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[Sai-kun]

Some of you should just fuck girls.

God dude, will you SHUT THE FUCK UP.

I fucking get it

You like daddies and hairy guys

Well guess what, NOT EVERYBODY DOES.

So just stop fucking whining about, okay? Jesus christ

god damn you are such a shitposter

 

[Devolution]

Some of you should just fuck girls.

Nothing wrong with admiring a form sans hair. Why would they want to fuck a woman, if they're not attracted to her naked body?

Also let's not act like women being without hair is somehow natural to them either. It's just socialized into us that women have to be without body hair.

 

[Aeana]

A lot of my girlfriends are into younger guys too, but I can't really relate. The whole twink phenomenon is totally lost on me. I guess some of the guys I crushed on during my teen years would have qualified, but at that point they were all older than me, so I guess I haven't really changed that much.

Do girls actually like nice, honest guys? I know it's pretty obvious that people like nice people but if a guy has nothing going on in his life and that's why he wants to start dating (so that he could mix it up) would that be appealing? So yeah if it was the guy who was all clueless and stuff. Is that at all appealing?

Not that I'm in anyway like that. >_>

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I know this belongs in a girl-age thread but I'd like a feminine perspective on this.

I don't think that what you described is particularly appealing or unappealing. Although it could be that I'm not really understanding exactly what you're asking -- is it just whether women like inexperienced guys, or what? My personal interest would depend on other factors, which I guess are difficult to describe in detail.

 

[ZephyrFate]

Hairless athletic guys are my weakness. Majorly.

 

[Devolution]

Do girls actually like nice, honest guys? I know it's pretty obvious that people like nice people but if a guy has nothing going on in his life and that's why he wants to start dating (so that he could mix it up) would that be appealing? So yeah if it was the guy who was all clueless and stuff. Is that at all appealing?

Not that I'm in anyway like that. >_>

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I know this belongs in a girl-age thread but I'd like a feminine perspective on this.

My boyfriend isn't an asshole and manages to be honest about shit. The whole "girls are into bad boys" shit is so played out. I think girls are attracted to confidence, and take a while to differentiate between "jackass" and "confident man."

 

[Poyunch]

I don't think that what you described is particularly appealing or unappealing. Although it could be that I'm not really understanding exactly what you're asking -- is it just whether women like inexperienced guys, or what? My personal interest would depend on other factors, which I guess are difficult to describe in detail.

Well more like the guy's not really living an interesting life and he's looking for someone fun to change all that. And that it would be the girl that would more often offer things to do rather than the guy initiating stuff.

My boyfriend isn't an asshole and manages to be honest about shit. The whole "girls are into bad boys" shit is so played out. I think girls are attracted to confidence, and take a while to differentiate between "jackass" and "confident man."

Yeah I get all that but if he's particularly uninteresting but up to do stuff is that enough for a person to be interested

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(lol)

?

 

[red13th]

I love body hair but my boyfriend is Asian. He couldn't grow a strand of hair in his chest even if he wanted.

 

[krypt0nian]

God dude, will you SHUT THE FUCK UP.

I fucking get it

You like daddies and hairy guys

Well guess what, NOT EVERYBODY DOES.

So just stop fucking whining about, okay? Jesus christ

god damn you are such a shitposter

Now you're making it fun. Lots of prepubescent love I guess.

 

[Mercury Fred]

Hello GayGAF.

So I had my heart kind of ripped out of my chest and tossed into the gutter last January by my now ex-boyfriend. This resulted in not only a depressing as fuck Winter, but my longest dry spell in forever. I was totally disinterested in sex and dating sounded as repulsive as, well, eating pussy.

Last weekend I did a little guest DJ gig and met an extremely sexy guy who seemed pretty sweet-- he looks a bit like a long lost Baldwin brother. He was taking off kind of early, but we swapped info and we're going out later this week. Woot.

Oh, and I was so revved up from that that I was able to break the seal and get some last night with this big hunky German dude that I met

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on Grindr

. I figured I needed to get some straight up sex before the date later this week so I don't end up humping the poor guy's leg over drinks.

Anyway, yeah. My heart's still broken, but less so than it was before

Hair on ass hot hot hot.

fixed

 

[Sai-kun]

Now you're making it fun. Lots of prepubescent love I guess.

Fuck you, dude.

