I'd be offended, too. DCFC sucks.Motherfucker everyone says that. WHY
You remind me of someone though.
I'd be offended, too. DCFC sucks.Motherfucker everyone says that. WHY
So he spread rumors about you have herpes... and you have to even think about it?
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If you live somewhere outside of Boston or central maine, chances are I don't know you.I'd be offended, too. DCFC sucks.
You remind me of someone though.
Fuck medical issues. Fuck 'em.
I want to meet someone and be in a relationship, I really do, but those medical issues are just always in the back of my mind and I don't think I can be close with someone untill they are gone. Will probably have surgery in august, and will be left with an open wound that will take around 10 weeks to heal and will require constant packing and wound care in the beginning couple of weeks. And the wound is not in a place you want it to be. Won't be able to sit for the first 1-2 weeks.
Just annoying seeing people around me getting in and out of relationships like it's nothing. And kind of depressing.
Tired of being alone, /sigh.
Abscess?Fuck medical issues. Fuck 'em.
I want to meet someone and be in a relationship, I really do, but those medical issues are just always in the back of my mind and I don't think I can be close with someone untill they are gone. Will probably have surgery in august, and will be left with an open wound that will take around 10 weeks to heal and will require constant packing and wound care in the beginning couple of weeks. And the wound is not in a place you want it to be. Won't be able to sit for the first 1-2 weeks.
Just annoying seeing people around me getting in and out of relationships like it's nothing. And kind of depressing.
Tired of being alone, /sigh.
Abscess?
Pilonidal sinus.
Don't google it. Really
Already went to the hospital for it once, they cut it out and stitched it up, it came back. Next time they're cutting away a bit more and leaving the wound open so it can heal from the inside. Just read so much freaking horror stories about the healing process.
Pilonidal sinus.
Don't google it. Really
Already went to the hospital for it once, they cut it out and stitched it up, it came back. Next time they're cutting away a bit more and leaving the wound open so it can heal from the inside. Just read so much freaking horror stories about the healing process.
Hecatonchires said:I found out he cheated on me with a really effeminate sissy bitch.
What was the purpose of adding this particular detail about the person he cheated with? It's like mentioning a crime and then pointing out oh, they were black too.
I wouldn't read too much into it. Hecatonchires is rightly going to have some strong emotions over it so finding something to criticize the third party for is understandable.
So... Since I didn't really follow what's happening in the USA recently, what about gay marriage ? Is there going to be a vote in order to allow it (via a Federal Civil Law ? If I'm not mistaken, it's this kind of law that would be applied in all states, since the federal states have their own State Civil Law or something like that... I'm sorry, I'm not really familiar with the US legislation system) ? How does it look ? Are things going the wrong way, the right way ? The only thing I know is that Obama was in favor of same-sex union, and that California turned the possibility down... To be honest, I'm surprised that the issue isn't really discussed here.
So... Since I didn't really follow what's happening in the USA recently, what about gay marriage ? Is there going to be a vote in order to allow it (via a Federal Civil Law ? If I'm not mistaken, it's this kind of law that would be applied in all states, since the federal states have their own State Civil Law or something like that... I'm sorry, I'm not really familiar with the US legislation system) ? How does it look ? Are things going the wrong way, the right way ? The only thing I know is that Obama was in favor of same-sex union, and that California turned the possibility down... To be honest, I'm surprised that the issue isn't really discussed here (by "here", I mean in this very topic - I know that there are others topics on the subject on NeoGAF).
A page late and all that, but is exploring some potential shared hobbies/interests/tastes not an option? You stress some degree of commonality in that regard, but earlier on you noted that you basically have one night of experience with the fellow. Could you perhaps be writing the book on this guy before you're even a chapter in?I meet a dude last year, friend of some friends. Sexual chemistry ensues, we hang, we hook up, he's good people and a fun time.
I get vaguely guilt-tripped later because he saw a romantic slant in the whole endeavour, and I didn't. Suddenly my attitudes toward relationships and his potential as a boyfriend are being called into question by him because I'm not willing to proceed into that territory with him after just one (one!) night.
