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Don't be insecure. She's with you right now. That should say something.
EviLore said:Just picture me comforting her as I gently thrust inside of her for the first time, looking into her eyes, in a moment that she'll remember forever, that no other man can live up to. Our special moment locked in time.
Don't worry about it, bro. I'm sure she likes you too.
Traced-Velocity said:As unreasonable, and childish as that may be, I just haven't been able to get over the fact that she's had serious feelings for someone before me, and more so the sexual activity that took place. It makes me feel jealous, and even at times angered/resentful.
It's not like we haven't done anything either, hell I was in around a month into the relationship, whereas the other dude took 7 months.
I've never had alcohol before this,
you can tell that hes a babby. its like he based his entire emotional response on break-up scenes from hollywood. OH GOD MY GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH ANOTHER GUY BEFORE WE GOT TOGETHER TIME TO START DRINKING (because thats what every depressed guy does) AND GET REALLY ANGRY..AND LOOK ITS YOUR FAULT YOU DID THIS TO ME.Zenith said:Are you 14?
woah man don't say that he may od while coldplay is playing.Kentpaul said:First girlfriend ,and first drink at age 18?
you have already failed.
/teen cultureKentpaul said:First girlfriend ,and first drink at age 18?
you have already failed.
Kentpaul said:First girlfriend ,and first drink at age 18?
you have already failed.
Evilore always deliversEviLore said:Just picture me comforting her as I gently thrust inside of her for the first time, looking into her eyes, in a moment that she'll remember forever, that no other man can live up to. Our special moment locked in time.
Don't worry about it, bro. I'm sure she likes you too.
thats pretty rough bro, you alright? i'm going to japan this summer to find a waifu you want to come with me see some new sites help you find your meaning again?Suairyu said:I'm starting to get worried - I was certain I wrote out a reply involving dicks being sucked and posted it here. Now I'm afraid the reply went into another thread and people will be reading about murder or something and then their day will be ruined by some asshole duck talking about dicks being sucked completely out of context.
If anyone stumbles across that post, please point it out to me and accept my sincerest apologies.
After the last migration, this bill is illegal in most of the Asian Pacific. It's a long story.Chinner said:thats pretty rough bro, you alright? i'm going to japan this summer to find a waifu you want to come with me see some new sites help you find your meaning again?
Traced-Velocity said:Sigh. Just had a bit of a breakdown tonight.
I've been dating this girl for about a year now, and she's someone that I've admired, and cared for for the time we've been dating. Almost everything about her I adore, but the one thing that's always been bugging me in the back of my mind is the fact that she's been in a serious relationship before me.
As unreasonable, and childish as that may be, I just haven't been able to get over the fact that she's had serious feelings for someone before me, and more so the sexual activity that took place. It makes me feel jealous, and even at times angered/resentful. It's not like we haven't done anything either, hell I was in around a month into the relationship, whereas the other dude took 7 months. Yeah, I know, that's just what people do, get the fuck over it, but I can't for the life of me figure out why it bothers me so much, and now it's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm just pushing her away every time I try to bring it up with her.
Tonight I flew off the handle and decided to try and drink my emotions away. I've never had alcohol before this, and in doing what I did, it really worried and angered her with how I was dealing with the situation.
So, I turn to you GAF. I figured some advice from anonymous people might help. Am I just childish and I should get the fuck over it, or is it somewhat reasonable that I'm having these feelings.
And if age is a concern, I'm 18.
Traced-Velocity said:Sigh. Just had a bit of a breakdown tonight.
I've been dating this girl for about a year now, and she's someone that I've admired, and cared for for the time we've been dating. Almost everything about her I adore, but the one thing that's always been bugging me in the back of my mind is the fact that she's been in a serious relationship before me.
As unreasonable, and childish as that may be, I just haven't been able to get over the fact that she's had serious feelings for someone before me, and more so the sexual activity that took place. It makes me feel jealous, and even at times angered/resentful. It's not like we haven't done anything either, hell I was in around a month into the relationship, whereas the other dude took 7 months. Yeah, I know, that's just what people do, get the fuck over it, but I can't for the life of me figure out why it bothers me so much, and now it's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm just pushing her away every time I try to bring it up with her.
Tonight I flew off the handle and decided to try and drink my emotions away. I've never had alcohol before this, and in doing what I did, it really worried and angered her with how I was dealing with the situation.