 

[Aeana]

Well more like the guy's not really living an interesting life and he's looking for someone fun to change all that. And that it would be the girl that would more often offer things to do rather than the guy initiating stuff.

Oh. I say that I wouldn't like it if there wasn't a balance. I don't want to be led around all the time, but I don't want to be doing the leading all the time either.

I think Devolution hit on an important point: women are definitely attracted to confidence. I know I am. Confidence ties in with another important point of attraction for a lot of women in general, which is a feeling of security. Note that while a lot of men will try to distill the idea of security to financial security (especially around here), there is a lot more to it that can be much more important. A guy having his life in order in general can go a long way toward garnering attraction.

 

[Delio]

Now you're making it fun. Lots of prepubescent love I guess.

Now that is fucking stupid

 

[krypt0nian]

Fuck you, dude.

I don't wax. Or get my nails did.

 

[Devolution]

Yeah I get all that but if he's particularly uninteresting but up to do stuff is that enough for a person to be interested

Spoiler

(lol)

?

Then let women know that. If you're open to trying out stuff she likes just for the hell of it, that's a lot more fun than a boyfriend who only has his set of interests and won't do anything with his girl.

 

[Sai-kun]

I don't wax. Or get my nails did.

Neither do I? What's your fucking point.

 

[Poyunch]

Oh. I say that I wouldn't like it if there wasn't a balance. I don't want to be led around all the time, but I don't want to be doing the leading all the time either.

I think Devolution hit on an important point: women are definitely attracted to confidence. I know I am. Confidence ties in with another important point of attraction for a lot of women in general, which is a feeling of security. Note that while a lot of men will try to distill the idea of security to financial security (especially around here), there is a lot more to it that can be much more important. A guy having his life in order in general can go a long way toward garnering attraction.

Then let women know that. If you're open to trying out stuff she likes just for the hell of it, that's a lot more fun than a boyfriend who only has his set of interests and won't do anything with his girl.

Good to know.

 

[ZephyrFate]

I don't wax. Or get my nails did.

No one cares. Stop trolling this topic.

 

[krypt0nian]

Neither do I? What's your fucking point.

You wouldn't want to fuck me. I'm a guy. Past puberty.

 

[TheSeks]

RAGE

Settle down babe and take some Ritalin. You're going to pop a vein.

Hairless athletic guys are my weakness. Majorly.

Hairless non-gut men are fine. Clean shaven up there and down there. MMMyes.

I don't mind if they have leg hair, but I kinda prefer totally clean shaven. But it's a bitch to maintain. :/

Yeah I get all that but if he's particularly uninteresting but up to do stuff is that enough for a person to be interested(lol)?

I'm not a girl, but I'd say you'd have to be more outgoing and putting yourself out there if you want her to get interested. You may be a nice guy but they won't be interested if you don't show them your interested.

It also depends on the girl, everyone has different tastes, and some won't like "uninteresting" nerds. It happens.

Edit: Oh, read wrong. If you're willing to do stuff that you may not know about yeah, I think the girl will like that. But you need to charm her first.

 

[The Technomancer]

Oh. I say that I wouldn't like it if there wasn't a balance. I don't want to be led around all the time, but I don't want to be doing the leading all the time either.

I think Devolution hit on an important point: women are definitely attracted to confidence. I know I am. Confidence ties in with another important point of attraction for a lot of women in general, which is a feeling of security. Note that while a lot of men will try to distill the idea of security to financial security (especially around here), there is a lot more to it that can be much more important. A guy having his life in order in general can go a long way toward garnering attraction.

Maybe if Fem-GAF says this as well it will finally strike home for a lot of Alone-GAF

 

[Devolution]

I don't wax. Or get my nails did.

You wouldn't want to fuck me. I'm a guy. Past puberty.

I didn't make this thread for people to be self-righteous and trollish about their personal preferences. Why you gotta shit up the thread like this? ;_;

 

[ZephyrFate]

Settle down babe and take some Ritalin. You're going to pop a vein.



Hairless non-gut men are fine. Clean shaven up there and down there. MMMyes.

I don't mind if they have leg hair, but I kinda prefer totally clean shaven. But it's a bitch to maintain. :/



I'm not a girl, but I'd say you'd have to be more outgoing and putting yourself out there if you want her to get interested. You may be a nice guy but they won't be interested if you don't show them your interested.

