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Wow, this picture exists.
Oh, hey, you're here. <3
What if a person explicitly states "No hookups, just dates" and the other party plays along. Does that rule still apply? A friend is interested.1) Thinking that a Grindr hookup is a date
I don't know, I believe in love at first sight. It's not commonplace at all, in fact I would say that it's extremely rare ... I mean I almost feel embarrassed saying that as it is such a huge cliche, but I've experienced it.
What if a person explicitly states "No hookups, just dates" and the other party plays along. Does that rule still apply? A friend is interested.
He fucking hates that service. So convenient, yet so treacherous.
Butterflies in the stomach times infinity.Yeah, much like some other very personal "sensations" (for lack of a better term coming to mind) it really needs to be experienced first-hand in order for the concept to seem anything but silly or even absurd. Love at first sight is pretty much impossible to make a logical argument for, but I absolutely know it exists.
I didn't even sign in since I'm lazy.
I use Grindr (and I have a NO SEX note written in my profile) and so far I've met 4 guys there. 3 of them ended up really cool, we still talk and hang out. Before meeting them though, I try to have some nice conversation to see their intentions.What if a person explicitly states "No hookups, just dates" and the other party plays along. Does that rule still apply? A friend is interested.
He fucking hates that service. So convenient, yet so treacherous.
I use Grindr (and I have a NO SEX note written in my profile) and so far I've met 4 guys there. 3 of them ended up really cool, we still talk and hang out. Before meeting them though, I try to have some nice conversation to see their intentions.
Speaking of Grindr... this guy has been talking to me a lot but the thing is.. he's 39 and I'm 26 LOL. I don't know if it's a good idea to go out with him. My main concern is that he knows what he wants and knows what to say to me to get it (I think). The age gap is pretty big and our line of thought is different. Do you have an age limit when it comes to dating? The oldest guy I've gone out with was 33. But idk about 39. I guess I should stop talking to him.
I use Grindr (and I have a NO SEX note written in my profile) and so far I've met 4 guys there. 3 of them ended up really cool, we still talk and hang out. Before meeting them though, I try to have some nice conversation to see their intentions.
Speaking of Grindr... this guy has been talking to me a lot but the thing is.. he's 39 and I'm 26 LOL. I don't know if it's a good idea to go out with him. My main concern is that he knows what he wants and knows what to say to me to get it (I think). The age gap is pretty big and our line of thought is different. Do you have an age limit when it comes to dating? The oldest guy I've gone out with was 33. But idk about 39. I guess I should stop talking to him.
Hey GayGAF! I haven't posted in this thread in a long while. I guess it's cause nothing has really happened in my life and I don't like reading about relationships when I will never have one. Oh, and I kinda went into another fit of depression and have avoided talking to people and friends for a few months. That probably contributes to me not posting too I suppose.
I really want to tell him that he's making a mistake but I don't want to make our relationship any worse. We aren't very close and while him telling me he's bi is something, I could easily get on his bad side. I kind of also think I should stay out of it because it's his life. I don't know what to do. I have too much shit to worry about myself.
I have to find a career I'll like studying at uni. I took a few bullshit courses last year so my dad wouldn't kick me out (I'm the disappointment child) but I need to actually put an effort into school this year. I just don't find anything interesting except music but I can't make a career out of that. I have 3 weeks till course registration so I need to find something.
There's literally no gay guys where I live. Well, technically there are but they're all queens that go to gay bars. I don't think I'll be able to keep a boyfriend either. I'd have to tell my father sooner or later and he would instantly kick me out (it's one of the reasons my brother wants to move). I hate lying even though I sometimes walk headfirst into lies. In response to the second question I don't know. I get into this cycle of stress and depression, then I stress-eat and I just feel bad. It keeps going on and on. It gets to a point where I gain weight and avoid people. Last time I stopped it by a friend intervening (it last happened when my mom died and people constantly bullied me). My friends all hate me now though. My only remaining friend has severe depression and I don't want to toss anything more on her. I've been trying to eat healthy but when I do all I can think about is food. It makes me feel happy fir a slight moment and then I hate myself more afterwards. I just feel pathetic in the end.Why do you think you'll never have one? Also what triggered the depression?
Well we aren't close and I don't particularly intent to become close with him. I just want us to be on good terms before he moves out. I don't have any other family (apart from a father that hates everything that I am) and I'd be completely alone if he hated me. I just don't want him to fuck up such a good opportunity he has career-wise. It's something I'd expect him to do to me if I were doing something stupid, so it feels weird for me to not to do the same.If you're not that close, my first instinct is to say don't worry about it. However, if you want to be close and care about him, then tell him. Coach it in the most humblest, caring, polite way you can.
