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Ask her if she's a woman or a girl. Grown people ask each other out. Grown people don't play games. Only girls and princesses sit in their tower waiting for prince charming like the selfish spoiled brats they are.
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Ask her if she's a woman or a girl. Grown people ask each other out. Grown people don't play games. Only girls and princesses sit in their tower waiting for prince charming like the selfish spoiled brats they are.
I tried thinking about math and I lasted but then i kept slipping out and tried to get a better position and I just kind of got nervous and anxious and it was just downhill from there
Kegels.
How does one do Kegels?
You know that muscle you use to stop your pee stream? Or how you can make your boner flex and point upwards? What you want to do is flex that muscle and clench your butt cheeks at the same time like you're boning a woman deeply and hold it for 10 seconds, then release. Do that about 10 times for a full kegel workout.
You know that muscle you use to stop your pee stream? Or how you can make your boner flex and point upwards? What you want to do is flex that muscle and clench your butt cheeks at the same time like you're boning a woman deeply and hold it for 10 seconds, then release. Do that about 10 times for a full kegel workout.
Just got back from a date I with a girl I met on POF....
God damn...best date I've ever had. Period. The first date I had with me ex was pretty fucking good, but this blew it away. I've been waiting a long time to have something like this.
We had lunch at a really nice hibachi joint. There was instant chemistry and attraction the moment we sat down. Sure, we sent texts and talked (a lot) during the week, but that doesn't measure up to how you intereact face to face.
Tons of kino and mouth to mouth fun She was really happy to see me and had a blast. She wants to see me again tomorrow, providing work doesn't get in the way. She didn't want to stop holding me. She grabbed my shirt and bit my lips so I would keep kissing her.
Anyway, to make things even better, my tickets to Nero and PAX East came in the mail too. Fucking baller ass day son.
lol, amazing the disparity of the "dating spectrum" in this thread, from guys who post asking about sex advice to guys who can't even get laid.
Then guys like me who are like "huh?"
No, no. This is where we inform one another on how we did not get laid.Soooo this is where you come inform you got laid or what?
This been posted here yet?
Opinions?
100% agree, comes a time when a man has to be a man, stop being beta and make a move on the girl
I'm very happy for you guys experiencing success on this page, keep up the great stories. Wish I could say the same.
Came to the realization I've been friend-zoned by this girl even though I made my romantic intentions crystal-clear from the start, and kept trying to escalate kino. I'm just going to drop contact with her. Ah well.
My girlfriend lives 1,000 miles away, you guys should be happy that you can potentially find someone in just a few hours.
Everyone who thinks the man should make the first move 100% of the time are literally children who don't know how to be adults.
Women are adults just like you. If you want something, you get up and fucking go for it, don't roll over like a dog.
Girls in Québec just never make the first move. Like, ever. They just wait for you to do it and then complain when you don't. Yes, it's childish, but that's how they roll.
I'm pretty sure that's how it is in most places.
I agree with what you are saying BUT I would also say that it really depends on the cultural context you're in.Everyone who thinks the man should make the first move 100% of the time are literally children who don't know how to be adults.
Women are adults just like you. If you want something, you get up and fucking go for it, don't roll over like a dog.
Just got back from a date I with a girl I met on POF....
God damn...best date I've ever had. Period. The first date I had with me ex was pretty fucking good, but this blew it away. I've been waiting a long time to have something like this.
We had lunch at a really nice hibachi joint. There was instant chemistry and attraction the moment we sat down. Sure, we sent texts and talked (a lot) during the week, but that doesn't measure up to how you intereact face to face.
Tons of kino and mouth to mouth fun She was really happy to see me and had a blast. She wants to see me again tomorrow, providing work doesn't get in the way. She didn't want to stop holding me. She grabbed my shirt and bit my lips so I would keep kissing her.
Anyway, to make things even better, my tickets to Nero and PAX East came in the mail too. Fucking baller ass day son.
I'm very happy for you guys experiencing success on this page, keep up the great stories. Wish I could say the same.
Came to the realization I've been friend-zoned by this girl even though I made my romantic intentions crystal-clear from the start, and kept trying to escalate kino. I'm just going to drop contact with her. Ah well.
I would suggest you not do that. You could have her introduce you to her other female friends are single. Even then having a platonic relationship is not so bad; she could always be a wing-woman. What makes you think she friend-zoned you?
Frommy experience, women who knew you had an interest in them will rarely, if ever, introduce you to their single friends.
Dammit, I'm in one of those ruts again: No potential women in real life that I know of, nothing online. Fuck.
It's more like they aren't going to dump people THEY don't find appealing on their friends.
Yet, female friends are good if you can handle not fucking every woman you're around.
It's more like they aren't going to dump people THEY don't find appealing on their friends.
Yet, female friends are good if you can handle not fucking every woman you're around.
Yeah and I've been there many times and now things are absolutely crazy for me (too crazy, insofar that I'm actually avoiding girls that want to spend time with me now...)
What I did on days like that was usually send out a bunch of new messages on dating sites if I had the time.
Should've went up to them and asked them what was up.Ok GAF I need some answer.
