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I know we are a bit late to the couples pictures this thread was doing a few pages ago, but we just took some new photos and want to share, so here we go:

This is me
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and this is my handsome boyfriend

sadly there was nobody around to take a picture of us both at the same time. :(
 
I know we are a bit late to the couples pictures this thread was doing a few pages ago, but we just took some new photos and want to share, so here we go:
This is me
2013-01-31232627_zps23278ecd.jpg

and this is my handsome boyfriend
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sadly there was nobody around to take a picture of us both at the same time. :(



Extremely cute/handsome/good looking couple!
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I know we are a bit late to the couples pictures this thread was doing a few pages ago, but we just took some new photos and want to share, so here we go:

This is me



and this is my handsome boyfriend


sadly there was nobody around to take a picture of us both at the same time. :(

you know cameras/phones have timers and you have a web cam. there's a timer. excuses bro ;P
 
I know we are a bit late to the couples pictures this thread was doing a few pages ago, but we just took some new photos and want to share, so here we go:
This is me
and this is my handsome boyfriend
sadly there was nobody around to take a picture of us both at the same time. :(


mmmmmmm sexy. equally of course to both.
 
I know we are a bit late to the couples pictures this thread was doing a few pages ago, but we just took some new photos and want to share, so here we go:

This is me



and this is my handsome boyfriend


sadly there was nobody around to take a picture of us both at the same time. :(

I'm not big on threesomes, but I'd make an exception in this case.

Edit: lame, I couldn't quote the pics, thus losing the impact.
 
Man, I'm at a club and every time a new song comes up, I just remember that it was in dance central. I'm such a fucking nerd, haha.
 
Why not just stick to one workout and see it all the way through? Genuine question.
 
I'm always surprised to see France as such a conservative country. Every time I go, it's like a trip back in time.
 
It has not quite passed yet. The whole bill still needs to be voted on (should last another week), then it has to pass the senate before finally being signed by the president.
I won't celebrate until it's signed, but at least it's moving in the right direction.
 
I think there are only two states that allow same sex marriage in Mexico. I'm personally not interested in ever getting married, but yeah, it sucks that it's not allowed.
 
I have a bit of a rant that I hope doesn't offend anyone with this and please excuse my ignorance if i'm wrong with something specific in my thoughts. I've really been thinking about The "It gets Better" campaign or I should say, what it has become.

When the campaign first started and the whole community became involved creating videos that were really moving and wonderful stores about their experiences about how they got through bullying. Then Companies started to create their videos, one of the most memorable was i think from NVIDIA, the video is showing a fairly diverse amount of individuals each with strong messages and stories that goes beyond saying "It gets better". However that bring me to why I'm upset about not only the campaign now for a few reasons.

Now that the campaign has been a huge success and many people know about it. More people got on the bandwagon. It seems that of the more recent especially popular of the videos are not even people of the LGBT community, Now people like the president, random (straight) celebs and sports teams are making these "It gets better" Videos with No actual message or content to their videos other than saying "it gets better' all over again. No stories, no sense of value or a genuine message between their words.

It's great that they were able to expand the message to anyone who is bullied, but i'm curious how many people even know that he campaign was an LGBT youth tolerance campaign, Specifically the people in these campaign videos.

Since the recent controversy around Artie Lange and the 49's about his Anti gay remarks i've been thinking about it more, especially since the team created an It gets better video and apparently Artie Lange or possibly the whole team didn't even know it was about LGBT Bullying, instead thought it was Just about Bullying in general. I don't think it's OK for us to pat these Pseudo Straight Ally's on the back when they might not even genuinely care and seem to cause more harm then good. Meanwhile instead of us telling our story to gain acceptance and show who our true heroes are in the community, these so called ally's are being hailed and celebrated as tolerant when they probably don't care. They not only telling our message with no context. It's problematic and Faux activism.

I know most of my argument is about how much the It gets better campaign has changed and even we are to blame it seems as it has become more of an automatic catchphrase a few people say, without any critical and meaningful reason behind saying it(even if we actually do have a meaningful reason, its just never seems to be said why now). But my other problems like i said is turning into these usually straight celebrities into faux activist in our community possibly for the sake of making them feel less like bigots. Help us out cause you really want to help us out. not because you want to make sure you look accepting
 
I think there are only two states that allow same sex marriage in Mexico. I'm personally not interested in ever getting married, but yeah, it sucks that it's not allowed.

Well, they're allowed in Mexico City where a huge portion of the population lives. They're done in New York City too.. So its a huge percentage of North America right there.. it'll trickle down to the other states too.. Why are you not interested in ever getting married? I mean, people change but it seems like kind of a depressing life being alone or just into casual sex etc.
 
I want a long term relationship (I'm actually not into casual sex). I just don't think I need to get married, I don't need the contract. I disagree that being single is depressing, though :P And actually, to me the idea of -needing- romance to not be depressed is rather depressing, especially considering a ton of marriages end in divorce. To each its own, I guess.
 
I have a bit of a rant that I hope doesn't offend anyone with this and please excuse my ignorance if i'm wrong with something specific in my thoughts. I've really been thinking about The "It gets Better" campaign or I should say, what it has become.

When the campaign first started and the whole community became involved creating videos that were really moving and wonderful stores about their experiences about how they got through bullying. Then Companies started to create their videos, one of the most memorable was i think from NVIDIA, the video is showing a fairly diverse amount of individuals each with strong messages and stories that goes beyond saying "It gets better". However that bring me to why I'm upset about not only the campaign now for a few reasons.

