Bam Bam Baklava
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Get back into photography, but for the right reasons and get better at it. Carrying a camera and actually being a good photographer is a great way to break the ice and is a conversation starter. It's like carrying a guitar, but much easier to learn to use.
Every woman in my office looks at our photographers as rockstars. Even the 40-year-old, overweight guy has to beat them off with a stick. The thing is he's a nice guy and doesn't shove the camera in people's faces. Once the conversation starts and you are an interesting person they forget all about the camera.
I once knew this photog that would bring his camera to the bar. He'd just sit it on the bar and within 10 minutes he'd have women flocking to him, but only because it was a conversation starter. He was actually very charming. Plus, his photography let him do awesome stuff like being commissioned to shoot a safari in Africa. So pick photography back up, take some art classes, etc. The only downside is unless you are shooting weddings or models, the life of a photographer is akin to a starving artist.
The other advice I want to give you is that you are in junior college. Once you transfer to college, there will be an ungodly amount of easy ways to meet new people on campus. Also, think hard before joining a frat. I had plenty of fraternity friends in college. The actual cool/nice ones joined because they actually liked being in a fraternity of like-minded people and caring for their brothers. The losers and scumbags were the ones that rushed so they could sleep with drunk freshmen girls at frat parties. Frats are no different than clubs. Yes, wearing letters will make you look cool to some people but sometimes the wrong people. If the only reason people like you is because you have letters it's going to be a giant reality check once you hit the real world.
Damn man I can't believe it. Back when I did what they were doing the only responses I got were "why are you taking pictures" or "are you some kind of creeper taking pics" etc. It's weird man, I do something and people think it's lame and some other guy does it and it's awesome.