Soon enough, my friend. It's in the stars.
Then why haven't you asked her out? Dating fortunes do not favor the meek.
Soon enough, my friend. It's in the stars.
nintendork666, maybe... you should go on a date or something before getting too excited about a serious relationship?
Then why haven't you asked her out? Dating fortunes do not favor the meek.
I plan on asking her out later today.
I'll be honest, I'm usually too shy to get even this far. I almost didn't even message her right away, given the Swingers rule and all. I'm so money and I don't even know it.
I wonder if she's just trying to phase me out nicely but all the texts seem sincere but could it all be mind games?
I don't want to play mind games. That's why I'm going silent. Giving her space, etc. She'll text me when she wants. If not, her loss like you said.If she's phasing you out, her loss. If it is mind games, why would you want to play them?
"Give her space"
I'm trying to take this to heart but it's frustrating when you send a text and get no response but like ZackieChan has told me, I'm not entitled to a response, it's her choice. So whatever, I'll let her do her thing. I wonder if she's just trying to phase me out nicely but all the texts seem sincere but could it all be mind games?
Hate this shit.
I don't want to play mind games. That's why I'm going silent. Giving her space, etc. She'll text me when she wants. If not, her loss like you said.
The worst thing about thinking someone is playing mind games...is that you inevitably start playing them on yourself, regardless if the girl actually is or not lol.
cool
Went on third date with a girl. And it went from the girl loving me to being turned off and officially over. I couldn't do the tongue kis, and admitted to being abstinent. Look I'm done for a while
I guess i will try and do this single thing for awhile. Going back on dating apps right now seems exhausting.
Hi dating gaf, I need some advice.
I've been seeing someone for couple of months, her name is Farah and we're getting on really well. I've told her about some of my past and she's happy to take things slowly and move at my pace which I'm really thankful for. We spend almost every weekend together and message and talk a lot throughout the week. Today we went shopping for a birthday present for a friends daughter and then Farah decided to do some shopping of her own.
After that we got some lunch, went for a walk around Leicester Square and then I dropped her off at home. As I was leaving she kissed me and then apologised immediately for it. I told her it's fine and we kissed again and hugged for a really long time we only stopped when her sister knocked on the window.
She messaged me just now and said she's really enjoying spending time with me and she feels like she's falling for me and wants to move things to the next level. I don't know how to respond, I really like her but I'm not sure if I'm really ready for a serious relationship. I care about her deeply, she's really amazing, funny, caring, understanding, she always listens to what I have to say and is always encouraging me to speak my mind and do things I might not do otherwise.
I think I'm ready but I'm worried that if we take this step I might lose her because I might let her down or I might not be able to give her what she wants. Should I talk to her about how I feel and my worries? I'm worried that if I bring this up to her she might decide I'm not worth it and move on.
Hi dating gaf, I need some advice.
I've been seeing someone for couple of months, her name is Farah and we're getting on really well. I've told her about some of my past and she's happy to take things slowly and move at my pace which I'm really thankful for. We spend almost every weekend together and message and talk a lot throughout the week. Today we went shopping for a birthday present for a friends daughter and then Farah decided to do some shopping of her own.
After that we got some lunch, went for a walk around Leicester Square and then I dropped her off at home. As I was leaving she kissed me and then apologised immediately for it. I told her it's fine and we kissed again and hugged for a really long time we only stopped when her sister knocked on the window.
She messaged me just now and said she's really enjoying spending time with me and she feels like she's falling for me and wants to move things to the next level. I don't know how to respond, I really like her but I'm not sure if I'm really ready for a serious relationship. I care about her deeply, she's really amazing, funny, caring, understanding, she always listens to what I have to say and is always encouraging me to speak my mind and do things I might not do otherwise.
I think I'm ready but I'm worried that if we take this step I might lose her because I might let her down or I might not be able to give her what she wants. Should I talk to her about how I feel and my worries? I'm worried that if I bring this up to her she might decide I'm not worth it and move on.
So I have a good platonic female friend who I've known for a year. We've been hangingout together regular and go out for dinners and dancing.
On Friday night, we finished dinner and I asked her to come over to my place and smoke some with me (she had never smoked before). We were smoking in my room and at one point were sitting in the bed facing next to each other (not too close) and I saw she seemed a bit nervous and breathing a bit heavy aand wondered if it's because she was expecting me to make a move on her. I could also be the weed. Right after that moment she said lets go dancing and we go up and nothing happened.
I'm wondering if I missed a chance with her. I did make a move on her six months ago but was shot down because she was kind of seeing someone but now she is single.
I would like to know GAF'd advice on how I can be with her. Maybe take her for dinner and dancing and make a move while we are dancing? Also does GAF thinks I missed a chance there or she wouldn't have gone for it?
Hi dating gaf, I need some advice.
I've been seeing someone for couple of months, her name is Farah and we're getting on really well. I've told her about some of my past and she's happy to take things slowly and move at my pace which I'm really thankful for. We spend almost every weekend together and message and talk a lot throughout the week. Today we went shopping for a birthday present for a friends daughter and then Farah decided to do some shopping of her own.
After that we got some lunch, went for a walk around Leicester Square and then I dropped her off at home. As I was leaving she kissed me and then apologised immediately for it. I told her it's fine and we kissed again and hugged for a really long time we only stopped when her sister knocked on the window.
She messaged me just now and said she's really enjoying spending time with me and she feels like she's falling for me and wants to move things to the next level. I don't know how to respond, I really like her but I'm not sure if I'm really ready for a serious relationship. I care about her deeply, she's really amazing, funny, caring, understanding, she always listens to what I have to say and is always encouraging me to speak my mind and do things I might not do otherwise.