Now that the campaign has been a huge success and many people know about it. More people got on the bandwagon. It seems that of the more recent especially popular of the videos are not even people of the LGBT community, Now people like the president, random (straight) celebs and sports teams are making these "It gets better" Videos with No actual message or content to their videos other than saying "it gets better' all over again. No stories, no sense of value or a genuine message between their words.

It's great that they were able to expand the message to anyone who is bullied, but i'm curious how many people even know that he campaign was an LGBT youth tolerance campaign, Specifically the people in these campaign videos.

Since the recent controversy around Artie Lange and the 49's about his Anti gay remarks i've been thinking about it more, especially since the team created an It gets better video and apparently Artie Lange or possibly the whole team didn't even know it was about LGBT Bullying, instead thought it was Just about Bullying in general. I don't think it's OK for us to pat these Pseudo Straight Ally's on the back when they might not even genuinely care and seem to cause more harm then good. Meanwhile instead of us telling our story to gain acceptance and show who our true heroes are in the community, these so called ally's are being hailed and celebrated as tolerant when they probably don't care. They not only telling our message with no context. It's problematic and Faux activism.

I know most of my argument is about how much the It gets better campaign has changed and even we are to blame it seems as it has become more of an automatic catchphrase a few people say, without any critical and meaningful reason behind saying it(even if we actually do have a meaningful reason, its just never seems to be said why now). But my other problems like i said is turning into these usually straight celebrities into faux activist in our community possibly for the sake of making them feel like bigots. Help us out cause you really want to help us out. not because you want to make sure you look accepting

I actually totally agree with you and I was really shocked about the 49ers debacle. Even more so because they are SF motherfucking team. I mean, bitch please, how are you spewing anti-gay shit when you play for the team from the gayest place in the US??
 
Hey everyone! I haven't posted in here for quite a while, but i just wanted to say that I think i've finally found someone that i'm really compatible with and he's just so cute. The other day he shot me a text asking me if he can come over after i got off of work to bring me dinner. He came by and after i ate the delicious Thai food he brought me, he handed me a fortune cookie. He made it himself and when i opened it, there was a fortune inside that was hand-written that said "Will you be my valentine?" I almost died from how cute the entire gesture was. Of course i said yes!

kinda off-topic: i got a haircut a few days ago, what do you guys think? (don't mind the funny face, my friend caught me off guard haha)

 
I have a bit of a rant that I hope doesn't offend anyone with this and please excuse my ignorance if i'm wrong with something specific in my thoughts. I've really been thinking about The "It gets Better" campaign or I should say, what it has become.

When the campaign first started and the whole community became involved creating videos that were really moving and wonderful stores about their experiences about how they got through bullying. Then Companies started to create their videos, one of the most memorable was i think from NVIDIA, the video is showing a fairly diverse amount of individuals each with strong messages and stories that goes beyond saying "It gets better". However that bring me to why I'm upset about not only the campaign now for a few reasons.

Now that the campaign has been a huge success and many people know about it. More people got on the bandwagon. It seems that of the more recent especially popular of the videos are not even people of the LGBT community, Now people like the president, random (straight) celebs and sports teams are making these "It gets better" Videos with No actual message or content to their videos other than saying "it gets better' all over again. No stories, no sense of value or a genuine message between their words.

It's great that they were able to expand the message to anyone who is bullied, but i'm curious how many people even know that he campaign was an LGBT youth tolerance campaign, Specifically the people in these campaign videos.

Since the recent controversy around Artie Lange and the 49's about his Anti gay remarks i've been thinking about it more, especially since the team created an It gets better video and apparently Artie Lange or possibly the whole team didn't even know it was about LGBT Bullying, instead thought it was Just about Bullying in general. I don't think it's OK for us to pat these Pseudo Straight Ally's on the back when they might not even genuinely care and seem to cause more harm then good. Meanwhile instead of us telling our story to gain acceptance and show who our true heroes are in the community, these so called ally's are being hailed and celebrated as tolerant when they probably don't care. They not only telling our message with no context. It's problematic and Faux activism.

I know most of my argument is about how much the It gets better campaign has changed and even we are to blame it seems as it has become more of an automatic catchphrase a few people say, without any critical and meaningful reason behind saying it(even if we actually do have a meaningful reason, its just never seems to be said why now). But my other problems like i said is turning into these usually straight celebrities into faux activist in our community possibly for the sake of making them feel like bigots. Help us out cause you really want to help us out. not because you want to make sure you look accepting
i completely agree with you.
Hey everyone! I haven't posted in here for quite a while, but i just wanted to say that I think i've finally found someone that i'm really compatible with and he's just so cute. The other day he shot me a text asking me if he can come over after i got off of work to bring me dinner. He came by and after i ate the delicious Thai food he brought me, he handed me a fortune cookie. He made it himself and when i opened it, there was a fortune inside that was hand-written that said "Will you be my valentine?" I almost died from how cute the entire gesture was. Of course i said yes!

kinda off-topic: i got a haircut a few days ago, what do you guys think? (don't mind the funny face, my friend caught me off guard haha)

that is so adorable (and cheesy haha)!

really like the haircut btw, despite that image being so small.
 
i completely agree with you.

that is so adorable (and cheesy haha)!

really like the haircut btw, despite that image being so small.

Thanks! I'm a sucker for cheesy things haha. God knows i've done my share of cheesy things for guys i've liked. Click on the picture and it'll enlarge :)
 
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