So, I turn to you GAF. I figured some advice from anonymous people might help. Am I just childish and I should get the fuck over it, or is it somewhat reasonable that I'm having these feelings.
And if age is a concern, I'm 18.
If I were to give you any advice, and no need to heed it because it seems like you have things figured out, it would be that there is no home stretch in a relationship. Long-Distance or short, unless you are talking about the end, then it's always a journey.Traced-Velocity said:We're both done school in April, and she's looking to transfer somewhere close. No point in giving up now since I'm in, what I feel is, the home stretch.
Salazar said:She also goes to the toilet.
Greater minds than yours have been paralysed by shock at this revelation.
EviLore said:Just picture me comforting her as I gently thrust inside of her for the first time, looking into her eyes, in a moment that she'll remember forever, that no other man can live up to. Our special moment locked in time.
Don't worry about it, bro. I'm sure she likes you too.
EviLore said:Just picture me comforting her as I gently thrust inside of her for the first time, looking into her eyes, in a moment that she'll remember forever, that no other man can live up to. Our special moment locked in time.
Don't worry about it, bro. I'm sure she likes you too.
Instigator said:
Traced-Velocity said:Probably the same way she's reacting right now, feeling guilty when she shouldn't be feeling that way. Maybe I'm just a idealistic, selfish prick for reacting the way I am.
oh my god..Instigator said:To help cinge the image into the OP's brain...
Seriously. Pee on her and get it over with.Wormdundee said:Holy crap this thread is dumb. Why would you even bother talking about past dicks that have been inside her? That's like "hey, I want to feel jealous and territorial, please tell me all about the past guys". Argh, my brain hurts at the reasons for this thread.
Being in an Asian family, it took quite awhile before my parents lightened up on shit like having a girlfriend. I was on their leash for quite a bit of time during my early teen years till I realized that life isn't long. I was surprised that they didn't flip when I brought home a white girl.Zenith said:Are you 14?
I was more so talking about the fact that she'd be back home for more than just a few weeks after the semester is over, so by then I could figure out whether or not my irrationality stemmed from her being away.Anslon said:If I were to give you any advice, and no need to heed it because it seems like you have things figured out, it would be that there is no home stretch in a relationship. Long-Distance or short, unless you are talking about the end, then it's always a journey.
It wasn't my intention to objectify her. Probably came across that way in my post because I was dead tired and still feeling like shit while making the op. I treat her with the utmost respect when I'm around her, whether or not anyone believes me due to how childish my posts have looked. My intention with the little quip about how long it was before anything happened was just to get across the fact that my insecurities don't stem from any 'performance' issues, but rather just my idealistic way of thinking.Chinner said:yeah you're a bit of a tool. also, don't objectify your girlfriend its creepy.
I never asked her to describe a situation in which anything happened, but at one point she did; not in great detail anything, but enough to hang my thoughts on it ever since. I mean, it's bugged me from the start of our relationship, but the scenario that she told me about is always the thing I come back to when I start hanging up over the fact that someone's been with her before. Still no excuse for the way I'm reacting though.Wormdundee said:Holy crap this thread is dumb. Why would you even bother talking about past dicks that have been inside her? That's like "hey, I want to feel jealous and territorial, please tell me all about the past guys". Argh, my brain hurts at the reasons for this thread.
Traced-Velocity said:I never asked her to describe a situation in which anything happened, but at one point she did; not in great detail anything, but enough to hang my thoughts on it ever since. Still no excuse for the way I'm reacting though.
White. Dude was white.Instigator said:Is the girl also Asian? What about her first BF's race?
Traced-Velocity said:White. Dude was white.
Instigator said:Is it possible this has something to do with it? Not implying racism on your part, but maybe feelings of inadequacies on your part?
It's totally plausible any guy's dick in your GF would drive you jealous.
Nah, I've thought about it that way. Never once have I felt inadequate, we have great chemistry.Instigator said:Is it possible this has something to do with it? Not implying racism on your part, but maybe feelings of inadequacies on your part?
It's totally plausible any guy's dick in your GF would drive you jealous.
:lolPinko Marx said:Did you just make an Asians have small penises joke?
Donos said:He went through the front door but maybe you are the first to go through the backdoor... go conquer the last frontier !
Pinko Marx said:Did you just make an Asians have small penises joke?