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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|

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Ollie Pooch

In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
I'm 29. Another oldie :p

The bf is on the other side of the country, so I spent Valentines working, watching the Grammys then watching porn. Classy.
 
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ZeroFate

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25 here, I've only been to one gay club. It was... meh. Lots of MUCH older guys and drag queens. I went with a few of my straight friends and I'm pretty sure they had a better time than I did gawking.

I'm sure I'll give it another whirl eventually, but I much prefer straight clubs for now. At least I can get an ego boost when some drunk chicks try to hook up with me. I've actually been slapped by one after making out with her for a whole night only to break the bad news. -_-
 
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fernoca

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Close to 29 here. :p
Most of my bar/club experience has been a big disappointment. Full of egocentric, arrogant, cliche gay men that only care about themselves and only look for guys that will get other people talking and gossiping rather than actual interest.


Spent Valentine's Day with 3 other friends, playing 'Marvel vs Capcom 3' (friend got an early copy, game was underwhelming), eating burritos, churros and pizza (the best I could since I got a molar removed last friday) and watching 'Buried' (movie, with Ryan Reynolds..was interesting).
 
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Magnus

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Man do I ever have a talent for crushing on the wrong guys. The social whores, the unavailable, the attached, the straights, the actual whores....god damn.

WTB someone wholesome and normal.

And such a guy entered my life lately, and he's gay, but I don't suspect any interest. And man, is he ever cute and just my type.
 
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ZephyrFate

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Magnus said:
Man do I ever have a talent for crushing on the wrong guys. The social whores, the unavailable, the attached, the straights, the actual whores....god damn.

WTB someone wholesome and normal.

And such a guy entered my life lately, and he's gay, but I don't suspect any interest. And man, is he ever cute and just my type.
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wait... you're saying this after you had a bunch of casual sex like a few weeks ago? call me confused because is that wholesome or normal? lol
 
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krypt0nian

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Since we no longer have our beloved thread, i guess this goes here.

Watched Bearcity film today and I have to say it's better than most gay flics out there.. Genuinely funny at times and surprisingly graphic sex scenes.
 
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Magnus

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ZephyrFate said:
wait... you're saying this after you had a bunch of casual sex like a few weeks ago? call me confused because is that wholesome or normal? lol
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Haha, yeah, had an encounter or two over the last month with some new friends, lol. I thought there was something with the one guy, but I've since discovered he spends almost every other night with someone else, so he's on another level I'm not comfortable with.

I think infrequent one-nighters can fall under 'normal', lol.
 
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Prez

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How should I tell my bf our relationship in bed is awful? Other than that things are going fine, but I'm getting really frustrated so we'll have to talk about it anyhow.

Basically: he's getting some, I'm not. By which I mean it ends for him too soon.
 
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_Isaac

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Stabbie said:
How should I tell my bf our relationship in bed is awful? Other than that things are going fine, but I'm getting really frustrated so we'll have to talk about it anyhow.

Basically: he's getting some, I'm not. By which I mean it ends for him too soon.
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Do you want to finish at the same time or something? Do you not cum at all or do you just end up taking yourself to the end? Either way, the best way is to just be honest I guess. Tell him you'd prefer it if he didn't finish so much sooner than you. I guess you'll just have to concentrate on you for a bit first, so you can get closer to the edge and get a head start. I don't know if that's how it works. @_@ lol virgin advice.
 
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ZephyrFate

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you could just tell him to focus on playing with your cock or prostate more. or if he finishes soon, ask him to finish you off as a courtesy?
 
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Ezduo

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Tried to find my old thread but I apparently can't look up my old threads or posts for some reason. Basically it was about me trying to have sex with a guy, didn't work out so well. I consider myself straight but lately I've been having the itch to try a guy again and hopefully have a better experience. Well, tonight I went through with it and sucked off a guy. Not that bad actually. He was nice and around my age. Went well I thought. I wasn't up for kissing or even getting off, it was all about trying to get him off which I accomplished. Even complimented me on my apparent skills. Good to know I suppose. I'm beginning to think I'm slightly bisexual. I'm still attracted to women but under the right circumstances I think I could be with a guy and enjoy it. Maybe not one of those bearish type guys but still, it's something.

Anyway, I'm only posting this because in my old thread someone was curious if the experience was going to put me off men forever and it apparently hasn't. Not saying I'm going to go out tomorrow and get a boyfriend or anything but maybe possibly in the future if he looks a certain way and I know him and he's nice and I'm feeling a certain way I could potentially have sex with him and enjoy it. Which I guess makes me slightly bisexual? I think I'll just consider myself straightish.
 
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Replicant

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Ezduo said:
Tried to find my old thread but I apparently can't look up my old threads or posts for some reason. Basically it was about me trying to have sex with a guy, didn't work out so well. I consider myself straight but lately I've been having the itch to try a guy again and hopefully have a better experience. Well, tonight I went through with it and sucked off a guy. Not that bad actually. He was nice and around my age. Went well I thought. I wasn't up for kissing or even getting off, it was all about trying to get him off which I accomplished. Even complimented me on my apparent skills. Good to know I suppose. I'm beginning to think I'm slightly bisexual. I'm still attracted to women but under the right circumstances I think I could be with a guy and enjoy it. Maybe not one of those bearish type guys but still, it's something.

