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Gaf Help. I want to ask her out but....
- Thread starter SamuelSupreme
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Ask her what happens to a toad when it gets struck by lightning.
SamuelSupreme
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So Ororo is The name of Storm from the X-Men whose from Africa. Also this Ororo happens to be Nigerian...so yeah.
"I heard you got some average in you? No? Want some?"
GustyGardens
Banned
That's the thing that stands out the most to me. Why that name?
Anyway, just ask the girl out. Her saying no is the worst that could happen, and if that is what happens, then you can move on. Or....
Since you're the one who signed her up, you presumably have access to her information. You could show up in front of her house and lift weights until she notices you and asks you out. That's what I'd do.
Barrylocke
Member
Why was it important that you told us about her looking average? If you're feeling a vibe, ask her and be done with it. Its easier said than done, but losing an opportunity by overcomplicating things is a bitch. Don't let it happen to you.
No, it's easier done than said. Just do it.
SamuelSupreme
Banned
Saw her today. I started out talking to her normally but then I got called to go take care of an appointment before I could ask. FML. I have to do this Tmrw. No fucks. It is getting done Gaf.
Samuel Out!
Samuel Out!
CrocMother
Banned
Average is the new sexy
SamuelSupreme
Banned
Update: So I finally found my testicles and asked her out. Got the number and we're meeting up at an average place on Thursday...the most average day of the week..
Hasphat'sAnts
Member
Yo, Wtf, Thursday is way cooler than Tuesday.
Cow Mengde
Banned
Tell her how much you're above her league, then casually ask her out. Make it sound like you're doing it out of pity for her.
weemadarthur
Member
At least you're displaying a good sense of humor in your dating thread. XD
SamuelSupreme
Banned
To be honest.....Im nervous....one thing that I've noticed..Im actually really personable and likeable in Person. However, over Text I feel awkward as fuck. I feel like I either say too much or too little...I basically set a place to meet then asked her if she liked Jazz (the place is a jazz restaurant) then said excellent 
I'll be in touch
I'll be in touch
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Jpop
Unconfirmed Member
Thursdays are great days
To be honest.....Im nervous....one thing that I've noticed..Im actually really personable and likeable in Person. However, over Text I feel awkward as fuck. I feel like I either say too much or too little...I basically set a place to meet then asked her if she liked Jazz (the place is a jazz restaurant) then said excellent
Well, the date is Thursday and we are heading into Wednesday. I doubt you could fuck up bad a day before the date.
ZackieChan
Member
To be honest.....Im nervous....one thing that I've noticed..Im actually really personable and likeable in Person. However, over Text I feel awkward as fuck. I feel like I either say too much or too little...I basically set a place to meet then asked her if she liked Jazz (the place is a jazz restaurant) then said excellent
Don't have a conversation over text. Save it for IRL.
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Transhuman
Unconfirmed Member
Coffee??? Start your relationship out on the right foot. Mad Max is still in theatres.
Favourite x-man + favourite type of cookie.
NoFaceNico
Member
NO! NO! Never go to the movies on a first date! Gee, I've got a great idea for a first date with someone I barely know! Let's go watch a big screen for a few hours and sit silently next to each other while trying not to make eye contact! That won't get awkward at all!
OP, you gotta approach this like she's the final boss. You have to input the right combos precisely and choose the correct branches in the dialog tree. Only this time- there is no reset button and you gotta one-credit that shiat. Only then will you be victorious and obtain the greatest treasure... da pussii.
Nah, jk. Props on getting that number. Just remember that she's there to get to know you just as much as you should be there to get to know her. If I go on a date and have sex on my mind, I fuck up. When I go because I'm genuinely interested in learning more about what's happening in this person's life, then everything falls into place. It took me years to figure that out. Sex becomes incidental after that, something that just happens when we're both comfortable with each other. After that- distractions appear, promises are broken, hearts are crushed, lives are ruined and then the process repeats itself (lol, kidding... sort of).
A lot of people say "be confident" but that doesn't really help. It's like telling someone to "be fun" it's something you have at the moment or you don't. I say: "be comfortable" most people can't tell the difference between that and confidence.
ZackieChan
Member
I think a coffee meetup is good. Scope each other out. After that, maybe get some real food if you're into each other. Then, if you've been touchy and are holding hands or something, go see a movie so you can snuggle a bit during the film.
Feels like you've had 3 dates in one, as well. She may be down to go to your average apartment to see your average penis after the flick, too.
Feels like you've had 3 dates in one, as well. She may be down to go to your average apartment to see your average penis after the flick, too.
Glorified G
Member
If your OP is this awkward I can't imagine what you're really like in real life.
"You may not know me, but I've been thinking about you. Don't worry, I'm not struck by your beauty -- in fact, I think you're quite average. But after consulting online with a bunch of strangers on an enthusiast's gaming forum, I've decided that I should man up and ask you out. Are you free for dinner this evening?"
EDIT: Boo-urns. You already asked her out.
EDIT: Boo-urns. You already asked her out.
Messofanego
Banned
Congrats!
SamuelSupreme
Banned
Cool....I was worried that I was a bit too abrupt with how I texted her....I really suck at texting I would rather talk to someone over the phone to be honest
nero2082
Member
To be honest.....Im nervous....one thing that I've noticed..Im actually really personable and likeable in Person. However, over Text I feel awkward as fuck. I feel like I either say too much or too little...I basically set a place to meet then asked her if she liked Jazz (the place is a jazz restaurant) then said excellent
do not create scenarios in your head with what is ok to say and what's not, just chat like a normal person
) also fuck coffee, get some icecreams manZackieChan
Member
Don't do that, either. Save it for the date!
Also, you want her to think you've got other shit going on, not just waiting around to talk or text with her.
SamuelSupreme
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do not create scenarios in your head with what is ok to say and what's not, just chat like a normal person
Im actually thinking of taking her to a nice patio spot downtown toronto. Nothing fancy but it'll provide some good atmosphere.
terrisus
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PeskyToaster
Member
You should just use her real name like "Let's call her Ashley" no one will know and you won't look like a dork.
SamuelSupreme
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The nerd in me just had to get a Black Panther reference in though...
NEOPARADIGM
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Must be a chick thing because I sure as fuck wouldn't be. Also, "creeping" is such a lovely term. This poor guy is talking about being nervous asking for a coffee date and you're calling it creeping. How cute.
SamuelSupreme
Banned
UPDATE: So we went out on a date. I took her to this Thai place in Toronto called Salad King. Food was great, conversation was even better. I punked out and gave her a kiss on the cheek then the lips but overall, I think we'll be seeing each other again.
Thank you Gaf
Thank you Gaf
SolVanderlyn
Thanos acquires the fully powered Infinity Gauntlet in The Avengers: Infinity War, but loses when all the superheroes team up together to stop him.
wawawabbit
Neo Member
After a shaky start, I'm glad this had a happy ending. Congratulations OP.
Souless_PJ
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Good job OP!
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