They're the same thing. You're basically asserting that as long as you can focus on your comfortable life, you couldn't care less about what happens in someone else's. I'm sure that works great for you and I won't condemn you for it, but it's not exactly a compassionate stance nor is it one I respect very much. Fortunately for you, you likely don't care.
Ok then what exactly an I supposed to do? Go and hunt the dude down and kill him? I mean I'm one person on a forum...am I supposed to just follow suit and throw a hissy fit to blend in and appease others who find fault here?
I can be compassionate when something calls for compassion, easily.
I don't know this girl, I don't know the dude who runs this site... I only know a gist of what happened and I have my own opinion on it just because I'm a reasonable person and I don't simply call for someone's head when people are drinking like sailors, there's always 2 sides of a story.
It's not like this girl was found dead in a ditch somewhere and this sites owner is the suspect. Whatever happen sounds like a whole bunch of bad fucking decisions from both parties and that's just my opinion.
Again what do you want me to do?
I have plenty of compassion when it's called for. This however, does not make me lose sleep... I mean come on.
This is all drama to me, I have my Share of drama to worry and care about yet... I'm not expecting anyone else to worry or care about it as they aren't associated with it.
Whatever happened here I was not a part of, therefore Its not my position to worry or care...everyone has their problems and things they've done or wish they could redo, maybe this is his... That's all I can say