ive been gaming since the Atari days and the console wars have changed a lot. graphics were rarely brought up back in the day. sure there was the occasional this version looks or sounds better but it never got much deeper than that. most arguments were about which console has better games(exclusives typically unless 3rd party games differed like Aladdin). it was largely in good fun and even though you might be a Nintendo kid you would still play your sega friends consoles and enjoy yourself.
in the 32/64bit days specs were brought up a bit more but arguments usually fell back to the lineups since they varied quite a bit between consoles. the same can be said about the generation that followed. people would compare differences between versions but a vast majority didn't care enough and were fine with the ps2 version.
this generation however things have changed. people have focused on the hardware specs, resolution and frame rates. the games have taken a major back seat and people act like if they even come in contact with the opposing console they'll have to go home and lash themselves for sinning. childish behaviour and false entitlement runs rampant. things have become very polar and very negative. its like youtube comments, anywhere you go someone is trolling/dumping on your console and you feel bad about your purchase. it sucks the fun out of gaming.
do you know what also happened over this period?
You grew up.
Kids are still kids, my nephews don't care who has what console, they occasionally argue which one has the best games, and they had a few funny jokes about the Xbox One at Christmas but that's it.
You're on a forum with predominately adult males who bitch and complain about the games industry, and trust me adults bitched and moaned back in the Atari days, my mother worked in IT she's talked about it.
Adults are going to criticise other people's choices in tech, from TVs to games consoles, because they would choose the product for certain reasons, but you choose it for other reasons. You are never going to buy the best of the best there is no such thing.