My father is against the arts (painting, music, etc). He wanted me to work in a cubicle when I grow up. The reason he's letting me stay at home is because I'm going to university to further his idea of an "education". While I'm paying for my own schooling, I wouldn't be able to afford a place to live and schooling at the same time so this is my only viable option to go to university and get an education. High school diplomas alone will get you no where. I just don't have any idea what I'd like to do. I somehow doubt 3 weeks will give me enough time to figure it out either.You can make a career out of music. It's a difficult path, but it is possible.
Wow. That's quite the fantasy sphinx, haha.When I am in the US and I see an all white, blond guy with a dark, black guy making out, I could almost get a boner from watching them stand side by side, I begin to construct all sorts of naughty sentences in my mind like "oh you white boy, I am sure you have never had so much cock at once in your life, I hope you like your butthole spreaded wide" (sorry for that I was just illustrating), I just think interracial couples are hot.
Aww, thanks Cupric! I think it goes without saying that I agree Sure I've spoken before about how I appreciate hotness regardless of such differences.sphinx, high five. Interracial couples are the best. Our very own Grailey proves that.
Did you just look through related videos? I didn't even sign in since I'm lazy.
I use Grindr (and I have a NO SEX note written in my profile) and so far I've met 4 guys there. 3 of them ended up really cool, we still talk and hang out. Before meeting them though, I try to have some nice conversation to see their intentions.
Speaking of Grindr... this guy has been talking to me a lot but the thing is.. he's 39 and I'm 26 LOL. I don't know if it's a good idea to go out with him. My main concern is that he knows what he wants and knows what to say to me to get it (I think). The age gap is pretty big and our line of thought is different. Do you have an age limit when it comes to dating? The oldest guy I've gone out with was 33. But idk about 39. I guess I should stop talking to him.
-If he brings him along to live with him I doubt he can afford to take care of both of them.
-If he stays here his career will go no where.
There's literally no gay guys where I live. Well, technically there are but they're all queens that go to gay bars. I don't think I'll be able to keep a boyfriend either. I'd have to tell my father sooner or later and he would instantly kick me out (it's one of the reasons my brother wants to move). I hate lying even though I sometimes walk headfirst into lies.
In response to the second question I don't know. I get into this cycle of stress and depression, then I stress-eat and I just feel bad. It keeps going on and on. It gets to a point where I gain weight and avoid people. Last time I stopped it by a friend intervening (it last happened when my mom died and people constantly bullied me). My friends all hate me now though. My only remaining friend has severe depression and I don't want to toss anything more on her. I've been trying to eat healthy but when I do all I can think about is food. It makes me feel happy fir a slight moment and then I hate myself more afterwards. I just feel pathetic in the end.
Well we aren't close and I don't particularly intent to become close with him. I just want us to be on good terms before he moves out. I don't have any other family (apart from a father that hates everything that I am) and I'd be completely alone if he hated me. I just don't want him to fuck up such a good opportunity he has career-wise. It's something I'd expect him to do to me if I were doing something stupid, so it feels weird for me to not to do the same.
My father is against the arts (painting, music, etc). He wanted me to work in a cubicle when I grow up. The reason he's letting me stay at home is because I'm going to university to further his idea of an "education". While I'm paying for my own schooling, I wouldn't be able to afford a place to live and schooling at the same time so this is my only viable option to go to university and get an education. High school diplomas alone will get you no where. I just don't have any idea what I'd like to do. I somehow doubt 3 weeks will give me enough time to figure it out either.
If anything I'll keep doing music lessons as a side thing until I think I can make an album and perform.
Okay well I doubt whatever I'm writing is making sense anymore so I think it'd be best if I just stop rambling.
I'm mainly posting because I'm looking for some advice. My brother just left to the US for an internship. It must be awesome being a well-known app developer. But before he left he told me he was bisexual (I already knew he liked dudes but it was nice to actually hear it). I personally think he's just gay and just doing a "half step" towards telling me he's gay. We're from a super religious family and he probably is just testing the waters with me. Doesn't really matter honestly what he likes as long as he isn't a rapist or anything.
-If he brings him along to live with him I doubt he can afford to take care of both of them.
-If he stays here his career will go no where.
I really want to tell him that he's making a mistake but I don't want to make our relationship any worse. We aren't very close and while him telling me he's bi is something, I could easily get on his bad side. I kind of also think I should stay out of it because it's his life. I don't know what to do. I have too much shit to worry about myself.
There's literally no gay guys where I live.
