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Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction
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Liquidsnake
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MarkMclovin said:
This made me laugh so hard. Thank you for starting my Monday.
It's always kind of weird to me when there is a topic about some person in the news and everyone asks, "who?", but then gaf with just a glance can name any female that has been in a flick and list all their credentials off the top of their head. I could name/recognize about 3, and that's only because their names and faces have become as ubiquitous as any public figure or celebrity.
dragonelite
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DoctorWho said:
No mistakes for you tonight when being drunk.
Liquidsnake
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I am engaged, but for me I have experienced this. It was a combination of being in my mid 30's, having only one testicle, and watching too much porn. My expectations were too high in the bedroom.
Iphone has really made it a challenge to stay away!!!!!!
If I can stop for 3 days, I feel and perform like a young stud again.
Iphone has really made it a challenge to stay away!!!!!!
If I can stop for 3 days, I feel and perform like a young stud again.
Radec said:ok.. I did it again.
Was watching youtube then a video on the right side turned me on, then bam..
I have a friend that used to take breaks at work to bash one out. He now goes to clubs and whips it out infront of a bunch of girls. There's always 1 or 2 that get excited by it (most are in shock), they stroke and touch it like a pet lol. He;s a good looking kid and packing well. Some of the storys he tells me
spiderman123
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Prine said:I have a friend that used to take breaks at work to bash one out. He now goes to clubs and whips it out infront of a bunch of girls. There's always 1 or 2 that get excited by it (most are in shock), they stroke and touch it like a pet lol. He;s a good looking kid and packing well. Some of the storys he tells me
Cereal KiIIer
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I blame this guy:
Live Free or Die
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fanboi said:
is this the new "contest"?
FlyingTeacup
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Cereal KiIIer said:I blame this guy:
that's a real gaffer .. ahaha... forgot his nick...
Always-honest
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haha, he's in to photography these days i heard.Cereal KiIIer said:I blame this guy:
FlyingTeacup said:
The Wispy Scoundrel
And those that are really deep shit here are those that can't have regular partners, therefore using porn. Probably the prime guys for falling into theses sorts of problems.
Anyhow, I totally believe this. I suffered from that "delayed ejac" myself. It's very simple to understand actually. Sex works because of two things: psychologic excitation + sensorial (with the body) excitation. When you do porn, you devellop only the psychologic part. As soon as it becomes predominant, your real life partners will become boring or you will have a hard time to get feeling with your penis. This is serious matter, I had to see a professional and to "relearn" how to have real sex. It's NOT cool or fun or easy. Now I only imagine someone with the problem in a severe state... You really don't want to be there.
Anyhow, I totally believe this. I suffered from that "delayed ejac" myself. It's very simple to understand actually. Sex works because of two things: psychologic excitation + sensorial (with the body) excitation. When you do porn, you devellop only the psychologic part. As soon as it becomes predominant, your real life partners will become boring or you will have a hard time to get feeling with your penis. This is serious matter, I had to see a professional and to "relearn" how to have real sex. It's NOT cool or fun or easy. Now I only imagine someone with the problem in a severe state... You really don't want to be there.
Cereal KiIIer
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Radec said:what's the story behind him ?
His shots are great btw.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=302108
Wellington
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What's most interesting to me is the chemical side of it. For example when I was single I was regularly slammin' the ham (because hey, a guy has needs) but whenever any possible partner came around I was always ready to go. In that same period time, I was in the gym doing heavy lifting 5 days a week. I feel like that had an effect - the increased testosterone production from the lifting and my diet pushed through whatever desensitization resulted from the increased masturbation.
I've heard of a lot of stories like these where the guy just "loses interest" in sex with his gf or any other girl for that matter, and it's a result of excess porn and masturbation. Could increased testosterone production also be a resolution to the problem?
I've heard of a lot of stories like these where the guy just "loses interest" in sex with his gf or any other girl for that matter, and it's a result of excess porn and masturbation. Could increased testosterone production also be a resolution to the problem?
Always-honest
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Yeah, he's a talented photographer.Radec said:what's the story behind him ?
His shots are great btw.
Story is known by now i guess.
Count Dookkake
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On the plus side, porn probably help to prevent the birth of unneeded children.
