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[Zeyphersan]

I can't wait until one of those ridiculous, life-altering moments happens where I can sit down and say to myself "I need to tell GAF about this"

You all lead such good lives and you don't even know it, you piss-stained bastards.

 

[Messofanego]

Uhh why was she taking sleeping pills? That doesn't sound like a good combo.

 

[Opiate]

I've never understood tolerating bad behavior because someone is drunk. I don't see why deliberately impairing cognitive function should remit someone of guilt.

 

[Hammer24]

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[Zeyphersan]

I've never understood tolerating bad behavior because someone is drunk. I don't see why deliberately impairing cognitive function should remit someone of guilt.

I agree, but I don't think most people in this thread were saying she's absolved. Just that the important thing is to make sure she doesn't die and recognizes any problems she has over what happens with the clothes.

 

[Opiate]

I agree, but I don't think most people in this thread were saying she's absolved. Just that the important thing is to make sure she doesn't die and recognizes any problems she has over what happens with the clothes.

I also agree, and didn't mean to imply that everyone was suggesting that. I just see the attitude far more often than I'd expect.

 

[EloquentM]

I've never understood tolerating bad behavior because someone is drunk. I don't see why deliberately impairing cognitive function should remit someone of guilt.

You're absolutely right in that it shouldn't, however I think the tolerance of such behavior comes from empathy and pity. Most of us have done something stupid at one point or another in our lives while drunk. Like I said, should you try to quell their guilt, not necessarily, but (and especially if they have a problem) it would be best to try and help them through it as a friend. To me it's a lesser scale of someone jumping in fire when they just touched fire and got burnt which is why I agree with your sentiments lol.

 

[IISANDERII]

OP please tell me you're not still fixing her roof after this. Especially since you're not being paid. Please!

 

[terrisus]

Everybody has done stupid crap while drunk, just forget it imo.

Not everyone, no.

I've never understood tolerating bad behavior because someone is drunk. I don't see why deliberately impairing cognitive function should remit someone of guilt.

Agreed.

If you're going to be like that when you drink, then don't drink.

 

[RionaaM]

I did this a few days ago to my gf after a big party. I peed on a shelf / floor and a stuffed yoshi and some baskets.

Also did this once before by walking into the closet and peeing in her shoe.

NOOOOOO, poor Yoshi was innocent!

Seriously, this post made me laugh really hard.

 

[riotous]

I've never understood tolerating bad behavior because someone is drunk. I don't see why deliberately impairing cognitive function should remit someone of guilt.

I totally agree in general.

This isn't really a morally wrong/bad scenario though, it's just kind of gross and indicative of someone who is way too drunk. If it happens often, yeah.. don't tolerate it.

I had a friend who kept bringing an acquaintance around who would inevitably every night half pass out on a couch, and then puke.. on said couch.. or puke running to the bathroom.

I'd spend part of every night he was around urging him to go in the bathroom or stop drinking. He was an incredible nuisance and barely even spoke (as it turns out my buddy was using him for cocaine, an addiction he hid).. he tagged along to a girls apartment we were going to party at that was in the middle of nowhere and I warned him that if he puked on their stuff I'd probably get physical, and definitely would not be giving him a ride or seeing him again.

Like clockwork not an hour into the night he's sitting there on the couch visibly "spinning".. finally got up to go to the bathroom and ended up coating their entire hallway with puke floor to ceiling.. was like something about of Alien.

Not proud of it but I took him outside and beat him pretty good and then we all had to leave because the girls were pissed..

Funny aside to the story.. he ended up wandering in the middle of nowhere and was picked up by some random chick he ended up dating and spending all of his time with anyways. Talk about a silver lining, lol.

 

[The Lamonster]

Maybe keep a spray bottle around in case she does it again. It works pretty well to discourage other bad behavior, like scratching the couch and walking on the table.

You can also shake a can with some pennies in it. Scares the crap out of em.

 

[nvrndr]

OP is she hot

 

[DemiMatt]

some people pay quite a bit for that kind of service.

 

[Mistel]

some people pay quite a bit for that kind of service.

I think you prefer the climax.

 

[vikki]

I've never understood tolerating bad behavior because someone is drunk. I don't see why deliberately impairing cognitive function should remit someone of guilt.

