I've been told that women that don't like being hit on in a place like a gym for instance. I realize I'm only talking to them but even so some people don't want to talk when they got stuff to do.
I go to some of these places because I got nothing better to do. Don't have many friends either so options are limited.
I'm with you on that. Because it's the summer and school is out until late August, I've been sitting in my underwear browsing GAF/Facebook all day or playing video games because I have nothing to do myself. I don't even like hanging out with the guys from my fraternity despite seeing events that they're going to have. I've been told by people that we should hang out but it never happens.
However in spite of that, I have a work-study job lined up which I'm gonna go take care of tomorrow and go back to volunteering at a theatre that I volunteered at last summer while I find a new place to volunteer at that's more in line with my specific interests. I'm gonna go back to the gym and hit it all four days consistently and get my stuff together because no man is an island. There's a free concert on Friday which I'm gonna go to with my brother and pass up on the fraternity event. EviLore said it best: get off GAF and go do something interesting every day.
Like I told you go to these open mics and read your stuff instead of watching people read their stuff. You'll make friends pretty easily. It's like going to a club to watch people dance but yet you're one of the few people planted on the wall observing. I've been there before man; we're cut from the same cloth but I want you to succeed as well.
Try volunteering at somewhere if you really have nothing better to do and want to do something productive. Or take a new hobby that will make you go outside such as photography.
Hell, seriously consider organizing a GAF meet up so you could network, meet new friends, have fun, and have plenty of wingmen at a bar to help you. At a lot of the GAF meet ups that I've been to, a couple of Gaffers always talking to women. I'm gonna organize another GAF meet up myself next month because I want to. Do things that you've always wanted to do now that you have the free time to do them because not many people have that kind of free time once they start working.