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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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Yes. It's painful as hell unless:
1: You prepare properly (stretch yourself out a bit first with a toy)
2: Your partner is small (honestly I prefer this at this point >_>)
or
3: You're used to it.
Bottoming is the best fucking thing ever once you get used to it >___>;; Also use tons of lube. And make sure it's -good- lube.
Bel Marduk
Banned
Terrified, no.. but I think its pretty normal to be apprehensive about it. Its just something you have to.. erm... practice to get right... and use lots of lube.
No point in being terrified, it's supposed to be a moment to enjoy with your partner. Just communicate, prepare in advance and maybe play with it some days in advance so you are used to having some attention down there (I remember the first times I was giggly/ticklish around the area).
Like it's been said, stretch a bit (but not too much of course, try to work towards the size that will end up being there), use lots of lube and relax. Also, keep in mind your partner knows where he's sticking it, I'm saying this because sometimes I don't enjoy it because I'm scared of "surprises" (never had this happen, though).
Overall (tl;dr), relax and lube and be comfortable with your partner.
Like it's been said, stretch a bit (but not too much of course, try to work towards the size that will end up being there), use lots of lube and relax. Also, keep in mind your partner knows where he's sticking it, I'm saying this because sometimes I don't enjoy it because I'm scared of "surprises" (never had this happen, though).
Overall (tl;dr), relax and lube and be comfortable with your partner.
I did it "right" I guess you could say, but I still hated it. But then again, I guess it's just not for me.
I'd say I'd be concerned about seeming selfish regarding my unwillingness to swap roles, but it's been so long since I've been in a relationship that it doesn't look like I've got to worry about it anytime soon, lol.
I'd say I'd be concerned about seeming selfish regarding my unwillingness to swap roles, but it's been so long since I've been in a relationship that it doesn't look like I've got to worry about it anytime soon, lol.
It just seems like a couple of people here are making claims based on the assumption that age is the biggest determining factor on a person's ability to be in a relationship. Who we are now is the sum of all of our past experiences. Do you never consider these 35-45 year olds you described are probably the same way when they were 25? That maybe their inability to sustain a relationship is inherent to themselves regardless of their age? It's pretty preposterous to imply that after a certain age men automatically become incapable of commitment.
they are just waiting for OT2, we are like 1000 post away from this thread being locked
Well it's hard to rate something wihtout a picture.
That said, whatever your body looks like, if yourself aren't happy with it then you gotta get off your ass and start working towards what you want. With regular exercise and a healthy diet you can start to see results pretty fast and it not only does wonders for your self-esteem but also fir your health.
The main thing is to fix yourself realistic goals and work towards them. In the end how much people rate your body doesn't matter at all compared to how you feel about it. You should not look for validation in other people because it will only make yourself feel miserable and unfulfilled.
RuPaul says it best:
"If you don't love yourself, how in the HELL are you gonna love somebody else?"
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Yes. Post pictures so I can judge you.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
In my case it would be TV taste. :3
You should not be depressed about your body, at all. Even if you're dissatisfied with how you look, as Alcoori said, just start working out. It really helps make you feel better (both physically and mentally).
Bel Marduk
Banned
You're not ugly at all. You shouldn't have negative self esteem from how you look. If you feel overweight or something, its not difficult to fix for most people. Just a few changes to your daily routine... I lost ten pounds last week just from cutting out soda and energy drinks!
im soooooo addicted to gross fast food though >_>
You can be healthy and still indulge once in a while in a little fast food. It's all about balance and seeing the gross fast food as a special occasion rather than the norm.
People who eat shit, don't exercise and then complain about being fat and ugly have no one to blame but them and I have a hard time feeling sorry for them.
That said you're not ugly at all. It's like Neojubei or fernoca saying how ugly they are only for us to find that no, they're not ugly at all. The only thing I'd would prescribe is a nice haircut. But that's just me.
Bel Marduk
Banned
Well.. if you have to eat out all the time there should be healthier options for you than that if you live in a decent sized city. You can eat sushi all the time like I do but that tends to get expensive... and of course, regular exercise will not only make you look better (which isn't to say you look bad) but it will release those endorphins and you'll feel much better, too.
Trust me, if you stop eating fast food for long enough you won't even miss it.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
You look fine, although you do need a different hair style.
What if that person doesn't watch television at all?
And about food, you just need to discover the healthy food that tastes amazing. Could be something simple like oven baked French bread with olive oil. That the good stuff.
You look good. Just do something about your haircut
And if you don't want to put away junk food completely, at least try to limit it. That will also help a bit.
I actually juuuust got a haircut, i just dont have any pictures of my hair yet >_>
did anyone like that song i linked? i worked really hard on that!
You remind me of this one guy that I knew in HS.
The song reminds me of Cloud Cult or something.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
New cell phone clock alarm get for next week!
SpaceBridge
Member
So pissed. Couldnt romance any dudes in ME3. On last mission. 
So pissed. Couldnt romance any dudes in ME3. On last mission.
You could romance Steve or Kaiden if he's alive.
SpaceBridge
Member
I know. I was gonna romance Cortez even had a date with him at the club but decided that Id rather go with Kaidan since I had more of an atachment to him. But there were no prompts other that a meet up at a restaurant on the Commons. Argh.
I liked it!
=D
vocals and guitar were recorded by my friend Valets... i did all the production and made the song and such
this feedback makes me feel... gay
Did you talk to him in the citadel commons? If nothing happened then, maybe you could have talked to him on the ship afterwards? In my save, kaiden was dead and I went after steve and the date at the bar locked him as my LI.
Oh wait, did anything come up with kaiden in the med bay on the citadel? You could talk to him then, iirc.
DR2K
Banned
I can't imagine just having one role. Very hard to find a guy that likes a little flip flop action.
Topping is so easy, well compared to bottoming. I rarely do either enough. Bottoming is always uncomfortable at first, while topping is always instant gratification.
They both have their pro and cons.
They both have their pro and cons.
I ugly laughed at this. So gewd.
But that meeting is the trigger to romance with Kaidan. If you agree to it, you two are together. If you didn't get the option to romance him, you probably didn't buy him the bottle or didn't talk to him when he ask you to.
i do find i go through moods
The composer for Game of Thrones is Ramin Djawadi. I just caught a glimpse of him on the GOT featurettes and shiiiiiit, dude is stunningly cute. Iranian/German mix. He's perfection for me, haha.
I'm on an iPad and can't grab a google image link to post, but just look him up. Damn.
I'm on an iPad and can't grab a google image link to post, but just look him up. Damn.
dude just looks like a regular joe.
dragonlife
Member
Hello.
Oh, yep.
Ramin Djawadi is awesome. First hear of him with Blade Trinity. Loved this song; still hear it today.
Ramin Djawadi is awesome. First hear of him with Blade Trinity. Loved this song; still hear it today.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Speaking of Game of Thrones, the guy that plays Rob Stark is SUCH a hottie. I'm totally infactuated with him
Pics?
Richard Madden
Though, I prefer Jon Snow played by Kit Harrington (plus he will be in Silent Hill: Revelations playing Vincent...which is currently in limbo thanks to Lionsgate.)
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