take it you've never been a victim of infidelityJesus, the replies in this thread...you are ok with people being victims of identity theft just because they are in stale, boring relationships and want a bit of excitement in their lives?
take it you've never been a victim of infidelityJesus, the replies in this thread...you are ok with people being victims of identity theft just because they are in stale, boring relationships and want a bit of excitement in their lives?
Is that what Lenore did to you?
take it you've never been a victim of infidelity
I don't care if my SO sucks a dozen cocks and then comes home and gives me a big old smoocharooney. Guess I'm just a more mature adult than the rest of you scrub kids.
I embrace my future as a simpering cuck.
take it you've never been a victim of infidelity
What is a victim of infidelity? Is it the person doing the cheating because of a lack of intimacy in a relationship or is it the person being cheated on due to a lack of intimacy in the relationship? Cheating (and I don't mean on a boyfriend or girlfriend, because that is not real) does not happen in a void. I place as much blame on the cheated on side as on the cheater when a relationship breaks down to the point that one side feels the need for that.
I would have to say that divorce is a hell of a lot harder emotionally and financially on a person than letting a spouse get a little on the side. Let alone what happens to the kids. Divorce creates victims, infidelity just causes butt hurt.
What is a victim of infidelity? Is it the person doing the cheating because of a lack of intimacy in a relationship or is it the person being cheated on due to a lack of intimacy in the relationship? Cheating (and I don't mean on a boyfriend or girlfriend, because that is not real) does not happen in a void. I place as much blame on the cheated on side as on the cheater when a relationship breaks down to the point that one side feels the need for that.
I would have to say that divorce is a hell of a lot harder emotionally and financially on a person than letting a spouse get a little on the side. Let alone what happens to the kids. Divorce creates victims, infidelity just causes butt hurt.
This right here is what delusion is like. Thanks for the insight.
What is a victim of infidelity? Is it the person doing the cheating because of a lack of intimacy in a relationship or is it the person being cheated on due to a lack of intimacy in the relationship? Cheating (and I don't mean on a boyfriend or girlfriend, because that is not real) does not happen in a void. I place as much blame on the cheated on side as on the cheater when a relationship breaks down to the point that one side feels the need for that.
I would have to say that divorce is a hell of a lot harder emotionally and financially on a person than letting a spouse get a little on the side. Let alone what happens to the kids. Divorce creates victims, infidelity just causes butt hurt.
I don't care if my SO sucks a dozen cocks and then comes home and gives me a big old smoocharooney. Guess I'm just a more mature adult than the rest of you scrub kids.
I embrace my future as a simpering cuck.
as long my SO didn't pay any interest on her ashley madison credit transactions, i'm not really fussed lol i understand that people have needs, i'm just glad she is doing it online and not with strangers.
So a different perspective is delusion, got it...
Guess what folks, not everyone has the same moral compass or views on what's allowed to go on between two consenting adults, or adults that want to be with each other but also want some on the side. It happens, and just because you don't happen to agree doesn't make it wrong.
This topic is amusing, so many "well, they deserve it" so as long as the person is doing something you don't agree with then their privacy is up for grabs...awesome!!!
So a different perspective is delusion, got it...
Guess what folks, not everyone has the same moral compass or views on what's allowed to go on between two consenting adults, or adults that want to be with each other but also want some on the side. It happens, and just because you don't happen to agree doesn't make it wrong.
This topic is amusing, so many "well, they deserve it" so as long as the person is doing something you don't agree with then their privacy is up for grabs...awesome!!!
It's totally my fault that my SO is banging around, I mean I must have done something wrong or else it wouldn't happen, right? The mature thing to do when you just lose interest in someone is to sleep around while trying to prop up the a sad fake relationship.
So a different perspective is delusion, got it...
Guess what folks, not everyone has the same moral compass or views on what's allowed to go on between two consenting adults, or adults that want to be with each other but also want some on the side. It happens, and just because you don't happen to agree doesn't make it wrong.
This topic is amusing, so many "well, they deserve it" so as long as the person is doing something you don't agree with then their privacy is up for grabs...awesome!!!
hm i think you're a bit off base here. i at least understand that my SO still loves me, she just gets what she needs from others, something i can't give. it's not a sad fake relationship, it's a fulfilling relationship built on communication on trust. if you open your mind and your potential relationships to this idea, you can get much much more out of them. we have a strong bond that you don't get out of a ordinary relationship.
hm i think you're a bit off base here. i at least understand that my SO still loves me, she just gets what she needs from others, something i can't give. it's not a sad fake relationship, it's a fulfilling relationship built on communication on trust. if you open your mind and your potential relationships to this idea, you can get much much more out of them. we have a strong bond that you don't get out of a ordinary relationship.
I care less about whether or not their identity is stolen and more about whether or not this leak will let their spouse know that their wife/husband might have STDs. If someone wants "a bit of excitement" in their life, they can jump off a cliff.
Here's the thing; whatever your moral stance on cheating, it's irrelevant. What happens between adults in a relationship is their own business. The people here running their mouths about how 'they got what they deserved' are wrong. No one deserves to have their privacy violated. No one deserves to have their personal business aired all over the internet. No one deserves to have their identity stolen. It's sad to see people who would normally be against this kind of thing turn around and celebrate it when the victims happen to be someone who was doing something they don't agree with. That's not how it works.
To each their own, but the bolded should be elaborated upon.
my SO shows me each conversation and interaction which takes places before she meets these people. we share it together. what would you like elaborated?
my SO shows me each conversation and interaction which takes places before she meets these people. we share it together. what would you like elaborated?