Anyway, it's cooled off a lot since then. I see the guy again a month or so ago (awkwardly, while on a date with someone new). I'm undeniably attracted to him still, but I don't see myself in a relationship with him at all. We just don't have the right things/passions/hobbies/interests/attitudes in common that I'd like to be able to share with a boyfriend. I've been totally open with him about this, and he's like "We enjoy each other's company, we make each other laugh, we have fun, isn't that enough?"
Without sounding like a dick, I want to say, no, it isn't. I mean, I enjoy plenty of people's company, I have laughs with plenty of people, I have fun with plenty of people. I feel like the criteria for my interest in someone for a relationship should therefore have more.
Despite all this, he's a good guy, and I'm attracted to (and open to fun with) him, but I feel like doing anything at all with him (something innocuous like a drink) would signal that I would want to pursue things with him, even if I just want to hang out.
I know the answer's pretty clear to what I should do, but at the same time, I hate the idea of cutting off someone who's generally pretty nice, attractive, and interested in me.
Last I heard, distance doesn't mean you can't resemble someone.If you live somewhere outside of Boston or central maine, chances are I don't know you.
Resentment, envy, bitchiness.What was the purpose of adding this particular detail about the person he cheated with? It's like mentioning a crime and then pointing out oh, they were black too.
fuck gay life in Germany,
3rd date in a row with 3 differente guys in the last 3 months that I go home loveless and sexless after wonderful hours of talking to each other. You could say maybe my looks don't match my profile or whatever, but hell no, that's not it, people here are weird, I am suspecting it's cultural.
These people can't fucking bond, I would like to know what the hell is in their heads.
fuck gay life in Germany,
3rd date in a row with 3 differente guys in the last 3 months that I go home loveless and sexless after wonderful hours of talking to each other. You could say maybe my looks don't match my profile or whatever, but hell no, that's not it, people here are weird, I am suspecting it's cultural.
These people can't fucking bond, I would like to know what the hell is in their heads.
You expect sex or at least kissing on the first date and if that doesn't happen, you move on to the next guy instead of trying to set up a second date. You expect people to bond after a few hours of conversation. Yeah, I'd say the problem lies with you.
You expect sex or at least kissing on the first date and if that doesn't happen, you move on to the next guy instead of trying to set up a second date. You expect people to bond after a few hours of conversation. Yeah, I'd say the problem lies with you.
I agree with Stabbie. When the issue came up in this very thread, you'd be hard pressed to find anyone that would be willing to have sex on a first date. If you're just looking for hook-ups isn't there something like Grindr in Germany? And just out of curiosity but where are you originally from sphinx?
Of course, if you're saying they aren't even agreeing to a second date, then I can understand the frustration.
Dude, you are so cute. Unfortunately your room is nothing compared to how mine can get sometimes.That's not the answer I wanted to hear at all.
Also you're on a different server than me.
me
Linked in case anyone might be interested, please ignore the dirty clothes in the hamper
oh and I am Mexican
Dude, you are so cute. Unfortunately your room is nothing compared to how mine can get sometimes.
I always thought you were from Brazil.
One more to add to the list
No, they just don't know what the fuck they want. They are people that have been single for so long that they don't know if it's worth it to take further steps and turn it into something.
When I date, I expect either:
.- hey it was nice but I don't think we are a match, if was nice having a drink with you though.
.- I'd like to ge to know you better, how about going for lunch next weekend?
and in both cases, it's o.k if sex or kissing/cuddling takes place but I don't demand it.
I don't get neither of those scenarios and it annoys me, is it too much to ask for them to tell me what they think?????? that's all I ask. Anything would do " you are hot but as a person, not quite my type" or the other way around. Something.
the worst part is, that I want to feel wanted or that someone likes me, I don't mind no sex in a first date or maybe even later but if someone said, "I think you are charming" or "You have nice eyes" or "I like your laugh" that would make my day and yes I do say stuff like that when I feel like it, stuff like " after seeing you live, I can confirm you are very attractive in person, not just in picture", there I am giving a step.
what do I get in return? crickets*.. what, they think they'll hurt me if they say, they didn't like me? fucking morons. They just make everything harder for all of us. I also get to reject people all the time and I ALWAYS get a thank you for saying it the way it is.
oh and I am Mexican
why brazil? I thought you were American with Latino/Mexican roots. Is that so, or are you a Mexican in Mexico?