I think I'm ready but I'm worried that if we take this step I might lose her because I might let her down or I might not be able to give her what she wants. Should I talk to her about how I feel and my worries? I'm worried that if I bring this up to her she might decide I'm not worth it and move on.
Don't get drunk or high with a girl you want to make a move on. Ever. You want to make sure she's into you and you don't want to doubt the situation because you believe she might be high.
No, I got that. What I was saying was don't get high with a girl you have any interest in. You didn't initially plan to make a move but its obvious you would have under the right circumstances. Get drunk and high with male friends and platonic female friends only. Trust me on this one.I think you misunderstood. The idea wasn't to get her high then make a move. I got her high and in that moment I thought is she expecting me to make a move and I didn't after she got up and said lets go dancing.
I think you misunderstood. The idea wasn't to get her high then make a move. I got her high and in that moment I thought is she expecting me to make a move and I didn't after she got up and said lets go dancing.
I'm at an awkward place where I'm trying to find spots to have sex, but it's proving difficult because we both live at home with conservative parents. My mum's always home, her parent's aren't but she's too afraid to bring me home. Only option for now seems to be parking in semi discreet areas 😒
I'm at an awkward place where I'm trying to find spots to have sex, but it's proving difficult because we both live at home with conservative parents. My mum's always home, her parent's aren't but she's too afraid to bring me home. Only option for now seems to be parking in semi discreet areas 😒
Or just do what everyone else does and go to the library
Danced for a woman at work. "Oh (my name)" and laughter ensued. What does it mean?
Danced for a woman at work. "Oh (my name)" and laughter ensued. What does it mean?
You suck at dancing.
I'm 22 and she's 20 but we're in a country where it's common to stay with your parents till your late 20s. She's also a FWB, not my girlfriend so I don't really want to introduce her to my mum. Not that'll it make a difference anyway, I've brought the topic up to my mum several times and she just flats out doesn't want to hear it. Hotel's are probably the cosiest option, but it's not really a cost effective one. Hope that I'll eventually convince her to just use her place when nobody's home.How old are you both? I'm not gonna say don't bang in public cuz that'd make me a hypocrite maybe (i'm sure someone else will anyway), but maybe get a cheap motel? Or tell your momma that you have a gf and you are an adult and put on some music and do it slow and quietlike instead of pounding away with mom in the next room? It's gotta be better than getting arrested or a ticket. I'm sure you can find a way to explain that to your conservative mom right?
Do you love her?
Can you see yourself being happy with her in 1, 5, 10 yrs?
Do you think all these issues can be worked out, or you'll be able to accept them, or they'll be building up resentment in you towards the relationship?
Have you talked to her about your apprehensions? How did she respond? If not, why not? How do you think she would respond?
It's okay for someone to not be the most physically fit or to have some mental health issues. The real issue is what that person is doing to try to improve/tackle that. If the answer is nothing, despite encouragement, then that is a problem.
If you can answer these honestly, you should have a better idea of how you should proceed?
Yeah, you moved in with her way too fast and the way you are feeling is normal. It sounds like both of you have problems you need to work on and living with someone only exacerbated them. Basically at this point you and her are roommates that barely get along.
How much is left on her lease?
Yeah, I love her. Despite all my issues and concerns I listed, we still get along well so it may just be me thinking about what is to be expected in a relationship. I haven't sat her down and discussed all of these issues in a "let's have a talk" setting but over the course of the year we've both brought them up in more casual settings. My main reason for not having a serious talk is my fear that she'll see it as the start of something that probably can't be fixed and we'll just end it right there.
So I spent Saturday morning with my girl until like around 6 am, dropped her off, went to sleep around 9, then woke up and went to work around 6. She calls me at 8 asking why I haven't texted her yet.
Now she's acting all disinterested when I try to start conversation the next day and she seems mad...is this common behavior?
"Your girl" - she's your girlfriend? Or just someone you dated a few times?
Yeah, I love her. Despite all my issues and concerns I listed, we still get along well so it may just be me thinking about what is to be expected in a relationship. I haven't sat her down and discussed all of these issues in a "let's have a talk" setting but over the course of the year we've both brought them up in more casual settings. My main reason for not having a serious talk is my fear that she'll see it as the start of something that probably can't be fixed and we'll just end it right there.
So I spent Saturday morning with my girl until like around 6 am, dropped her off, went to sleep around 9, then woke up and went to work around 6. She calls me at 8 asking why I haven't texted her yet.
Now she's acting all disinterested when I try to start conversation the next day and she seems mad...is this common behavior?
Asking me out 12 more times, never leaving me alone about it, spreading rumors to our mutual friends about me, plotting to "get" me. And then having the nerve to get into a fight with a friend of his - my now-husband - when we started dating because "he called dibs."
I invited a friend to spend the night on the couch to avoid a long late-night drive. When he came into my bedroom at night, and was refused, he raped me.
I turned him down for a second date and he told me he should have raped me on the first one because I was a frigid (slur) who'd never get laid any other way, and also nobody would ever love me.
One guy, a cop, someone I actually was friends with as a child, tried to entrap me in crimes after I turned him down.
Oh my god this actually gave me shivers (your edit). It reminded me of a similar thing that happened to an old friend at a party. He pinned her down on a bed and started kissing her, the door was open and she was crying and tried yelling for help. Two guys walked past making encouraging sounds towards the guy pinning her down. Until one other guy was walking past and stopped and said, "Uh, okay, I think you should stop now." to the guy on top of her.
He stuck his fingers up my skirt and into me. On the dance floor. Because I said I wouldn't go home with him. He thought he could get away with it because he was on the uni volleyball team and was tall and handsome. Fucking no.
A hand round my throat and being dragged down a back alley. Nothing happened, thankfully.