Here's the thing; whatever your moral stance on cheating, it's irrelevant. What happens between adults in a relationship is their own business. The people here running their mouths about how 'they got what they deserved' are wrong. No one deserves to have their privacy violated. No one deserves to have their personal business aired all over the internet. No one deserves to have their identity stolen. It's sad to see people who would normally be against this kind of thing turn around and celebrate it when the victims happen to be someone who was doing something they don't agree with. That's not how it works.
Would you feel the same if members of a child pornography ring were outed?
Would you feel the same if members of a child pornography ring were outed?
Comparing consenting adults having affairs to a child pornography ring. Well done, really.
Comparing consenting adults having affairs to a child pornography ring. Well done, really.
Delusional and kind of broken consenting adults v. people who ruin the lives of children.
Uhhhhhhhhhh....
You all missed the point. The point was whether or not you would feel this way if the data released was from a group that you find morally repulsive. He wasn't really comparing cheaters to pedos.Again the issue is consent. This wouldn't an issue if their partners consented. And yes, its relevant if the poster's position is that privacy is absolute and not determined by the morality of the action. Otherwise where is the line drawn?
What is a victim of infidelity? Is it the person doing the cheating because of a lack of intimacy in a relationship or is it the person being cheated on due to a lack of intimacy in the relationship? Cheating (and I don't mean on a boyfriend or girlfriend, because that is not real) does not happen in a void. I place as much blame on the cheated on side as on the cheater when a relationship breaks down to the point that one side feels the need for that.
I would have to say that divorce is a hell of a lot harder emotionally and financially on a person than letting a spouse get a little on the side. Let alone what happens to the kids. Divorce creates victims, infidelity just causes butt hurt.
What is a victim of infidelity? Is it the person doing the cheating because of a lack of intimacy in a relationship or is it the person being cheated on due to a lack of intimacy in the relationship? Cheating (and I don't mean on a boyfriend or girlfriend, because that is not real) does not happen in a void. I place as much blame on the cheated on side as on the cheater when a relationship breaks down to the point that one side feels the need for that.
I would have to say that divorce is a hell of a lot harder emotionally and financially on a person than letting a spouse get a little on the side. Let alone what happens to the kids. Divorce creates victims, infidelity just causes butt hurt.
What is a victim of infidelity? Is it the person doing the cheating because of a lack of intimacy in a relationship or is it the person being cheated on due to a lack of intimacy in the relationship? Cheating (and I don't mean on a boyfriend or girlfriend, because that is not real) does not happen in a void. I place as much blame on the cheated on side as on the cheater when a relationship breaks down to the point that one side feels the need for that.
I would have to say that divorce is a hell of a lot harder emotionally and financially on a person than letting a spouse get a little on the side. Let alone what happens to the kids. Divorce creates victims, infidelity just causes butt hurt.
Here's the thing; whatever your moral stance on cheating, it's irrelevant. What happens between adults in a relationship is their own business. The people here running their mouths about how 'they got what they deserved' are wrong. No one deserves to have their privacy violated. No one deserves to have their personal business aired all over the internet. No one deserves to have their identity stolen. It's sad to see people who would normally be against this kind of thing turn around and celebrate it when the victims happen to be someone who was doing something they don't agree with. That's not how it works.
Apparently about 15k accounts were from people in the government or military?
lol
https://ashleymadisonleakeddata.com/
Punch in the email and well, just pray that your spouse/partner/work friend/your email isn't on it.
What is a victim of infidelity? Is it the person doing the cheating because of a lack of intimacy in a relationship or is it the person being cheated on due to a lack of intimacy in the relationship? Cheating (and I don't mean on a boyfriend or girlfriend, because that is not real) does not happen in a void. I place as much blame on the cheated on side as on the cheater when a relationship breaks down to the point that one side feels the need for that.
I don't agree with people littering on the street. I don't agree with that Beyonce makes diverse music.
Cheating on your spouse, deceiving and emotionally abusing them, is not something "you don't agree with". Don't underplay the significance of what it is.
Oh wow I am loving the hate here.
The unhappy one in the relationship - the one who is doing the cheating - is somehow always the monster, right?. No blame ever on the one being cheated on, right?
Adult relationships are never so cut and dry as to be black and white. There usually is a hell of a lot of gray in there that can more than justify cheating.
So how much of your info is in the leak anyway
Oh wow I am loving the hate here.
The unhappy one in the relationship - the one who is doing the cheating - is somehow always the monster, right?. No blame ever on the one being cheated on, right?
Adult relationships are never so cut and dry as to be black and white. There usually is a hell of a lot of gray in there that can more than justify cheating.
So how much of your info is in the leak anyway
https://ashleymadisonleakeddata.com/
Punch in the email and well, just pray that your spouse/partner/work friend/your email isn't on it.
Oh wow I am loving the hate here.
The unhappy one in the relationship - the one who is doing the cheating - is somehow always the monster, right?. No blame ever on the one being cheated on, right?
Adult relationships are never so cut and dry as to be black and white. There usually is a hell of a lot of gray in there that can more than justify cheating.
You are actually speaking truth. Don't let the purists get to you.
Cheating is bad, sure. But sometimes it happens not just 1 person is a bastard but because there is an issue from both sides in the relationship. Divorce is a traumatic option that isn't always the first choice
The unhappy one in the relationship - the one who is doing the cheating - is somehow always the monster, right?. No blame ever on the one being cheated on, right?