Trichomoniasis is a common and curable condition. You're seriously saying that if someone was being upfront about that embarrassing thing, you wouldn't date that person? I guess thats your choice..
You may not have any ill will towards those people, but you most certainly have an irrational fear towards those people. Thats a fact.
And heeey guess what? That's exactly where HIV stigma comes from: Fear
You have hard fucking science saying that people who are on medication CANNOT give away HIV. You have hard fucking science saying that people with HIV can go on to have children who are free from the virus. We prech science up and down on these boards and yet we seem to have a hard time understanding this. Why?
Poor wording on my part; I completely misspoke. I meant "I wouldn't have sex with." I have no problem dating anyone with a curable infection. Edited my original post to include the above correction as a footnote.
Regarding the HIV thing, it's hardly an irrational fear. I'm looking for a long term partner when I date. Being able to eventually have sex without condoms when we're in an exclusive, monogamous relationship is a deal breaker for me. I don't want to rely on my partner correctly taking medication to ensure I don't run any risk of contracting HIV. If we'd been together for years and she contracted it, I certainly wouldn't leave; that would be a completely different situation. But "dating" implies "get to know while exploring romantic interest". That's not something I'd choose to do with someone who is HIV+.
It's pretty simple. There are billions of people in the world, and I can afford to be picky about things like politics, public hair philosophy, and whether or not a potential partner could infect me with HIV. Those are a fistful of my dealbreakers. For others it'll be about ass phatness, freckles, or a shared religious affiliation; none of which I care about.
I don't fear
people with HIV. The question was not "would you be friends with someone who was HIV+?" (I would, without hesitation). I just don't want to have sex with people with HIV. That's an incredibly important distinction.