Most everyone has been drunk at one time or another and you state it yourself, that their cognitive functions are impaired. We understand that they are probably not doing what they are doing on purpose and its easy to treat these as isolated incidents. If someone routinely gets drunk and makes a scene then it should be dealt with. Even when someone pukes all over the place, they are not off the hook, but they shouldn't be crucified for it either.

In the case of the OP, mixing sleeping meds and alcohol is a big red flag. If she was just drunk I would think this is a one time thing, but mixing it with sleeping meds leads me to believe she may have a serious substance abuse problem.

 

[lenovox1]

OP please tell me you're not still fixing her roof after this. Especially since you're not being paid. Please!

It read like he already fixed it and was sleeping over in a guest room after he conked out.

 

[DemiMatt]

I think you prefer the climax.

 

[Nevasleep]

Why would someone bail out on a friend in need?

A friend in need is a friend indeed.
A friend with Pee is better.

 

[Novocaine]

OP please tell me you're not still fixing her roof after this. Especially since you're not being paid. Please!

He is getting paid. In pee.

 

[jufonuk]

is she hot?

but in all seriousness, wtf??

if it's a drinking problem get her help.
don't stay next you wake up to her doing some other random shit to you while off her face.

 

[Cow Mengde]

OP is she hot

Took us 8 pages to ask this question. We are slipping, GAF.

That question needs an answer.

 

[KeeSomething]

Do you really need GAF's help on this?

 

[terrisus]

Took us 8 pages to ask this question. We are slipping, GAF.

We're slipping in that we still have people using the "50 Posts per Page" setting.

 

[Cow Mengde]

We're slipping in that we still have people using the "50 Posts per Page" setting.

Still wouldn't make it the first page or even first reply.

 

[Sinr1]

Gaf I need you're opinion. Atm I'm staying at a girlfriend who just bought her first house and I'm helping her fixing her roof and someother stuff. I went to sleep a bit early as I been working my ass alot these last days and she said she was going to do some little stuff as she wasnt feeling tired. Few hours went and suddenly I hear this water leaking sound in the room I sleep But was fucking shocked at what I saw. That girlfriend was fucking peeing on a bunch of my clothes ! I yelled Wtf are you doing ?! and she just replied if you don't like get out of my house in a drunken way she is waisted beyond fuck. And now she is sleeping on that same bunch of clothes Wtf do I need to do ? Bail out or help her ? Honestly I don't know :s

Ok, I have a couple theories.....

1) OP is full of shit (or piss). You are saying she woke you up with the sound of her pissing, you had a verbal exchange and then you decided to watch her until she collapsed on your clothes and fall asleep? This is hard to believe, due to the time it would take for all of these events to occur. Even if it all happened rapidly this would still be a couple of minutes of you just sitting there watching her piss, lay down and then sleep.... That's some stranger danger shit to me.

You also stated that you didn't take pictures or video because you were shocked but had the bright idea to pick up your phone and start a thread on Neogaf?

You then state you only had on a shirt and underwear and can't leave like that but stated "I hear this water leaking sound in the room I sleep" which leads me to believe you have been sleeping there for an extended period of time. If this is the case I find it odd that you only have a shirt and underwear that are wearable. It is possible that you had more than one pair of clothes in that pile she reportedly pissed on but why would you only pack half an outfit? Did you not bring the pants/shorts to go with your shirt? Do you keep a pile of clean and dirty clothes together? did you not take a shower after working on her roof? and if you did take a shower you are saying you put your dirty shirt and underwear back on What gives?

You then state she drank more than one bottle of liquor on her own which is a stretch. If anything she would have vomited prior to pissing on your clothes. I don't care if she has an iron stomach, you are talking at least 50 oz of hard liquor.

You go on to say you spoke with her and all she had to say was sorry?

Your buddy picked you up in the middle of the night, took you back and then you made coffee? So you are saying you didn't have the decency to stick around to see if she was ok, you didn't have the decency to move her from your piss soaked clothes but you had the decency to wake her for her appointment and make her coffee? What a swell guy you are.

One last thing... a sleeping pill? Now we are potentially talking about someone who is suicidal.... this is crazy.


