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CFA response to anti-gay alleg. "Guilty as charged." Do NOT gloat about eating at CFA

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KtSlime

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Doesn't this always happen?

The best way to ensure no change ever happens is to not fight for change. Progress isn't innate to the human condition, nor is it guaranteed. We all have to work together to make this world a better place.
 

Gaborn

Member
Oh I care, I just thought gay people's rights were progressing, with the DADT thing, the president publicly stating that he supports gay marriage, etc. so I didn't see what the problem was. That not every single human being on the planet agreed with gay marriage? That as the inevitable starts to happen and gay marriage starts becoming more and more accepted, there would still be some last remaining groups hanging on to their beliefs? Doesn't this always happen?

How about that there is a difference between not favoring gay marriage and trying actively to stop it? Also, are you saying you would maintain your confusion if the donations were to a white supremacist group?
 
don't know why it makes people angry to see others being active and protesting things they don't like. kinda like how some people wanted OWS to fail miserably even though they agreed with their message.

The "with us or against us" attitude ive seen on facebook doesn't win people over
 
Oh I care, I just thought gay people's rights were progressing, with the DADT thing, the president publicly stating that he supports gay marriage, etc. so I didn't see what the problem was. That not every single human being on the planet agreed with gay marriage? That as the inevitable starts to happen and gay marriage starts becoming more and more accepted, there would still be some last remaining groups hanging on to their beliefs? Doesn't this always happen?

As of May 2012
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Still got a ways to go don't you think?

Obama's endorsement has helped though.
 

MVP

Banned
How about that there is a difference between not favoring gay marriage and trying actively to stop it? Also, are you saying you would maintain your confusion if the donations were to a white supremacist group?

Right, that's why I said a few posts ago that now I understand.
 

MVP

Banned
The best way to ensure no change ever happens is to not fight for change. Progress isn't innate to the human condition, nor is it guaranteed. We all have to work together to make this world a better place.

Well said, instead of insulting me for not being so knowledgeable on the subject or not caring that much, putting me in my place with truth. I like it.
 

Mumei

Member
1998? Alaska sure was ahead of the hate curve, huh?

The initial state-level mini-DOMAs (and DOMA itself) and state constitutional amendments were essentially responses to what happened in Hawaii in 1993 and 1996.

So actually right on time.
 

Trey

Member
as i said a few pages back,
huge business mistake

It will be interesting to see the fall out from this misstep. It's crazy how the donations report keg powder was ignited by comments made toward a Baptist website during an interview.

Sonned himself.
 

Mumei

Member
MIMIC, looking at your post from earlier in the topic, I am not sure how you could be unaware that there is a right to marriage when you are certainly no stranger to these topics, that is not a new argument for you, and I can't imagine you haven't been corrected in the past by someone over the years. It just seems bizarre to me.

But since I am apparently mistaken:

"Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival.... To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discrimination. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State."

- Loving v Virginia

And nor is this the first case holding this to be the case, though I can't be arsed to go through the Proposition 8 trial court transcripts and find when it was mentioned. But trust me! Or look it up yourself; either works.

People have a right to marriage. While there are reasonable restrictions on the basis of, for instance, age or mental capacity, there are no reasonable arguments for restricting marriage to being solely between members of the opposite sex, any more than there are arguments for restricting marriage to being solely between members of the same race. Each and every single one of the purported arguments was utterly dismantled during the Proposition 8 trial, to the extent that one of the only expert witnesses which the defense presented, David Blankenhorn, now supports marriage equality.

So there you are.
 

ivysaur12

Banned
Is there anyway to check which one of my facebook friends have RVSP'd to Huckabee's CFA appreciation day?

Look at 2004 . . . that was the year of "Let's make sure Bush wins by getting voters to the ballot box to hate on gays!". :-( Fuck you, Ken Mehlman.

Fuck you, Ken Mehlman indeed.
 