Before I met my ex girlfriend I used to masterbait frequently. It got to the point, where during sex it would take me a LONG time to climax. She would begin to wonder and it was difficult having to explain to her, that my body just got used to masterbaiting. I think it was one of the reasons that we eventually broke up. I am going to give this a try, it is going to be hard but hopefully well worth it.
Count Dookkake
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Tater Tot said:
You a pro fisherman or something?
Wellington
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lolCount Dookkake said:
NullPointer
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P.I.S.D?
That's golden.
That's golden.
I never really understood this problem. I can finish in 5 to 40 minutes, depending on what I want/expect, and mostly, it's all just imagination- porn wise and sex wise. If it get's limp, think of that hot sales clerk you saw the other day. Seriously, fantasies during sex are kind of weird, but they do the job well enough.
Hah, and I don't really watch porn all that much. Maybe once or twice every two weeks? I'm into pic-...wait, is that weirder?
Hah, and I don't really watch porn all that much. Maybe once or twice every two weeks? I'm into pic-...wait, is that weirder?
PhoenixDark
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Describes me. I barely get...aroused by porn regardless of how awesome I find it. I get these weak boners that are just ehh. Maybe if I wait a few days between sessions it would be different. I'll try that.
iKeepPlaying
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:lolTater Tot said:
Tater Tot said:
nVidiot_Whore
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I imagine this isn't unique to porn?
Seems like this would be more of a problem if you are over-exposed to actual sex with lots of females.
I've had more of the opposite reaction.. porn doesn't really do it for me.
Seems like this would be more of a problem if you are over-exposed to actual sex with lots of females.
I've had more of the opposite reaction.. porn doesn't really do it for me.
theignoramus
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try doing mental math after you masturbate or have sex three or four times in 24-36 hours. then try mental math during a dry spell. believe me, it aint a joke.iKeepPlaying said:
I used to get erections whenever I'd simply think of a hot chick, rock hard one's that wouldn't go away. I always had a pretty active drive to fuck.
Not anymore.
I'm only 23, and now porn sometimes doesn't even get it up %100. I spend a while just finding the best flick/clip. I don't always think about fucking all the time. I rarely get random boners.
I stopped porn/fapping about a week ago and now my dick just sits limp and shriveled.
Not anymore.
I'm only 23, and now porn sometimes doesn't even get it up %100. I spend a while just finding the best flick/clip. I don't always think about fucking all the time. I rarely get random boners.
I stopped porn/fapping about a week ago and now my dick just sits limp and shriveled.
Jason's Ultimatum
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If I'm not watching porn and jerking off, I can jerk off forever and not blow my load.
Syracuse022
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This thread is full of humblebrags, but this one is definitely in first place right now.sublime085 said:I've been struggling with this for about a year now. I've heard about cutting out the porn, but I cracked like 10 days into it. Its frustrating when your partner comes three times and you haven't even busted once.
I guess I really have to give a proper go at it. I definitely hit that decreased libido part and I wanted to masturbate to see if it still worked! I guess now that I know that will happen I'll just try and tough it out. Sexual dysfunction is no fun. And can be brutal on your ego.
InfiniteNine
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Avatar Trance I think.amrod said:
Syracuse022 said:
It's not exactly a brag. The girl will get self conscious and depressed really quickly if that happens too often. She'll think the reason you can't bust is because she's too ugly or something, and you won't be able to convince her otherwise. Relationship falls apart pretty soon after that.
computers putin'
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DominoKid said:
That's what I'm saying. With porn, I gotta find the right girl doing the right things to even get me kinda off. But all it takes is the proposition of sex with a real girl to get me up rock hard.
I've been masturbating to porn/hentai for over 15 years. It's never gotten boring, never set any sort of expectations - and I can still get it up no problem for my woman.
I don't understand why people bash porn over these problems. If you can't get it up blame your own body and your own health, not the porn.
I don't understand why people bash porn over these problems. If you can't get it up blame your own body and your own health, not the porn.
nVidiot_Whore said:
Not unique to porn. There is such a thing called sexual fatigue. It's more visual for men obviously because of weak erections. Happened to me when both my wife and I were trying to have the 2nd child. A bit of it was the pressure to perform twice a day (or more) during her ovulation periods. After a few days .. your dong needs a break.
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