Anyway, I'm only posting this because in my old thread someone was curious if the experience was going to put me off men forever and it apparently hasn't. Not saying I'm going to go out tomorrow and get a boyfriend or anything but maybe possibly in the future if he looks a certain way and I know him and he's nice and I'm feeling a certain way I could potentially have sex with him and enjoy it. Which I guess makes me slightly bisexual? I think I'll just consider myself straightish.
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I don't even know why you had sex with a guy you were not attracted to in the first place just to satisfy a curiosity. Of course, it wouldn't be fun since you are not attracted to him. But try finding a guy that you're actually attracted to if you actually thinking of hooking up with him and you may feel different about it.
 
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Ezduo

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Replicant said:
I don't even know why you had sex with a guy you were not attracted to in the first place just to satisfy a curiosity. Of course, it wouldn't be fun since you are not attracted to him. But try finding a guy that you're actually attracted to if you actually thinking of hooking up with him and you may feel different about it.
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That's what I did this time.
 
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RobertM

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Ezduo said:
Tried to find my old thread but I apparently can't look up my old threads or posts for some reason. Basically it was about me trying to have sex with a guy, didn't work out so well. I consider myself straight but lately I've been having the itch to try a guy again and hopefully have a better experience. Well, tonight I went through with it and sucked off a guy. Not that bad actually. He was nice and around my age. Went well I thought. I wasn't up for kissing or even getting off, it was all about trying to get him off which I accomplished. Even complimented me on my apparent skills. Good to know I suppose. I'm beginning to think I'm slightly bisexual. I'm still attracted to women but under the right circumstances I think I could be with a guy and enjoy it. Maybe not one of those bearish type guys but still, it's something.

Anyway, I'm only posting this because in my old thread someone was curious if the experience was going to put me off men forever and it apparently hasn't. Not saying I'm going to go out tomorrow and get a boyfriend or anything but maybe possibly in the future if he looks a certain way and I know him and he's nice and I'm feeling a certain way I could potentially have sex with him and enjoy it. Which I guess makes me slightly bisexual? I think I'll just consider myself straightish.
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Did you politely ask for a napkin?
 
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ZephyrFate

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Ezduo said:
Tried to find my old thread but I apparently can't look up my old threads or posts for some reason. Basically it was about me trying to have sex with a guy, didn't work out so well. I consider myself straight but lately I've been having the itch to try a guy again and hopefully have a better experience. Well, tonight I went through with it and sucked off a guy. Not that bad actually. He was nice and around my age. Went well I thought. I wasn't up for kissing or even getting off, it was all about trying to get him off which I accomplished. Even complimented me on my apparent skills. Good to know I suppose. I'm beginning to think I'm slightly bisexual. I'm still attracted to women but under the right circumstances I think I could be with a guy and enjoy it. Maybe not one of those bearish type guys but still, it's something.

Anyway, I'm only posting this because in my old thread someone was curious if the experience was going to put me off men forever and it apparently hasn't. Not saying I'm going to go out tomorrow and get a boyfriend or anything but maybe possibly in the future if he looks a certain way and I know him and he's nice and I'm feeling a certain way I could potentially have sex with him and enjoy it. Which I guess makes me slightly bisexual? I think I'll just consider myself straightish.
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Did you suck him off because you were into him?

edit: wow did he like give you a facial?
 
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Replicant

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Ezduo said:
That's what I did this time.
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And as a result, you feel differently. Your first experiment (if I remember correctly) was just "Eh, this guy is gay and I'm curious, so why not?", which was puzzling to me. I would not blow a guy just because I want to know what it feels like. The attraction has to be there.
 
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Ezduo

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ZephyrFate said:
Did you suck him off because you were into him?
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Yeah.
Replicant said:
And as a result, you feel differently. Your first experiment (if I remember correctly) was just "Eh, this guy is gay and I'm curious, so why not?", which was puzzling to me. I would not blow a guy just because I want to know what it feels like. The attraction has to be there.
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Yeah, I consider that first encounter a pretty dumb mistake. Don't know what to tell you though, seemed like a good idea at the time.
 
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dragonlife

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His actions don't seem that weird to me, but I suppose I'm just weird, myself.

He did it just to try it [again]. Big deal. Congrats, I guess :p
 
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Ezduo

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ZephyrFate said:
im still wondering, if he gave you a towel did he like blast your face like a small fire hose or something
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Nah, I just asked for one. It wasn't anything out of the ordinary (I assume).
 
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Ezduo

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ZephyrFate said:
Not just out of the ordinary, but really, really hot.

Sorry, kind of enjoy facials. A lot.
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I think the facial was actually the most fun part for some reason. It's the part that sticks out in my mind anyway.
 
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krypt0nian

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Ezduo said:
So it's like the mob or something?
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Do not trifle with the Gay Mafia.

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"Oh it's a little bit funny..."
 
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Replicant

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Ezduo said:
I think the facial was actually the most fun part for some reason. It's the part that sticks out in my mind anyway.
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I'm more into frottage and kissing. I don't find facial to be that hot. It's actually kinda a turn-off for me.
 
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