Mister Wilhelm
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She wants you to be more assertive. If this is a common thing I have a feeling it turns her on and you two should try bondage.
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Things you can't stand about your Significant Other
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She wants you to be more assertive. If this is a common thing I have a feeling it turns her on and you two should try bondage.
My girlfriend and I differ slightly when it comes to politics. In high school, we were both on the same page and then I sort of changed my position on several issues (especially economics). Now, she always gets me into stupid arguments i don't care about. I don't mind she has different views over me, I accept that - But she takes any disagreement as a personal insult. She once said that I think she's an idiot because I don't agree with her.
She has this habit of talking in detail about things that don't interest me and she knows it. I'm not talking about her day or stuff like that - I'm talking about what random people I don't know said on Twitter (not funny stuff even), TV shows I don't watch or she knows I don't like... It's not a huge deal, but I mean, I've watched Gossip Girl with her and I didn't like it, I don't see why she thinks I'll be interested in the synopsis of every episode. Oh wow, Blair or whatever marries a prince despite she'll obviously end up with Nate? You don't say.
She has this habit of talking in detail about things that don't interest me and she knows it. I'm not talking about her day or stuff like that - I'm talking about what random people I don't know said on Twitter (not funny stuff even), TV shows I don't watch or she knows I don't like... It's not a huge deal, but I mean, I've watched Gossip Girl with her and I didn't like it, I don't see why she thinks I'll be interested in the synopsis of every episode. Oh wow, Blair or whatever marries a prince despite she'll obviously end up with Nate? You don't say.
Atramental
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Complains our house is too big to maintain and she doesn't have time to get anything done. Somehow this translates into nothing getting done. She doesn't work (mutual choice,raising the kids) and can't find 30 minutes to clean?
Claims laundry is a big task. How much time does it take to put a load in and transfer the other the the dryer?
At least 3 out of 5 work days a week I call on my way home and get 'Sorry I haven't even thought about dinner yet?'
What are you doing all day? LOL
Claims laundry is a big task. How much time does it take to put a load in and transfer the other the the dryer?
At least 3 out of 5 work days a week I call on my way home and get 'Sorry I haven't even thought about dinner yet?'
What are you doing all day? LOL
yep, I really enjoy being with her and I love her, but sometimes she can be really abnoxious about the stuff I talked about in the OP.
One of my exes was like this. I usually just turned it into angry sex.
TheContact
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Just messy. She'll make a mess everywhere but does a good job of cleaning it up a day or so after, I just wish she could clean up after herself when she's done. Tired of seeing glitter sparkles and makeup spilled on my dresser for days.
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She loves me
we have an open relationship...
NEOPARADIGM
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I'm a semi-regular in the gaf thread on it, lol. And you're incorrect. Well, I take that back. It was true for the first two seasons.
Deified Data
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Fiance and I were really enamored with Ayn Rand after high school - I fell out of it in a year or two, while she's still going strong. Nowadays, we're still both selfish materialists...difference is, she still thinks it's morally righteous. Me, I'm just a dick, I guess. Or just honest with myself.
Deified Data
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She probably spends more time with them.
There really isn't much. He's OCD about certain things and I'm OCD on other things and there is other shit we mutually clutter then pick up before company comes. It works out well since we're always tidying up opposite things, and it has made us aware of one another's OCD preferences, increasing the wonderful overall OCD possibilities. Same political views, religious views, views on parenting, decorating preferences, holiday and other traditions, etc.
I can usually put down something I'm doing fairly easily, but if he's working on something, he'll keep at it until it's fixed/done. If it was something useful, that would be awesome, but it's always computer stuff, beer stuff, general boy hobbies. And he leaves hair on the sink when he uses his beard trimmer. But I can't say shit because I get makeup dust on the sink in the mornings. There's really nothing I "can't stand" and anything remotely negative is outweighed by how much he helps me around the house and the fact that I'm laughing/smiling for most of my day. :3
I can usually put down something I'm doing fairly easily, but if he's working on something, he'll keep at it until it's fixed/done. If it was something useful, that would be awesome, but it's always computer stuff, beer stuff, general boy hobbies. And he leaves hair on the sink when he uses his beard trimmer. But I can't say shit because I get makeup dust on the sink in the mornings. There's really nothing I "can't stand" and anything remotely negative is outweighed by how much he helps me around the house and the fact that I'm laughing/smiling for most of my day. :3
gutter_trash
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her stupid cats
She leaves cupboard doors open. That wouldn't be bad if I wasn't tall and hit my head every time on the corner if one.
Used tissues lying about. We have a box of tissues by the couch for convenience, she will use one and just toss it on the end table.
Never in the mood. Granted I've been married 10 years but she always claims being tired, stressed from work, annoyed by the kids, whatever... It always amounts to her not being in the mood for anything intimate regardless of how many times she says she is amazed that after 10 years she still loves me as much as she did the first time she fell for me.
Used tissues lying about. We have a box of tissues by the couch for convenience, she will use one and just toss it on the end table.
Never in the mood. Granted I've been married 10 years but she always claims being tired, stressed from work, annoyed by the kids, whatever... It always amounts to her not being in the mood for anything intimate regardless of how many times she says she is amazed that after 10 years she still loves me as much as she did the first time she fell for me.
gutter_trash
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she leaves containers, bottles half open, half screwed on so risk of spilling Laundry detergent is high, so I must track down all containers that she used and shut them tight.
also includes bottles in the fridge and stuff
also includes bottles in the fridge and stuff
ShockingAlberto
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My ex had a tendency to cede all decisions to me and get super-mad if
A) I said it didn't matter to me (which, 99% of the time, it didn't)
B) I made the wrong choice and she said nothing
This includes everything like "Where to go for lunch" and "What game should we play?"
A) I said it didn't matter to me (which, 99% of the time, it didn't)
B) I made the wrong choice and she said nothing
This includes everything like "Where to go for lunch" and "What game should we play?"
DAMMIT
You son of a bitch, leave my mother alone!
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=457744
OH YES DADDY! SPANK ME HARDER! I'VE BEEN A *VERY BAD* GIRL.
OH YES DADDY! SPANK ME HARDER! I'VE BEEN A *VERY BAD* GIRL.
Baraka in the White House
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There's nothing my girlfriend does that really drives me crazy but for the sake of thread participation:
- she's kind of hard to get out of the bed, whether she wakes up at 6 am or almost noon. Definitely not a morning person.
- she's a huge cuddle bug, which only really bothers me when she gets a little over zealous and tries to hog tie me on the couch or drives her head into my neck/cheek.
- she has a ridiculously good memory and can get frustrated when mine doesn't keep up. No, I'm probably not going to remember the names of your coworkers no matter how many times you talk about them.
- she's kind of hard to get out of the bed, whether she wakes up at 6 am or almost noon. Definitely not a morning person.
- she's a huge cuddle bug, which only really bothers me when she gets a little over zealous and tries to hog tie me on the couch or drives her head into my neck/cheek.
- she has a ridiculously good memory and can get frustrated when mine doesn't keep up. No, I'm probably not going to remember the names of your coworkers no matter how many times you talk about them.
Foxy Fox 39
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Only someone as money as Ken Masters can say this.
Maybe if you didn't always nag me.
FilthyLies
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Her clinical depression
ThoseDeafMutes
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I had no idea my sister was dating again.
Phobophile
A scientist and gentleman in the manner of Batman.
Her sex drive is way, way, way, way more intense than mine.
No, wait, that's awesome.
Tornado Condor
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Same as you, OP. Also, she takes a long ass time to reply to texts and her mother is a fucking cunt. Other than that, I seriously love her.
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