So what exactly happens? They just never contact you ever again? Do you offer a second date? How do they respond?
II am a Mexican in Mexico, the others are Fakexicans
Why American with Latin roots?
Maybe they just like you as a friend. I moved to a new city three months ago and I have gone out with 6 different guys more than once (well 1 of them ended up being completely cray cray and haven't seen him since the only date we had) and I haven't done anything with them and it's not really a big deal.No, they just don't know what the fuck they want. They are people that have been single for so long that they don't know if it's worth it to take further steps and turn it into something.
When I date, I expect either:
.- hey it was nice but I don't think we are a match, if was nice having a drink with you though.
.- I'd like to ge to know you better, how about going for lunch next weekend?
and in both cases, it's o.k if sex or kissing/cuddling takes place but I don't demand it.
I don't get neither of those scenarios and it annoys me, is it too much to ask for them to tell me what they think?????? that's all I ask. Anything would do " you are hot but as a person, not quite my type" or the other way around. Something.
Maybe you can make a move when you are talking or something. Texting is not the same and it might me misunderstood.THE FUCK??? what is that for an answer??? I expect " NO, I won't go to your bed, neither alone or with you" or " Yeah, would have been nice, maybe later on".
because you once said you have problems finding people for dates where you live (something like that, not sure what the issue is) and in Mexico isn't hard to find a date, so I thought you were an American with Mexican parents in some lost town in Texas or New Mexico with little chances to get to know people. By the way, isn't Fernoca another mexican gay?
Maybe they just like you as a friend. I moved to a new city three months ago and I have gone out with 6 different guys more than once (well 1 of them ended up being completely cray cray and haven't seen him since the only date we had) and I haven't done anything with them and it's not really a big deal.
Maybe you can make a move when you are talking or something. Texting is not the same and it might me misunderstood.
A page late and all that, but is exploring some potential shared hobbies/interests/tastes not an option? You stress some degree of commonality in that regard, but earlier on you noted that you basically have one night of experience with the fellow. Could you perhaps be writing the book on this guy before you're even a chapter in?
I am mexican too :lol but I'm in Mexico City. Maybe you should just go out with a different mindset and it might be less frustrating. I always go out thinking about wanting to meet new people in this city so I have not been picky with the guys I've been dating. I usually like nerdy guys around my age (26) but for some reason I have a lot of "luck" with thirty-something guys. lol.what's your city/country? sounds like a thing with white guys, that's what I am suspecting at least.
my problem is also that when I see a picture, I know I will like that guy, speaking about sexual attraction only, I very very rarely change my mind upon meeting and that only happens when the pictures were too old.
these guys all sent me icons like "Interesting" "Cute" sometimes even "hot" and they don't make their move! I am the one liking them in the end and they just play the "yeah, no, don't know" card.
you are right in the second bolded, the guy from yesterday was a 6 feet tall redhead, very cute and friendly, a tiny bit effemniate and I suspect he might have been waiting for the man (me) to bring him to bed ...
I added a porn star I really like onto twitter. (Chase young) Had a nice convo with him and he was really nice. He really is adorable...but Helix keeps pushing him into these dungeon sets lately with skinnier guys and more spank stuff.
Ah well nothing beat watching him do the cinnamon challenge
Stick to first names. Asking for a last name early on can be a bit much.
I send a SMS saying, " Maybe I should have offered you my bed" (cause he looked tired) and what is his answer to the message? "It was nice that we had an exchange of ideas and a nice chat and that hug when I went home was nice"... THE FUCK??? what is that for an answer??? I expect " NO, I won't go to your bed, neither alone or with you" or " Yeah, would have been nice, maybe later on".
Am I wrong? I'd like some help here cause I don't understand these guys.
I send a SMS saying, " Maybe I should have offered you my bed" (cause he looked tired) and what is his answer to the message? "It was nice that we had an exchange of ideas and a nice chat and that hug when I went home was nice"... THE FUCK??? what is that for an answer??? I expect " NO, I won't go to your bed, neither alone or with you" or " Yeah, would have been nice, maybe later on".
You use it to put out the eyes of giants?Maybe I'm not hip, but what the hell is a cock sling?
You use it to put out the eyes of giants?
Little known fact: David ran out of rocks.