Yeah, right, let's just pretend crazy people don't exist when we start "believing" everything someone's saying without questioning it nor anything. Yeah, it's hard to come forward if it's true, but not so much if you're lying. Who the fuck knows what's true? You get to the truth by asking questions.
I literally experienced this TWO times already in my life. My ex girlfriend threatened to hurt herself If I didn't play by her rules and at some point I literally felt unsafe in her presence, thinking of waking up one morning being tied to the bed. Gladly I "survived" (lol, that rhetoric) that one (that dude who cut off his arm with a pocket knife to escape a gap he'd fallen into is a survivor, he survived because he could have died countless times). The other one pretended to carry a child some weeks after we spend the night, trying to make me stay with her. After a few weeks (probably when she couldn't pretend anymore) she went to the hospital, calling me on the phone and saying she lost the child. When I arrived at the hospital, turns out the doctors didn't know her at all and there was no miscarriage. Only after confronting her and pressing on she confirmed she had never been pregnant, never was the whole time. That's not creepy like AJ is, this is outright psychotic.
Fuck, both women made me uncomfortable many fucking times over months but I didn't called them out on social media. Because after those episodes, after some reflecting, I noticed so many signs I should have noticed before. Not saying I can spot crazy women on sight now, but you definitely get better at it.
Then I have this friend who lives with his female friend (no romantic or sexual relationship, just sharing an apartment and they only hang out in the beginning) and she goes crazy whenever he does something without her, meeting other women. She outright tells lies about him to other people, to put him into a bad spotlight, and since they share the same apartment she literally gives him hell whenever she finds out that he "secretly" met with people and didn't ask her to come. She would trash every other woman he'd meet and/or know. Another psychopath.
Yeah, right, crazy people, that includes women, doesn't exist and there must always be a logical reason why someone would lie over and trash anybody on the internet. People aren't always logical and act like it, in fact we act irrational on so many and countless times. I don't even like AJ and he does come across as a creep in those screenshots but I think this is blown out of proportion. As of right now he only came across like a douchebag but there's broad line between being a douche and doing something criminal.
And I never get why some people think it's not allowed to ask questions and see both sides of the story. To quote Bill Burr:
"If I got bit by a rattlesnake wouldn't you guys have some questions? 'How did it happen? Did you not see it? Did you fucking with it!?' *poking with a stick* How did this snake get so mad, it almost killed you. Firemen put out a fire, they don't just drive away afterwards, they sift through the debris, 'how did it start? Here's an oily rag'. Right?"
