AlphaSnake said:It was stupid. Just watching it again reminded me how stupid it was. There was a lot of cryptic crap in there you were meant to interpret as the death of the whole family. Half of the diner was filled with people Tony screwed over at one point or another, I believe including a few agents. The belief is that they were all there to ambush and kill him.
Others say it's just a throwback to Tony's past, a reminder of sorts. I say, it's bullshit and a cop out.
What are the odds of all those people being in the diner at the same time to ambush Tony? Anyone who thought this is a moron. I believe the scene was metaphor for Tony always needing to look over his shoulder as he'll be surrounded by people who mean to harm him and his family.