Metroidvania
People called Romanes they go the house?
It's like I explained before, when you step through one of those doors, you enter your body from that time. You retain memories but you are entering into what is supposed to exist there. At that point, the physical body is pre-baptism Booker and the mind is player-booker. The person dying is the physical so they did kill pre-baptism Booker. The only people who don't adhere to this are Elizabeth and the twins. Elizabeth because she is like a god now and the twins because they seem to be a special case for some reason.
I think the Lutece's are a special case because Comstock killed them while they were in their time travel machine.
They seem to be ghosts in the system more so than not, given their records of keeping count of Booker's heads every time, but introducing new choices such as the bird vs cage, introducing the armor vigor, telling Liz to open a tear...
They're basically guiding and re-shaping Booker throughout the course of Infinite (probably based on evidence from other, failed timelines) as to give him the highest chance of success of undoing their and Comstock's damage/atrocities.