2.35:1 is only "more epic" than 16:9 because most theaters have curtains that open up to widen a 16:9 screen to 2.35:1. So you'll watch the trailers in 16:9, and then the curtains open up and wooo, epic. If a curtain retracted over the top and bottom of a 16:9 screen instead, which is basically what happens on an HDTV, then people would be less enthusiastic about watching a 2.35:1 film in theaters. It's all about presentation and size, not aspect ratio. 1.43:1 is stunning when you're watching it on an IMAX screen, but less so on a TV.
I don't mind watching 2.35:1 movies with black bars, but the "director's intent" argument, while valid for the big difference between framing for 4:3 and any widescreen aspect, is kind of overblown when comparing 2.35:1 to 16:9.
So for your staredown between two characters at the opposite ends of the screen, they'll either have to stand a little closer or we'll see a little bit more of their shirts. And for your closeup of a dude's eyes, we'll see a centimeter more of his brow and nose. Oh no, movie ruined. Say goodbye to your Best Cinematography Oscar.
I don't mind watching 2.35:1 movies with black bars, but the "director's intent" argument, while valid for the big difference between framing for 4:3 and any widescreen aspect, is kind of overblown when comparing 2.35:1 to 16:9.
So for your staredown between two characters at the opposite ends of the screen, they'll either have to stand a little closer or we'll see a little bit more of their shirts. And for your closeup of a dude's eyes, we'll see a centimeter more of his brow and nose. Oh no, movie ruined. Say goodbye to your Best Cinematography Oscar.