How do you recognize if someone is into you ?
Cause today I had a weird day. Went to the mall alone cause wanted to buy something real quick and left but there where those 2 girls who where kept starring at me until I left.
Really I don't get it :/
Ok GAF I need some answer.
How do you recognize if someone is into you ?
Cause today I had a weird day. Went to the mall alone cause wanted to buy something real quick and left but there where those 2 girls who where kept starring at me until I left.
Really I don't get it :/
Should've went up to them and asked them what was up.
"Hey, you two! I couldn't help but notice that you were oogling me from over yonder."
Were they biting their lips while being shifty with their hands in their crotch areas?
What springs to mind is you could have walked up to them and make up a bullshit question to ask them and gone from there (as in 'where's the blah blah?' if they're into you they won't care how dumb the question was). Does it even matter if you're talking about random people you didn't interact with and probably won't ever see again?
We've been seeing each other for two months and she refuses to give any more physical contact than the "Christian side hug."I would suggest you not do that. You could have her introduce you to her other female friends are single. Even then having a platonic relationship is not so bad; she could always be a wing-woman. What makes you think she friend-zoned you?
We've been seeing each other for two months and she refuses to give any more physical contact than the "Christian side hug."
There comes a point where shyness is a wall you just can't get past. There's no sign that she'll get physically comfortable anytime soon at all. She does go out of her way to pretty herself up for me and to go out, but even when I steer the conversation to something flirtatious or sexual it just never goes anywhere. I'm getting the feeling she just wants a guy she can comfortably be her nerdy self with, but not take it anymore than being buddies (I know because I've walked into this trap of a setup before).
I literally have other platonic, female friends who exhibit more sexual contact with me than this girl. And it's getting real old...if you don't let a guy so much as give you a full frontal hug by the fifth date, there's something wrong with the picture.
I literally have other platonic, female friends who exhibit more sexual contact with me than this girl. And it's getting real old...if you don't let a guy so much as give you a full frontal hug by the fifth date, there's something wrong with the picture.
We've been seeing each other for two months and she refuses to give any more physical contact than the "Christian side hug."
There comes a point where shyness is a wall you just can't get past. There's no sign that she'll get physically comfortable anytime soon at all. She does go out of her way to pretty herself up for me and to go out, but even when I steer the conversation to something flirtatious or sexual it just never goes anywhere. I'm getting the feeling she just wants a guy she can comfortably be her nerdy self with, but not take it anymore than being buddies (I know because I've walked into this trap of a setup before).
I literally have other platonic, female friends who exhibit more sexual contact with me than this girl. And it's getting real old...if you don't let a guy so much as give you a full frontal hug by the fifth date, there's something wrong with the picture.
Same.I'd say full frontal hug by first date minimum.
I'd gotten further with girls and then have them clam up (pre-sex). I would have suggested / would suggest being direct that you need more. If it's gotten to that point you should face the music. Girls have their reasons, but it's usually basically fear (of one thing or another).
To me that seems more like fear than friend zone necessarily. Just my take.
Nice going, mate! Though I had a look at POF. The site seems like bullshit. It says pretty much everyone is online near me even though it's 6am here. Though that doesn't matter to you now!
We've been seeing each other for two months and she refuses to give any more physical contact than the "Christian side hug."
There comes a point where shyness is a wall you just can't get past. There's no sign that she'll get physically comfortable anytime soon at all. She does go out of her way to pretty herself up for me and to go out, but even when I steer the conversation to something flirtatious or sexual it just never goes anywhere. I'm getting the feeling she just wants a guy she can comfortably be her nerdy self with, but not take it anymore than being buddies (I know because I've walked into this trap of a setup before).
I literally have other platonic, female friends who exhibit more sexual contact with me than this girl. And it's getting real old...if you don't let a guy so much as give you a full frontal hug by the fifth date, there's something wrong with the picture.
Ok tips to get out of friend zone. Dug myself a deep hole this time XD! Can't get out. Its either fuck you or try and get out.
2012 has sucked hard for me on the dating area ahahhaa
An example of the latter is a man who has a "mid-life" crisis. He goes out to see if he still has "it" or "mojo" what say you. Such a thing is done to see if the man posses the ability to still attract women, but the man does it for the sake of boosting his own morale or tooting his horn so to speak. .
Alright Gaf I have a riddle that I have been dwelling on for the past day or so. I will keep it blunt and to the point and all I want if possible is defining factors between the two agenda's I am about to propose.
The riddle is this, what are traits that define the difference between a woman who is flirting with you because she is legitimately interested in dating. Compared to a woman that flirts with you into the attempt to see if she can draw your attraction/attention just for the sake of boosting her own confidence.
An example of the latter is a man who has a "mid-life" crisis. He goes out to see if he still has "it" or "mojo" what say you. Such a thing is done to see if the man posses the ability to still attract women, but the man does it for the sake of boosting his own morale or tooting his horn so to speak.
I may not be on expert on such subject, but I have a infallible memory, so if they are any additions question that must be ask to help me with my riddle then I can recall just about every minor detail.
Thanks.