whitehawk said:
I have a girlfriend
You guys don't even understand, I am such a happy man right now
Congrats, I've been out of the "trying to get a girl for a while now" phase because of me moving to China, but now that I'm here, I need some more help. I know no Mandarin, so the question is, do i just go and try and do a chick that doesn't speak my language at all, or try and wait for a girl that speaks english to come along and try to get my first actually relationship going? I heard it is easier to get a girl as a foreigner here.
Also, a fun story, that pissed me the fuck off.
I had been hanging out with this one chick for a while. We had started hanging out a year before this took place, but during that year, she pretty much fell off the map and didn't hang out with me at all. So, a year goes by and she finally starts getting on FB some more and finally gets a cell phone, so I start talking to her again. We hit it off again, we started going out for drinks and I got drunk with her a few times, one at my house and one at hers. So one day she asks me out to drink again and to go eat dinner with her at a Chinese place.
I was freaking happy at this point. "Of course I'll go", I said. Got ready, picked her up, etc. Headed out to the restaurant. All was going well that night till she drops this little bomb.
She starts telling me about how she was brought to this same place by her ex and that he had brought along a friend with benefits, and that had made her uncomfortable. Understandable, I could see why anyone would be uncomfortable with an ex that is talking or even being in the same room with someone that knows you are sleeping with them. It was fine up until now, when immediately after she talked about how weird it was for her, she talks to me about how she had this friend with benefits that was trying to go out with her and she didn't want that.
Well, I was a bit pissed for the rest of the night. Not a bit pissed, rather angry. Especially since at the same time, one of her friends started calling her saying that she had given birth to her baby. That's fine that she took the first call, but for the rest of the night she was pretty much blowing me off for the friend and the kid. We'd be sitting at the bar and she'd just walk outside leaving me alone with my drink.
I just don't understand what went through her head at the time. I mean, if she knew how she felt during her exes escapades, why did she tell me about hers? ESPECIALLY WHEN I'D LOVE TO BE A FUCKING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS!
I mean I did like hanging out with her, she paid for all of her drinks and for the dinner, so it wasn't a date or anything. I also wasn't in the hole with her. She always paid for her part of the night, but damn. I don't think I'm wrong for being pissed off about that night, especially when i thought it was going so well between us. Either way, was I allowed to be mad GAF? Please say yes because I enjoyed being angry with her for that. It was about a month ago, so I'm over it by a long shit, and I'm in China now, so it doesn't really matter anymore.