Dismas, you need to stop with that "kissless virgin" garbage. You can get ANY girl in the world.
I'm telling you this as an ugly as sin nerd who grew up in a hyper-religious home who was too scared to masturbate for 16 years--and then I realized, "What the hell is holding me back?"
I'm still an ugly nerd, but 5 years later I've dated and had sex with girls FAR out of my league--reminder, I am still one ugly dork who plays too many video games, and that's not gonna change.
It's confidence. All confidence. You walk up to a girl and flat out say "Hi, my name's Dave, I noticed your ears, that's cool, what's your name?" What's she gonna say? No? Big deal. Move on to another. That's life, never hold yourself back.
I'm telling you flat out, as a fellow nerd, you can get ANY girl if you are confident enough. Go to the gym, comb your hair a bit and wear some nicer clothes if you need the confidence boosters, and GO TALK TO GIRLS.
You can do it.