Al-ibn Kermit

Junior Member
Hell yeah. In an election year and after the stance he took, it would just be fodder.

Politically? No, he wouldn't eat there.
Personally? Who knows?


Here's the thing, you can't blame individual franchise owners for the CEO being a piece of shit. You'd probably have to avoid practically all restaurants and retail outlets (besides JC Penny's of course) if you wanted to live like that.

I think Obama, would in fact, eat at Chick-Fil-A if the opportunity presented itself. Just to show that he holds no grudges toward the honest people running individual restaurants.

I mean, this is more about blaming the wrong person than doing the right thing..
 

FyreWulff

Member
Here's the thing, you can't blame individual franchise owners for the CEO being a piece of shit. You'd probably have to avoid practically all restaurants and retail outlets (besides JC Penny's of course) if you wanted to live like that.

I think Obama, would in fact, eat at Chick-Fil-A if the opportunity presented itself. Just to show that he holds no grudges toward the honest people running individual restaurants.

I mean, this is more about blaming the wrong person than doing the right thing..

Much like how I can choose to stop eating at CFA because their CEO is a turbo-bigot, franchisees can elect to franchise a different chain. Nobody forced them to license CFA.
 

btkadams

Member
Yup.

Also who's the male sales associate at Forever 21 who rvsp'd to this, I mean come on.

you'd have to be insane to be a guy working at forever 21 anyways. yippee, you get a staff discount on the worst quality (and smallest mens selection) clothes ever.
 

MIMIC

Banned
MIMIC, looking at your post from earlier in the topic, I am not sure how you could be unaware that there is a right to marriage when you are certainly no stranger to these topics, that is not a new argument for you, and I can't imagine you haven't been corrected in the past by someone over the years. It just seems bizarre to me.

But since I am apparently mistaken:

"Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival.... To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discrimination. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State."

- Loving v Virginia

And nor is this the first case holding this to be the case, though I can't be arsed to go through the Proposition 8 trial court transcripts and find when it was mentioned. But trust me! Or look it up yourself; either works.

People have a right to marriage. While there are reasonable restrictions on the basis of, for instance, age or mental capacity, there are no reasonable arguments for restricting marriage to being solely between members of the opposite sex, any more than there are arguments for restricting marriage to being solely between members of the same race. Each and every single one of the purported arguments was utterly dismantled during the Proposition 8 trial, to the extent that one of the only expert witnesses which the defense presented, David Blankenhorn, now supports marriage equality.

So there you are.

Well yeah Gaborn brought that to my attention the other day. Before then, I was never aware of Loving v Virginia. I mean, marriage never prevented anyone from progressing any further in life than any single person so I just figured that it wasn't a "right".

But like I said before, I still think marriage is between a man and a woman. However, I personally don't care if gay marriage were legal; it's just not something I would ever vote for but I'm not going to vote against it either. If it happens, it happens and I'd be fine with the outcome.
 

Sai-kun

Banned
F21 does have a guy's section, although like someone said, it's like...always just a tiny ass corner of the store, with just a couple different t shirts and stuff. Some decent stuff sometimes.
 
But like I said before, I still think marriage is between a man and a woman. However, I personally don't care if gay marriage were legal; it's just not something I would ever vote for

This just doesn't make sense to me though. It doesn't affect you and makes others happy. Why wouldn't you vote for it? And why does marriage have to be between a man and a woman exactly without using the religious argument because religion doesn't nor never has owned marriage.
 

Ptaaty

Member
How do you feel about the president using corporate funds to further anti-gay marriage legislation?

I don't like it at all. I don't like the position either - it just won't affect whether or not I eat there. I'm just being honest about it - corporate funds do all kinds of things I disagree with at many companies.

It is a bit tough because I realize that money is what talks - my business. But this is not really going to be a direct correlation. My money supports good food when I buy food....it doesn't mean I am directly voting for agreeing with all positions regarding the people that made it.