It also depends on the girl, everyone has different tastes, and some won't like "uninteresting" nerds. It happens.

I love leg hair on a guy. But I'm also not averse to a bit of a pubefro so long as he trims it and stuff.

I'm kinda divided on it, though, because I love treasure trails and hairless guys don't have those, but if he had no hair on his upper body BESIDES the treasure trail... well, that's just awesome.

 

[krypt0nian]

I didn't make this thread for people to be self-righteous and trollish about their personal preferences. Why you gotta shit up the thread like this? ;_;

All the eewww hair responses get eewww hairless boys replies. Didn't you see you jump on them. Then Sai started bawling and made it fun.

 

[Poyunch]

I'm not a girl, but I'd say you'd have to be more outgoing and putting yourself out there if you want her to get interested. You may be a nice guy but they won't be interested if you don't show them your interested.

It also depends on the girl, everyone has different tastes, and some won't like "uninteresting" nerds. It happens.

Oh yeah. I'm just hoping the girl I'm interested likes the "uninteresting' nerd types. ;P

 

[Devolution]

All the eewww hair responses get eewww hairless boys replies.

And where did you see personal attacks against them like you are doing right now?

 

[SpacedCadette]

Yes! Confidence! My current boyfriend totally won me over because he was confident. Not just because he was confident in approaching me, but because he was confident in general.

 

[The Technomancer]

Oh yeah. I'm just hoping the girl I'm interested likes the "uninteresting' nerd types. ;P

Hah, this is turning into a Girl-Age thread.
Why do you think you're uninteresting?

 

[Delio]

You wouldn't want to fuck me. I'm a guy. Past puberty.

Yeah and they are still guys even without some hair. Wtf are you even doing this?

 

[krypt0nian]

And where did you see personal attacks against them like you are doing right now?

Sai's shit poster and whining comment got the thunder.

 

[Devolution]

Sai's shit poster and whining comment got the thunder.

That's funny because I saw this first from you.

Some of you should just fuck girls.

I don't recall the people who prefer shaven saying, "some of you should just fuck bears."

 

[krypt0nian]

That's funny because I saw this first from you.




I don't recall the people who prefer shaven saying, "some of you should just fuck bears."

And if they did I'd laugh it off. Not blow a silly little fuse.

 

[Poyunch]

Hah, this is turning into a Girl-Age thread.
Why do you think you're uninteresting?

Because all I do really is attend college, occasionally watch TV, hang out with friends whenever I can (which is rarely since they live far away), and browse on the Internet.

Introducing myself with, "Hey I browse, NeoGAF " doesn't sound ideal. Honestly if I had a car I'd be doing way more stuff but I don't have one. :/

 

[TheSeks]

Oh yeah. I'm just hoping the girl I'm interested likes the "uninteresting' nerd types. ;P

Your first problem is worrying about it. You need to see her tomorrow (or whenever) and ask her out. Just flat out: "I think your pretty, I am interested in you and would like to do something with you. Your pick or mine, movies? Dinner? Whatever. It's cool with me."

If she rejects that, then it probably isn't meant to be. But if it is then start worrying about what you may/may not have in common for it to work.

Why do you think you're uninteresting?

Because he's a nerd? I can understand the feeling.

Like I said: The first bit is putting yourself out there. You shouldn't be sitting around worrying about if you're "interesting" or not. You need to see if she even thinks you are good looking/attractive first of all before worrying about common interests (though that is important above all, you are too unconfident right now to worry about skipping girls. Baby steps to build up to this)

 

[omgkitty]

Some people need to grow up already or go crawl back in the holes they came out of. People can be so ignorant sometimes. Damn.

 

[Devolution]

And if they did I'd laugh it off. Not blow a silly little fuse.

Yes that's great in hindsight and all, but it'd still basically be shitting up the thread with unnecessary viciousness, do you get that?

 

[SpacedCadette]

Oh yeah. I'm just hoping the girl I'm interested likes the "uninteresting' nerd types. ;P

Uninteresting is relative.

 

[The Technomancer]

Because all I do really is attend college, occasionally watch TV, hang out with friends whenever I can (which is rarely since they live far away), and browse on the Internet.

