Which unfortunately happens a lot.
It's enough to introduce reasonable doubt.
That is crazy and if someone is actually asking you to do that, you should just leave.
Watch the link, come back and tell me if she is saying you should constantly ask for consent.
Watch the link, come back and tell me if she is saying you should constantly ask for consent.
That's how people are taking it though, clearly.
Hmm I should start choosing the threads in OT I enter wisely.
Because they didn't watch the video that was linked, they just assumed she said or implied something that wasn't there.
There is zero way you can take it that way if you watched the video. If you did, and that was your take away...maybe we should talk.
there is a healthy middle ground between constantly asking and not asking
you can even do it in a sexy way if you're a cool guy
I didn't but there are multiple people in this thread making the argument that you need to "maintain consent" I almost responded to one a few pages back but left it alone until I saw another person make the same argument.
Tinder thinks you have no idea what you're talking about. This is the golden age of random hookups.
there is a healthy middle ground between constantly asking and not asking
you can even do it in a sexy way if you're a cool guy
So why do millenials have less sexual partners than any generation in the last 60 years?
So why do millenials have less sexual partners than any generation in the last 60 years?
I watched a Laci Green video that said just that. Guys should constantly ask for consent during sex.
https://youtu.be/TD2EooMhqRI?t=1m20s
Because they didn't watch the video that was linked, they just assumed she said or implied something that wasn't there.
There is zero way you can take it that way if you watched the video. If you did, and that was your take away...maybe we should talk.
I didn't but there are multiple people in this thread making the argument that you need to "maintain consent" I almost responded to one a few pages back but left it alone until I saw another person make the same argument.
The time of free love is over?
The days of random hook ups are long over. Chapelle was actually on some shit.
People in this thread ain't never seen the ocean and getting all worked up about a shark attack lmaoQuiet the opposite old chap
People in this thread ain't never seen the ocean and getting all worked up about a shark attack lmao
One of the reasons I didn't engage in casual sex as a youth....only with long term relationships. Shit can turn in an instant.
Um, you should maintain consent.
You guys, this shit isn't that difficult. No one is saying, okay it has been three thrusts, I need to verbally ask "Do you consent".
I'm sure the guy in this article had verbal consent at one point as well. Or should you stop every five minutes to make sure you still want to have sex?
If I start asking a girl every 5 mins if she still wants sex, you can bet the sex will end very abruptly.
Um, you should maintain consent.
You guys, this shit isn't that difficult. No one is saying, okay it has been three thrusts, I need to verbally ask "Do you consent".
How do you know though?
Without a video taken by chance this one would have never been filed as a false claim (malicious or not).
Just as it's very difficult to the determine the number of unreported rapes, I think it's just as hard to determine how many are false claims.
That's where we're headed.Body cameras for everyone.
I didn't but there are multiple people in this thread making the argument that you need to "maintain consent" I almost responded to one a few pages back but left it alone until I saw another person make the same argument.
That mostly means if she says stop you bloody fucking stop.
Yea thats a really shitty way to say it. And outrage culture strikes again, not a single one of my posts advocates rape or in any way says consent isn't necessary but keep on keeping on guy.
Yea thats a really shitty way to say it. And outrage culture strikes again, not a single one of my posts advocates rape or in any way says consent isn't necessary but keep on keeping on guy.
Yea thats a really shitty way to say it. And outrage culture strikes again, not a single one of my posts advocates rape or in any way says consent isn't necessary but keep on keeping on guy.
Really don't want to go dig up statistics on rapists in prison right now, but of those there, what would you wager are there due to a drunk sex at a bar? I'm thinking the overwhelming majority, probably north of 90% weren't some random drunk hook up that turned into rape.
Do you know how hard it is to be convicted for rape if you did do it? False accusations are so rare and never go anywhere it's not worth worrying about.
Maintaining consent means among other things literally stopping if she says stop. As well as maintaining awareness so that you can pick up on signs that maybe she's not into it anymore
The problem is you seemingly think that the only way to maintain consent is to continually, verbally ask, do you consent or do you wanna keep fucking.
So is the next step the suing of this girl for the falsification of rape?
What?
Where did I accuse you of any of that?
Outrage culture?
The you was a proverbial you
Maintaining consent means among other things literally stopping if she says stop. As well as maintaining awareness so that you can pick up on signs that maybe she's not into it anymore
But really, seems like videotaping all your sexual encounters is the only way to avoid he/she said situations.
Then why you getting all weird when folks talk of maintaining consentI've said every one of those things you said in your last paragraph in this thread. So I don't see your problem here
For anyone engaging in random hookups, getting it on video is required if anything goes wrong and they're willing to go through the court process. Required if they want hard evidence, at least, and even then only a body cam (body cam when naked? Hm) would be able to, er, explicitly show what is...happening...Not having evidence to prosecute someone for rape does not mean you have enough evidence to prosecute someone for falsely accusing someone of rape.
But really, seems like videotaping all your sexual encounters is the only way to avoid he/she said situations.
Then why you getting all weird when folks talk of maintaining consent
So GAF apparently is full of people who don't understand how consent works, or rape for that matter. Also of people with an irrational fear and paranoia of hooking up with strangers.
Hmm I should start choosing the threads in OT I enter wisely.
And it is full of people telling users to cut off their penises, telling people straight up that they will murder someone, because they are male, and that we should pretend that crimes (false accusations) do not happen in order to protect rape victims.
Yes, we should all choose our threads more wisely.
Because that phrase takes agency from the person the sex is "happening" to.
And that's the outrage I'm talking about, you haven't read any of my other posts you just assumed I was saying something shitty by reading one post out of context.
Send her to jail imo.
And it is full of people telling users to cut off their penises, telling people straight up that they will murder someone, because they are male, and that we should pretend that crimes (false accusations) do not happen in order to protect rape victims.
Yes, we should all choose our threads more wisely.
I'm not sure I understand what you are saying. The phrase "maintaining consent" takes agency from the person who sex is happening to? Explain, please.Because that phrase takes agency from the person the sex is "happening" to.
And that's the outrage I'm talking about, you haven't read any of my other posts you just assumed I was saying something shitty by reading one post out of context.
Why? There's no proof that she lied, only that there wasn't enough evidence to prosecute.Send her to jail imo.
..........Rape is a serious thing and being falsely accused is just as serious.