Maybe I am being obtuse, I think people should bitch about it, but a viewpoint that doesn't actually affect the product doesn't affect my purchase.
 

Vanillalite

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As of May 2012


Still got a ways to go don't you think?

Obama's endorsement has helped though.

Yeah though I think this is one of those issues that has exponentially started to shift each year since the turn of the new millennium. I feel like we've come a fuck ton farther than most would have ever dreamt of in terms of public acceptance of things LGBT in just the say year or two.
 

MIMIC

Banned
This just doesn't make sense to me though. It doesn't affect you and makes others happy. Why wouldn't you vote for it?

People base their votes on their opinions, not whether or not it directly affects them.

And why does marriage have to be between a man and a woman exactly without using the religious argument because religion doesn't nor never has owned marriage.

It doesn't necessarily HAVE to be between a man and a woman, which is why I said I would never vote against it. I can live in a world with gay marriage; I wouldn't fight it. But like I said, I wouldn't favor it.
 

Loofy

Member
This just doesn't make sense to me though. It doesn't affect you and makes others happy. Why wouldn't you vote for it? And why does marriage have to be between a man and a woman exactly without using the religious argument because religion doesn't nor never has owned marriage.
Someone might believe a kid should have a father and mother and marriage being the tool to promote families.
Might be a different kind of bigotry but not entirely religious.
 

KtSlime

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Someone might believe a kid should have a father and mother and marriage being the tool to promote families.
Might be a different kind of bigotry but not entirely religious.

In that case we should make it illegal for there to be single parents. Unless you are to assume that two same sexed parents is worse than one. I however take a more measured approach and believe that the more positive adult influences in the raising of a child the better.
 

Sai-kun

Banned
Someone might believe a kid should have a father and mother and marriage being the tool to promote families.
Might be a different kind of bigotry but not entirely religious.

This argument comes up time and again, and I don't understand why, because it doesn't make a damn bit of sense.
 

Nert

Member
It doesn't necessarily HAVE to be between a man and a woman, which is why I said I would never vote against it. I can live in a world with gay marriage; I wouldn't fight it. But like I said, I wouldn't favor it.

At the risk of sounding rude when I'm really just genuinely curious... why do you feel this way? Do you believe that there is some inherent benefit to society for all marriages to only be between a man and a woman? Is it a personal comfort thing? Whatever qualm you have with gay marriage is significant enough to prevent you from supporting it with a vote if you had the chance.
 

Ikael

Member
Then they can join in and plead with corporate to stop funding these anti-gay organizations. Win-win.

Sorry, but you cannot ask people to risk their jobs in the middle of a great depression for a cause, no matter how right it is. Don't get me wrong, Chick-Fil-A deserves every single ounce of criticism, gay marriage is something that we shouldn't be debating in the XXIth century and I cannot wait for this PPRR debacle to be studied in universities, but focusing the protest in the lower echelons of the company is really unfair, and a counterproductive tactic (which kind of preassure and influence can exert a fast food grunt, in their company, then again?).
 

Downhome

Member
Ok, I'm sure you all have seen that fake McDonald's sign taking up for CFA by now. Well, the Wendy's next to where I work put up a sign like that for real, replacing their promotion for the Baconator Jr. things.
 

Jackben

bitch I'm taking calls.
I have a feeling that the folks at my local Wendy's saw that online, assumed it was real, and decided to follow what they thought was a real sign.
If this is true whoever is the manager there will get sacked. Unless Wendy's are outing themselvs bigots as well.

Take a picture and send it to a local news outlet. Also post the picture here.
 

Jackben

bitch I'm taking calls.
Even if it were true, it's not difficult to skip eating at a fast food restaurant
"Oh no what will we eat instead" is not even close to being what the issue is.
Businesses should stay out of politics
Yeah, I don't get it at all. If you're anti-gay why not just keep your bigotry to your personal life? Terrible business sense to alienate potential customers and cut into your profits for no reason.
 
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