goldenpp72 said:
I'd assume that most people are born 'straight', and if people are born gay (I always assume this is the case ultimately) they may often dabble with the opposite gender due to social peasure, but ultimately would still rather have their preferred gender.
IF people are born gay? Careful there.
With that said, that's basically a fair response but keep in mind, sexuality is basically a continuum. If there was no social pressure either way I suspect a lot more people would experiement. As it is it's not that uncommon for people, especially during puberty, to explore their sexuality with their friends, it's just another way of discovering your body.
I guess I'm really wary of just applying a label to someone because of one random event or decision, a lot of people have made a lot of different decisions, and sometimes they work out, sometimes they regret them and are not representative of who they are. The guy was curious, no need to put any more of a label on it than that.
Maybe it's a bit black and white, I don't mind gay or straight people, but unless you're bisexual or gay, I really don't see why the desire for a dick in your ass is so appealing.
Well, it's true I don't see the appeal of vagina personally, but who knows his full reasons or motives for wanting to try something different?
But really, if you're not bisexual, gay, or straight, then what exactly possesses one to want to experiment?
Well, there's the puberty example I mentioned, historically prison sex (that is, lack of available females, close quarters, etc. It's not ALWAYS rape...) heck, British boarding schools used to have a notorious reputation for being rife with gay experimentation.