No, that was tempted.
You gonna argue that dude was full on darkside there? That he actually succumbed?
Because I dont' think that's a good reading of what happened at the end of Jedi. He was tempted (like Ben told him he would be) and pulled back (he's hiding in the shadows for a reason) twice during that fight.
but you just argued that Luke went bad.
Nope, I argued what I actually typed - that Luke attempted something which would've sent him firmly down the path of the dark side, and only Vader's intervention stopped him. If you load a gun, aim it at someone who is unarmed and not a threat to you and you pull the trigger, but miss, you weren't
tempted to kill them, you went past temptation and attempted murder.
So I mean, which is it? Did he not succumb to the temptation? In which case, why should Rey? That's Luke's story. And if he didn't - why should she?
Because she's a different character with a different life, different thoughts and motivations and feelings from Luke? With a history we know nothing about? Again you seem to think her having a different journey to Luke somehow makes her weaker than him. Nobody is asserting that.
I'm not setting rules based on her gender at all. I'm wondering why her story arc only becomes interesting to people if she's not a good guy anymore. And why the suggestion that Kylo be the true hero who either saves Rey, (or kills her because she's just too bad), is the best option there.
Wouldn't that be Anakin's story?
First of all, nobody's saying it only becomes interesting if she's not a good guy, just that conflict is inherently interesting in a character and as an incredibly powerful force user who's powers are progressing rapidly she's in a prime position to have to deal with that inner conflict and potentially falter. It could be a story we haven't seen - Luke was on the edge but came back, Anakin went full dark side, maybe Rey goes somewhat dark side but comes back from it?
Secondly, nobody's saying Kylo's going to be the 'true hero', but if you think him saying the light side is calling to him through TFA is just going to be forgotten in the next two films then that's pretty shortsighted. He's already conflicted and the future of that character clearly isn't going to be 'nah he's just a bad guy'. Again, this is interesting.
Just to put it out there, do you know what I'd like to see? Kylo and Rey both swap, but then bring each other to some sort of middle ground. No Jedi, no Sith. No moustache twirling villainy, no weird emotionless cult, but some new movement which strikes a positive balance between two ideologies.