Whats behind taking it seriously though?
I have a hard problem trying to relate private sexual history to a persons overall personality.
What does the # Mean? This person will do _______?
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Your wife slept with over 20 guys in college, she tells you 20 years later
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Whats behind taking it seriously though?
I have a hard problem trying to relate private sexual history to a persons overall personality.
What does the # Mean? This person will do _______?
Bay Maximus
Banned
That's a lot of dicks, but it is twenty years ago *shrugs*. At that point you have to just let it go.
I guess I'm just a hypocrite in situations like this cause Lord knows I've had my fair share of escapades.
I guess I'm just a hypocrite in situations like this cause Lord knows I've had my fair share of escapades.
Poimandres
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I guess religious, social, or personal values can all influence the gravity one places on sex. For some people it's just more of a big deal than others, which I think is fine.
CountAntonius
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So it's bad to not want casual sex? Odd I thought it was like basically everything else in life a personal choice.
CountAntonius
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I think hypocrisy and double standards are absolutely wrong. However if a person is a certain way and feels they would be more compatible with someone who has a similar belief system I don't see any issue.
hypostasis
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Better to be coy about the matter and indicate that you've had a "decent number" of partners or some such rather than outright lie -- if the topic comes up at all, that is.
Also, can you share some entries from your 'sex diary'? I've never heard of such a thing and it sounds like it could be a goldmine.
Laughing Banana
Weeping Pickle
Man, 20 years is a long, long time to be petty for stuff like this.
That isn't how it works.
Are you saying that the amount of sexual partners/experience does not correlate to the sexual skills that one acquires? Sorry, it is how it works.
dreamcastmaster
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It's not that interesting, name, where we met, what we did, marks out of ten and pictures if I could get them. It's not like a blow by blow full on erotic diary or anything like that.
I have one penis. Is that weird?
I have read some funny stories where they've had more than one coming out of the strangest places
(like their nipples)
hypostasis
Banned
What compels you to have one in the first place? Do you attempt to acquire naughty pictures? If so, how much effort do you put into acquiring such pictures for an entry? Do you have multiple ratings for each woman or just an overall 'mark'? Do you review it every so often and what does your mental state consist in if you do so (e.g., are you brimming with pride or what have you)? Do you have more than one copy of the diary? Where do you stash it? What do you feel would happen if a person you are attempting to establish a long-term relationship with happened upon it and found an entry for themselves?
I hope you don't read any connotations of judgment into the above, as I'm simply trying to learn of a phenomenon I'm not familiar with.
Yep, statute of limitations for slut crimes is 4 years, as per dudebro law.
Byakuya769
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He/she is probably saying that the quality of your sex life has more to do with communication and investment than how much xp you have in your sex stats. Crazy, I know.
Monocle
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You can find this out by giving each of her past lovers a handjob and then plugging your results into this simple formula:
(average strokes to climax - 15) x number of guys = total thrusts received by your lady's snatch
BocoDragon
or, How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Realize This Assgrab is Delicious
I'm sure the conversation has evolved/devolved, but to answer the OP's question:
don't give a fuck.
Unless we're talking STDs, I assume they've been with someone before me. So what's the difference between 1 and 20?
I've been with 10+ and I'm not the greatest playboy so this really seems like it's not as "scandalous" as its made out to be.
don't give a fuck.
Unless we're talking STDs, I assume they've been with someone before me. So what's the difference between 1 and 20?
I've been with 10+ and I'm not the greatest playboy so this really seems like it's not as "scandalous" as its made out to be.
I totally agree, but what i mentioned is still a part of the equation.
hypostasis
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I appreciate that scientific work is being done on the matter, but this equation is flawed. Its reductio is that if we plug in my numbers and assume the woman has had only me, it returns a negative value (-12), a physical impossibility given the circumstances.
dreamcastmaster
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You're over-thinking it more than I am. Like I said it was just to keep track as I was losing track. I guess it's just an extension of my cataloging my movies, music and photography.
The pictures are easy to get since cellphone photography got to a decent level. The bigger digital camera was intimidating but the iphone isn't. ask the girl to take a picture of your dick 1st (you can delete that later) and then they'll most times agree to a reciprocal nude. Just keep it light-hearted.
Devolution
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This damn thread.
Someone who has fucked a lot people could be awful in bed.
Someone who hasn't fucked a lot of people could be great in bed.
Someone who has fucked a lot people could be a great person with ambition and a very carimg disposition.
Someone who hasn't fucked a lot of people could be fickle and insensitive.