I'm taking vocal lessons too but I doubt I'd be able to do so professionally. I'm thinking of learning guitar but it seems really confusing. If anything I'll keep doing music lessons as a side thing until I think I can make an album and perform.
We've been meaning to take some new pictures, so I'll make sure to let you guys know, lawl.
I want all my classmates to know I'm gay. I know them for almost a year now and still haven't been able to fit it in a conversation. Here's the thing: I'm not in the closet. If someone had asked me half a year ago I would have given an honest answer. Even my Facebook profile says I like men, but no one has taken a look at my profile. I need to do this now, otherwise I have to wait till next year and then it gets awkward (ie it would seem like I've been in the closet all that time).
So what's the best way to let them know? I've been looking for a Facebook page to like, but can't find one that seems good enough for everyone to see.
Do you really have to announce it, Stabbie?
To be frank, it seems kind of attention whorish.
Do you really have to announce it, Stabbie?
To be frank, it seems kind of attention whorish.
I don't see anything wrong about wanting friends and close acquaintances to know. I am sure he has his reasons for "letting it out" and it isn't "just because".
It's all about how you do it and the your behavior/attitude towards it.
Which is exactly why I haven't told them yet...
You seem kind of assholish btw.
Um, he said all his classmates not friends and close acquaintances.
I want all my classmates to know I'm gay. I know them for almost a year now and still haven't been able to fit it in a conversation. Here's the thing: I'm not in the closet. If someone had asked me half a year ago I would have given an honest answer. Even my Facebook profile says I like men, but no one has taken a look at my profile. I need to do this now, otherwise I have to wait till next year and then it gets awkward (ie it would seem like I've been in the closet all that time).
So what's the best way to let them know? I've been looking for a Facebook page to like, but can't find one that seems good enough for everyone to see.
I personally think he's just gay and just doing a "half step" towards telling me he's gay. We're from a super religious family and he probably is just testing the waters with me. Doesn't really matter honestly what he likes as long as he isn't a rapist or anything.
My classmates are the only people I talk to. I don't have friends. It seems perfectly reasonable to me for the only people I have social contact with to know about it, doesn't it?
Are you sure they don't already know. it is on your facebook that you like men. Maybe they haven't said anything because they don't see it as a big deal.
Just post a status saying so and so is really hot, should do the trick.
This is certainly isn't information that would've been helpful to know.
My classmates are the only people I talk to. I don't have friends.
Are you sure they don't already know. it is on your facebook that you like men. Maybe they haven't said anything because they don't see it as a big deal.
Just post a status saying so and so is really hot, should do the trick.
None... at all? D:
I'm guessing if they don't know despite his Facebook profile saying so then they're not really following Facebook.
It could also be that they've turned off notifications. Can you do that with Facebook?
Stabbie, have you tried commenting on the attractiveness of someone in your class? Not to be stereotypical, but just mention to a female friend you find X hot and generally she'll just share that information with everyone. Also, if you take a laptop to class, just put a shirtless guy as your background. That's a pretty big giveaway too.
So is it or is it not?
I've thought about but I'm pretty sure they don't know. These are the kind of people who are accepting but couldn't wait to make some jokes about it if they found out.
So is it or is it not?
Stabbie said:Nope, but I got over it. This summer I'm going to Paris and to a dozen concerts all alone. Just because you've got no one to do something with, doesn't mean you should stay home
Isn't. Sarcasm, but I type too fast. DX
Whatever. Just go up to your female classmates and say "[Insert Male Celebrity Here] is hot, isn't he?" Boom. Done.
Isn't. Sarcasm, but I type too fast. DX
Whatever. Just go up to your female classmates and say "[Insert Male Celebrity Here] is hot, isn't he?" Boom. Done.
I don't see how that's any different than saying "I'm gay!". It's just way too random.
If it hasn't come up naturally, then what else is there?
I find no one hot in my class and if I were to tell a female classmate she would tell everyone and everyone would think I'm interested in that guy. It would make me feel a lot more awkward than just saying I'm gay.
Also I don't talk that much to my female classmates. The only thing I have in common with women is we both like men. Other than that I have much more to talk about with other guys.
Lol, to me, just going ahead and telling them, "hey, did you know I'm gay btw? Because I am.", seems less forced than shoehorning it into some kind of ~natural conversation~.
But I guess it depends on the situation and how well you know the people.
Walking into class with semen on your face might give it away.
Lol, to me, just going ahead and telling them, "hey, did you know I'm gay btw? Because I am.", seems less forced than shoehorning it into some kind of ~natural conversation~.
But I guess it depends on the situation and how well you know the people.
If it hasn't come up naturally, then what else is there?
Or a dildo in your bag.