I have something called The DVR Test that helps me realize when I truly start caring about a show. Some programs I love right off the bat, and others I loathe just as equally. Most fall somewhere in between, which means Ill watch as many episodes as I can when I can, without worrying too much about how close I watch them based on initial airing. Shows that sneak up on me pass The DVR Test when I flip on my TV, see a host of available options, and almost always pick a certain show out of the crop. And right now, FXs comedy Youre The Worst is straight killing my DVR test on a weekly basis.
(If you like it so much, why dont you watch it when it airs? cries the masses. One: Im old, and this show airs at 10:30 pm on Thursdays. Two: FX doesnt care about overnight ratings, so Im not shooting this show in the foot.)
Admittedly, I wasnt a huge fan of the first two episodes, which seems to telegraph its narrative based on its premise. But a will they/wont they promise quickly turned into Why shouldnt we?, as primary characters Jimmy (Chris Geere) and Gretchen (Aya Cash) slowly realize that their plan for a meaningless physical relationship crumbles in the face of their incredible compatibility. While a nominally snarky show on the surface, Youre The Worst is incredibly sweet under its exterior crudeness, and the process through which the central pair continually choose yes when they historically chose no in their ongoing relationship is a complete pleasure.
To be honest, however, what really pushed the show from good to great lay in the programs work in developing ancillary characters Edgar (Desmin Borges) and Lindsay (Kether Donahue), two people that realize they are the sidekicks in the Jimmy/Gretchen drama but still have goals and issues of their own. In Edgar, TV has a second great example of a PSTD military figure that goes against the normal, histrionic grain. (The other was Pete Hill in the late, lamented Enlisted.) In Lindsay, Youre The Worst has a figure akin to Karen Walker on Will & Grace, but with a sweet pathos underneath the brash exterior.
Comparing Youre The Worst to Will & Grace might sound like an insult to some. But that speaks to the sitcom tradition in which Youre The Worst is deeply steeped, all outward trappings to the contrary. Rather than that being a flaw, its actually a strength, and suggested that breaking the mold in television isnt necessarily as important as realizing what has always worked and simply adding a bit more to the puzzle. The show is one part rom-com, one part subtweet, one part YOLO, and all parts addictive. The season ends next week, so you still have time to catch up on it before the finale airs on September 18.