There's no limit of stupid shit in this thread, assuming the worst of people just because of a number.
Someone who has fucked a lot people could be awful in bed.
Someone who hasn't fucked a lot of people could be great in bed.
Someone who has fucked a lot people could be a great person with ambition and a very carimg disposition.
Someone who hasn't fucked a lot of people could be fickle and insensitive.
There's no limit of stupid shit in this thread, assuming the worst of people just because of a number.
krypt0nian
Banned
Honestly. It never fails. There will be some socially fucked GAF thread to make me feel better about my life, and my place in it. FFS, the childish, puritanical bullshit some people spew.
hypostasis
Banned
I'm not asking for tips; I'm simply curious about the motivations for doing such a thing in addition to some of the technical details involved. If you ever want to ejumucate us on this most interesting phenomenon, please do answer the questions I asked.
Monocle
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The -15 compensates for variables like vag heat balanced against how weirded out the guys would be to have their ex's partner milking their rod. There's no need to apply it to yourself. Thus my formula remains sound.
hypostasis
Banned
"Sir Isaac Newtons himself, who cou'd measure the courses of the Planets, and weigh the Earth as in a pair of scales, even he had not Algebra enough to reduce that amiable Part of our species [women] to a just equation: and they are the only heavenly bodies, whose orbits are yet uncertain." --David Hume (in a letter dated 1751)
My dear sir, while I've no doubt you are on the precipice of producing the "just equation" Hume refers to -- and many more pertaining to women and sex, I'm sure -- your original equation remains flawed. My reductio necessarily remains intact because the equation will always produce a negative value for any individual with a sufficiently low number of partners with low rod-strokes-to-milking-completion values.
(Example: Supposing a woman has had a single past partner, the rod-strokes-to-milking-completion value is set at 3 as in my original example, and this previous partner thrust into the woman at least once, the equation still generates a negative value, an impossibility given the circumstances.)
I suspect we will be compelled to utilize the notion of a function to capture the essence of what we're after here.
Respectfully Yours
hs
Monocle
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It really depends on what older god you are trying to please .... I hear that most people "work with what we got" and all ... but the important is that the "virgin" has to suffer a lot.
She might not even NEED to die.
freenudemacusers
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I see you have not addressed the 'stretched out' issue. That means it must be true.
Always-honest
Banned
Yuup. If a woman has sex for more than 20 times:
It's true, cause an insecure guy on the internet told me so.
Always-honest
Banned
dammit Neogaf.. double post
Aquavelvaman
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This thread is all things to all people
freenudemacusers
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There is plenty of room for doubles in here, a lot of guys have posted.
Reminds me of a flash game I used to play.
Karsticles
Member
Ahhhhh, that makes a lot of sense. I forgot that Issun called Waka that. Between the name and your avatar, I imagined being stoned in a room prophesizing (sp?) about the future.
The "if you care you're an insecure asshole" brigade need to get down of their own fuckin high horses.
Sex means different things to different people and the number of sexual partners a person has had says something about their own attitudes towards sex.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with desiring a partner who shares your values and to suggest otherwise is ignorant and rude.
I know it's fashionable to exhibit a laissez faire attitude towards all things sex when talking anonymously online but everyone has their own boundaries within which they're comfortable operating.
Sex means different things to different people and the number of sexual partners a person has had says something about their own attitudes towards sex.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with desiring a partner who shares your values and to suggest otherwise is ignorant and rude.
I know it's fashionable to exhibit a laissez faire attitude towards all things sex when talking anonymously online but everyone has their own boundaries within which they're comfortable operating.
donkey show
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Are you really going to care if your partner had 20 sex partners in her early 20's when you are 45? Aren't you kind of 'all-in' at that point and over all this macho bullshit?
you married her. lets assume you got to know her first.
Any bearing that 'lots of sex' might have on her personality would already be known to you, regardless of whether you know how many specific partners she had.
If you want someone caring and monogamous, that should be who you married - so any sexual partners in the past either didn't affect that, or were also caring and monogamous at the time.
If you want someone free spirited, same again.
what she did and who she was back in college days is part of what makes her her now. If you wished she had fewer partners, you're basically saying you wish she was different.
Any bearing that 'lots of sex' might have on her personality would already be known to you, regardless of whether you know how many specific partners she had.
If you want someone caring and monogamous, that should be who you married - so any sexual partners in the past either didn't affect that, or were also caring and monogamous at the time.
If you want someone free spirited, same again.
what she did and who she was back in college days is part of what makes her her now. If you wished she had fewer partners, you're basically saying you wish she was different.
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