6'4", with large hands, anorexic, and a very very scary off-putting voice (i.e. a guy trying to speak like a girl... not a comical one, but a serious attempt. Yeah).
She talks to me occasionally, but I always freeze up, and there's this awkward silence that takes place of a conversation.
It's getting a bit better... proactively greeting her... but dear god, I can barely treat her/him as human in my mind much less a woman. Makes the liberal part of my mind a bit ashamed, but it can't be helped!
Post-op? How does she look? And sound.
There's a pre-op tranny at work... she's about 6'4", with large hands, anorexic, and a very very scary off-putting voice (i.e. a guy trying to speak like a girl... not a comical one, but a serious attempt. Yeah).
She talks to me occasionally, but I always freeze up, and there's this awkward silence that takes place of a conversation.
It's getting a bit better... proactively greeting her... but dear god, I can barely treat her/him as human in my mind much less a woman. Makes the liberal part of my mind a bit ashamed, but it can't be helped!
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I'd experience a great deal of cognitive dissonance which would make me feel really uncomfortable. It wouldn't matter that they look, sound etc. like a woman, the fact that they used to be a man would weigh heavily on my mind. It'd feel like I wasn't dating a woman, but rather another man's idea of what a woman is or should be like.
I'd get the same feeling (but for far different reasons), as a christian-leaning agnostic, from dating an extremely religious girl. I'd have to make all sorts of compromises I'm not comfortable with, smile and pretend everything were hunky-dory in order to even make it work.
I'd get the same feeling (but for far different reasons), as a christian-leaning agnostic, from dating an extremely religious girl. I'd have to make all sorts of compromises I'm not comfortable with, smile and pretend everything were hunky-dory in order to even make it work.
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byproduct said:
It's probably more like most straight guys have never really thought about what they're being attracted to and just that they are. I personally think a lot of gay people have to go through the "why/who do I like?" thing before they figure out their own situation so this seems like it isn't a big deal.
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Would you have sex with it though? no relationship involved, would you sex it up?viciouskillersquirrel said:
:lolitxaka said:
A weird situation, is the many straight guys, that only like doing it in the ass to woman (i.e. 'fhuta'..
)..to avoid using condom, pregnancy, etc..Yet, when it comes to doing the exact same thing to a woman that used to be a man, or just..a man...."Ewww..that's gay"
So there are some that just like..having them, seeing them...but not using them (i.e. pussy and tits
)...like a prize.. "Woohoo I have a woman!!..boobies..!! don't know how to use them, but I they are mine!!!..now bend over!!"
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I dont know. Can anybody asnwer this question? How do post op female transexuals ejaculate?
Sexually I like way too many things that I think cannot be faked once we are having sex. It even boils down to the pheromones. I dont think a transexual could emulate them. If she was a perfect woman, why not. Is just that I guess the illusion would be broken once we have sex. Thinking she used to be a man doesn't bother me.
Sexually I like way too many things that I think cannot be faked once we are having sex. It even boils down to the pheromones. I dont think a transexual could emulate them. If she was a perfect woman, why not. Is just that I guess the illusion would be broken once we have sex. Thinking she used to be a man doesn't bother me.
doctors can't create vagina's. what those guys have is just a hole where their penises used to be. hell if they don't keep their fake vagina's open it will close up because the body thinks it's a wound.itxaka said:
http://wiki.susans.org/index.php/Vaginal_stents
Shouta said:
Maybe.
Dali said:
You could be right. I had to delete a lot of expectations when I came out to myself. And I have no problem with the word "normal" used in the sense of something being more commonly experienced, as long as there is no moral meaning attached.
itxaka said:
I honestly expected more answers along these lines.
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smurfx said:
Okay, so their pseudovaginas can heal. Put's the term "It's a trap" into perspective. Your dick could literally get trapped.
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Probably no. I've only ever been in a situation wherein there was sex outside the context of a relationship once. While it was fun at the time, I ended it because I wanted to be free to pursue a real relationship. It didn't fulfil my needs, I guess. That's just me though.FootNinja said:
I don't know what the percentages are, but I find the idea of anal sex rather... well... unhygienic and I'd wager that a lot of straight men would feel the same way. I think porn's fascination with it all comes down to toilet humour and misplaced misogyny. Again, though, that's just me.fernoca said::lol
A weird situation, is the many straight guys, that only like doing it in the ass to woman (i.e. 'fhuta'..
Yet, when it comes to doing the exact same thing to a woman that used to be a man, or just..a man...."Ewww..that's gay"
So there are some that just like..having them, seeing them...but not using them (i.e. pussy and tits
Outdated and off-topic... but...since "I started it"..viciouskillersquirrel said:
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Though, yeah..in most cases is the whole "Well, they are doing it on the porn..let's try it"..mentality..
Sometimes ignoring that in a few of those pornos,..there's no actual penetration and it 's an act..
I meant it as common: 'the usual'. You seem reasonable but the last time I used normal in a thread that referenced transgender people I actually got flamed for it. Like people were actually trying to argue that being born with the mind of a woman but the body of a man is normal and that I was a horrible person for excluding them from the normal umbrella.byproduct said:
BobJustBob
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Sure, why not. As long as I was attracted to them.
afternoon delight
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Nope. Every time intimate contact was initiated, I would not be able to think it was a her. Despite the "new flesh".
Some things you can't unsee.
Some things you can't unsee.
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You mean menstrual flows and children? As long as a woman is healthy and not, say, infected, I can deal.Shahadan said:
Call me old fashioned if you like, but the thought of getting fecal matter on my dangly bits turns me off decidedly.
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