Sigh, I'll keep playing.
This is nebulous phrase. I'd say that if a woman dresses like a club girl then she expects to be TREATED like a club girl, i.e. she is gonna get hit on, flirted with, oogled, judged as a sexual being, be "scored", yadda yadda because her outfit is indicating her intent, and if that is not the case then she needs to change. This narrative that a woman can dress however she wants and its only the men in the wrong when she gets lots of attention is ludicrous to me. There are times and places for that stuff, it's out in bars and clubs. OBVIOUSLY physical harassment or even uncouth verbal harassment are out of line, but to say "meh, she's just a 6" when she is wearing a clingy body sleeve with several boob windows is hardly some form of egregious barbarian behavior. She
could have worn jeans and a t-shirt to that event and fit right in with everyone else, but she wanted to stand out and she did so BECAUSE of her dress, it was made for attention and attention is what she got. It's not prudish or repressive to suggest that dressing to emphasize the physical assets (and looks like she spent a pretty penny on them) means she wants discussion, she can hardly give a shocked face that guys are talking about her body. Nothing wrong with it either, and I bet a thread like this is EXACTLY what she hoped would happen as I've thought more about her in the past day than in the previous couple of YEARS at least.
But yes, to be VERY clear, there is no excuse for physical harassment or uncouth behavior directly at her. I doubt anyone here would say anything negative to her face, as people generally refrain from doing that to anyone. But if she walked up to me and gave me an angry "Hey, my eyes are up here", well, what did you expect, lady? I got an operating system running on like 640k ram and right now my autoexec.bat file is just saying "boobies boobies boobies" but give it time and I'll move on. And if she were a real gamer she would appreciate that joke, we'd laugh and talk, and she could pick her dress up off my bedroom floor the following morning