Don't rely on texting for long conversations. Pick up the phone and call the girl for that. If she doesn't respond to your phone call then move on and don't continue to call/text afterwards. You'll seem desperate which is a turnoff for most women.
I never take selfies, but I want honest feedback.
Of course, but I still want to hear the opinions of others.
I force myself to smile everyday, but it hasn't gotten any easier. I don't like showing teeth because mine are yellow, an unfortunate side effect from medicine as a baby. Whitening toothpaste has never worked, only a dentist trip. I've been meaning to look into some whitening/dental gum.
It is styled. I have hair gel in it.Darklord said:
If you saw me without a shirt on you would understand, but I wouldn't put you through that hottie. Terrible, terrible moobs.
Only photo I've done recently with a genuine smile was with my grandmother:
(My hair looks bad in this picture)
I actually went to a stylist to have my hair done. It's suppose to look this this:stn said:
I can't see myself with a goatee. I tried growing like this ring of hair around my face before, but it was too much work and one of my close friends told me I look like shit with facial hair. :\stn said:
See above regarding the hair. I am running right now, but no lifting.A human I would recommend waxing/gelling your hair to give it a style and perhaps do a little bit of lifting or cardio if you want to boost your self confidence and physique as that would help. Combine that with increasing your confidence and be happy and you'll be good
Thank you for your honesty. I've always thought I was a generic looking white guy.
I don't like how short my hair is. Do you think it will look okay once it's grown out?Servbot24 said:
Servbot24 said:
Are you saying a slight stubble with no neck hair?
That would look okay on me.
My problems will never go away. All I can do is manage them.
I have trouble smiling sincerely as well, at least on camera. And I have the male equivalent of bitch face syndrome
Haha, I bet I would do the same. =( I should probably work on that.
Overwhelmed by the hotness.
As direct as it may seem, I think your actions leave too much room for doubt from the recipient's perspective.
Being forward is for the best, I think. There's enough bullshit when it comes to relationships.
I have a problem with the latter sentence because of the former. Our culture depicts men as being very sex driven and women as not interested or if expressing so a slut/whore/skank. That leads to women being objectified and men to be evaluated. You could make the argument that being used is more hurtful than to be shown disinterest. What I'm trying to get at is I've only once ever been cold to a woman who tried to approach me and that had nothing to do with her appearance (I was having severe anxiety).
More than once I've been disappointed to find a girl I was attracted to had a boyfriend. I don't have an infinite amount of energy to use! She told me that I have too passionate and emotional kisses for a fwb relationship to work and that was grounds for rejecting me! :lol But of course there were more things going on. This girl has been talking nonstop at the age of 21 that she desperately wants a husband and children asap (obviously to fill an imagined void) and she never wanted another fwb thing again because people get hurt. But she went along with it anyway and is now regretting it I guess? Now she's unsure if she wants a bf at all or if her and I are suited for each other (my current lack of interest in children and dreams of moving abroad were also off putting). But as the stupid debate raged on, it becomes clear that she has made plans to meet another guy tomorrow if she isn't sick. She's been curious about him since before she met me but never mentioned him. And being curious about two guys at once, one of which she has never met afaik, isn't fair so she's dumping me despite the fact that we seemed to be getting along perfectly! It certainly sounds like the only thing she's uncertain of here is if he would be a better bf than me and she's willing to take that risk since she told me we're done before ever having met him. Nobody deserves to be treated like this Another girl, another fascinating heartbreak, basically. Thinking everything was fine and looking forward to seeing her soon again, this whole thing started with a random message from her saying that she was going to maybe meet a guy tomorrow and asked if that was okay with me since we had only met twice and had made a deal that other people are fine. At this point she had already made the decision to leave me without even telling me we had a problem. How two faced can you get? Haha yes I can see that. It's always the same story too it seems. But maybe it's the age thing. I got way too over excited about this girl too soon and over reacted about this breakup. She does have a point in that we've only met twice. But it's not the guy that bothers me, it's the manipulative secrecy and how I wasn't even involved in the decision making that annoys me when everything seemed to be going according to plans. But she is gone now. Apart from coming to my apartment unannounced, she has no way of getting in contact with me anymore.
Too many, too long deeeeep conversations (I think we talked online to 7am three nights in a row recently) creates interest in another person's viewpoints. All for nothing even if it gave me many insights.
Here I am on the right, in the pink.
And here I am in the middle, purple/glasses.
Aside from hitting the gym and bulking up, what can I do to improve my physical appearance so I can stop worrying about that when talking to girls?
