Hence, the difficulties for having a normal life. The consequences of this is that most of them will just build their lives around defending themselves.
There's another way, a bit more hidden than those people cant barely see:
TRY to be happy, smile to the others, make jokes, laugh about others and about yourself, keep up your self-esteem and forget about that trans-hunt bullshit, and just get over your condition and try to focus on positive things.
Just be nice, and no one, except the most dumb assholes, will care if you are trans or not.
You are doomed at the moment you let your anxiety and fears dominate your mind.