Introducing myself with, "Hey I browse, NeoGAF " doesn't sound ideal. Honestly if I had a car I'd be doing way more stuff but I don't have one. :/

Thats just what you do. That doesn't say anything about your personality. I do most of the same, but people like being around me because I make them laugh and I have kind of an infectious energy.

 

[dream]

Is this really what gay people bicker over?

 

[etiolate]

I plan to have a beard like the avett bros

That shit is tight. Look at that motherfucker. We gonna get civil war in the bedroom when I invade your southern hospitalities.

 

[Stellares]

I guess I'm different cause I like shy and nervous guys. I do like confidence, but there is a line that is often crossed into arrogance, which is a total turn-off. I want a guy to be nice.

 

[Devolution]

Is this really what gay people bicker over?

No. No one is bickering about it really. Some people (krypt) are just being self-righteous, personal and unnecessarily trollish about other's preferences in accordance with their own.

I wish I could thread ban if he's going to continue along this path.

 

[ZephyrFate]

Is this really what gay people bicker over?

No, it's what krypt0nian bickers over.

 

[Delio]

Yes that's great in hindsight and all, but it'd still basically be shitting up the thread with unnecessary viciousness, do you get that?

I think some people just act like a bitch and dont care if they shit up a joint as long as they get smelled.

 

[Sai-kun]

Is this really what gay people bicker over?

No, but Kryptonian never has anything nice to say re: other people's preferences in guys. This isn't a one-off thing.

 

[Poyunch]

Your first problem is worrying about it. You need to see her tomorrow (or whenever) and ask her out. Just flat out: "I think your pretty, I am interested in you and would like to do something with you. Your pick or mine, movies? Dinner? Whatever. It's cool with me."

If she rejects that, then it probably isn't meant to be. But if it is then start worrying about what you may/may not have in common for it to work.

Yeah I've always over-thought things but I'm at least working on it. Before I wouldn't even consider dating. But that's partially because my life was really bad before and I had low self-esteem.

Thats just what you do. That doesn't say anything about your personality. I do most of the same, but people like being around me because I make them laugh and I have kind of an infectious energy.

Uninteresting is relative.

I guess.

 

[Cosmic Bus]

As for hair styles: Man some of you guys are picky. Long hair, shoulder length hair, hell even Bandana's can look good on a man if they make it work.

Yup, it's not easy with all the negative associations that longer hair has on a guy, but some people just pull it off well. I once worked with a tall, athletic and very handsome Costa Rican with shoulder-length hair that he wore in a ponytail most of the time, and he looked damn good that way. A few years later, he decided to cut most of it off and admittedly went from attractive-but-not-my-type to yowza.

Now you're making it fun. Lots of prepubescent love I guess.

Ah, yes, krypt's ever popular train of thought that if you weren't born with an abundance of hair follicles, they you might as well be a girl and/or processed into soylent green.

 

[dream]

No, but Kryptonian never has anything nice to say re: other people's preferences in guys. This isn't a one-off thing.

I mean, maybe I'm missing something here and I don't want to pile on krypt but...why does he care?

 

[SpacedCadette]

I guess I'm different cause I like shy and nervous guys. I do like confidence, but there is a line that is often crossed into arrogance, which is a total turn-off. I want a guy to be nice.

There's a definite difference between confidence and arrogance. You can be a nice, confident guy

 

[SouthernDragon]

Question to Gay-GAF/Girl-GAF:
Long hair on a guy Y/N/M?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
No.

Gross. No.

Seriously. NO.

Seriously. Amateur porn uber alles.
Also long hair is the hardon killer. Ewwwww!

Absolutely not.
I could go with this, except as much as I like hairy guys, back hair is kind of a gigantic turn-off.

Stubble is nice. Just gotta have everything tidy! I still like bare-faced and non-hairy dudes too.
If he has longer hair than me... no thanks. Bangs/fringes are okay though.

And that answers that. Everyone told me I looked great with long hair... except I knew they were lying. I'm never letting it grow long again.

Is this really what gay people bicker over?

Bears v Twinks, the Great Gay GAF rift.

 

[Aeana]

Oh yeah. I'm just hoping the girl I'm interested likes the "uninteresting' nerd types. ;P

For what it's worth, I need some level of geekiness in my guys to be happy. Also, I know a guy who can recall exactly what volume of a comic book some event happened, and for some reason it's totally hot.