BronzeWolf
Banned
Story, It's messy:
- Long distance relationship with my GF. Loving, caring, devoted, supportive. Perfect wife-material. I was in love for three years.
- I was about to finish PhD. Talks of the future appear. Pressure to commit. Hesitance on her part to move with me, but wanted to get married. Strains the relationship a lot!
- I graduated from PhD on June. I cheated on her that same month with girl B. It developed in a fledling relationship where I was REALLY happy..My first time cheating. Relationship with GF goes down the shitter. She knows something's up
- After graduation I flew to see GF. I wanted to break up with her to be with girl B.
- She discovers girl B. Two days of hell ensue. We go to couple therapy same day of realization.
- I break up with girl B via email. Block her out.
- Therapist tells us we have one month to decide if staying or leaving is best choice.
- Therapy works on an individual level. We mostly forget and forgive each other. I renew my job-searching efforts. I lose fear of commitment, I strengthen my sense of desire and self-worth. I have never been to therapy before, and it really works for me.
- Even then I can't bring myself to be loving and caring for my GF as before. She feels bad. I miss girl B a whole lot. Every second almost.
- GF can't get past girl B. Asks questions, drags me down a terrible path of anguish.
- Finished up all my projects. I am bored out of my mind in this city, nothing to do, nothing to see but wait for GF and see if she is cool or angry.
- Two days ago she breaks up with me via messenger, because I refuse to tell her details about girl B. We see each other over lunch, she wants to do a clean breakup. She backtracks, but I don't take her back. I am too tired, too stressed out, too dragged on to continue.
- We stay broken up. I am staying at her place because it's hot as balls outside and I don't have many things to do here.
- We have talked. She is better, I am better. Her mom is coming down on Saturday to be with her.
- I feel like I still love my GF, and I desire to share my life with her. But at this moment I can't stop thinking about Girl B and it's not fair for my GF to have me like this
We broke up, I am still at her place since I can't pay for a plane change. I am bored and feel like shit. Can't wait to get out.
- Long distance relationship with my GF. Loving, caring, devoted, supportive. Perfect wife-material. I was in love for three years.
- I was about to finish PhD. Talks of the future appear. Pressure to commit. Hesitance on her part to move with me, but wanted to get married. Strains the relationship a lot!
- I graduated from PhD on June. I cheated on her that same month with girl B. It developed in a fledling relationship where I was REALLY happy..My first time cheating. Relationship with GF goes down the shitter. She knows something's up
- After graduation I flew to see GF. I wanted to break up with her to be with girl B.
- She discovers girl B. Two days of hell ensue. We go to couple therapy same day of realization.
- I break up with girl B via email. Block her out.
- Therapist tells us we have one month to decide if staying or leaving is best choice.
- Therapy works on an individual level. We mostly forget and forgive each other. I renew my job-searching efforts. I lose fear of commitment, I strengthen my sense of desire and self-worth. I have never been to therapy before, and it really works for me.
- Even then I can't bring myself to be loving and caring for my GF as before. She feels bad. I miss girl B a whole lot. Every second almost.
- GF can't get past girl B. Asks questions, drags me down a terrible path of anguish.
- Finished up all my projects. I am bored out of my mind in this city, nothing to do, nothing to see but wait for GF and see if she is cool or angry.
- Two days ago she breaks up with me via messenger, because I refuse to tell her details about girl B. We see each other over lunch, she wants to do a clean breakup. She backtracks, but I don't take her back. I am too tired, too stressed out, too dragged on to continue.
- We stay broken up. I am staying at her place because it's hot as balls outside and I don't have many things to do here.
- We have talked. She is better, I am better. Her mom is coming down on Saturday to be with her.
- I feel like I still love my GF, and I desire to share my life with her. But at this moment I can't stop thinking about Girl B and it's not fair for my GF to have me like this
We broke up, I am still at her place since I can't pay for a plane change. I am bored and feel like shit. Can't wait to get out.