2) She got drunk in an attempt to gain some false courage so she could hook up with you! She clearly wants to bang you but most likely didn't want to mess up the friendship. She had a plan to get her buzz on, go to your room and put the stanky, stanky on you...

3) She is an alcoholic who doesn't know the layout of her new home and thought she was actually going to the bathroom in the bathroom.

In any event, those are my 3 theories.

 

[Chris R]

Better pee than puke.

 

[Mistel]

I wouldn't tell anyone...

 

[speculawyer]

Your girlfriend may be an alcoholic.

 

[Mistah]

ok will post an update later today when I arrive home.

just to clarify it happend arround 5am in the morning. I dont live in usa. she takes everyday a sleeping pil as she has trouble sleeping. and i didnt immediately jumped to my phone to make a thread about this if some of you guys think.

she also made an appointment for her aggresive behaviour as she doesn't remember a thing

 

[Pizza con salsiccia]

ok will post an update later today when I arrive home.

just to clarify it happend arround 5am in the morning. I dont live in usa. she takes everyday a sleeping pil as she has trouble sleeping. and i didnt immediately jumped to my phone to make a thread about this if some of you guys think.

she also made an appointment for her aggresive behaviour as she doesn't remember a thing

Thanks for the update.

This was disappointing in the end, this thread could have gone places.

 

[suberzat]

Thread had so much potential but we will be waiting OP

 

[Mistah]

So final update.


Full story.


I was staying at her house for a couple of days as there was alot of work to do at the house (Roof,kitchen,Guest Bedroom). Went to sleep at 3am as I finished working in the kitchen in the meantime I asked her if she wasn't getting tired and she said she wasn't so I just said that I was going to sleep as I was tired as fuck.

While I was asleep she took some shots of Bacardi and eristof and finished it with a sleeping pill... after that she came to the guest bedroom and took a piss at my clothes. I woke up by the sound of it and shouted What the fuck are you doing?! and she replied drunkenly that If I didn't liked it I should gtfo. I tried to pull her to the bed but she didn't wanted me to touch her and even became a bit aggressive. The day before she asked me to wake her up early as she had a appointment at 8:30 am with her physiotherapist.

I tried to wake her up at 7:15 am and after many tries she came awake and she didn't remember shit. She asked why she was lying on my clothes and I told her what happend at first she was in denial and couldn't believe it but then she just cried and said sorry took a shower and said sorry again and went to her appointment. She talked with her physiotherapist what happend and he basically confirmed it was a dumb move to take the sleeping pill after all those shots of Bacardi & Eristof. In the meantime my friend picked me up as I didn't had any clean clothes left. Went to my place took a shower took some fresh clothes then came back to finish the job at her place.

She even managed to get bruises all over her body like these.

 

[Clydefrog]

da fuqqq...?

 

[Cow Mengde]

I'd sleep with one eye opened if I were you.

 

[commedieu]

resubscribed.

 

[Perfect Cha0s]

Get this girl some help.

 

[Atilac]

You are putting up with a lot from her, especially considering she is just a friend.

 

[Ekdrm2d1]

wow at bruises all over her body.
Now.. I've fallen over because I was drunk, but the bruise was only on one part of my body.

 

[Winterfang]

OP you need to take her out of those clothes, give her a bath, take her to bed, wash the clothes and make her coffee in the morning. Then after she recovered, just casually say "the fuck was that all about?''

 

[Mistah]

You are putting up with a lot from her, especially considering she is just a friend.

Well I gave her my word I would help her fix her house :/ I always hold my word when I do something so yeah.

 

[Hale-XF11]

Totally knew it was gonna be a blackout story.

 

[Shao Kahn Brewing a Stew]

Thanks for the update. Sucks what you went through.

 

[Wolf Dawgz]

So final update.


Full story.


I was staying at her house for a couple of days as there was alot of work to do at the house (Roof,kitchen,Guest Bedroom). Went to sleep at 3am as I finished working in the kitchen in the meantime I asked her if she wasn't getting tired and she said she wasn't so I just said that I was going to sleep as I was tired as fuck.

While I was asleep she took some shots of Bacardi and eristof and finished it with a sleeping pill... after that she came to the guest bedroom and took a piss at my clothes. I woke up by the sound of it and shouted What the fuck are you doing?! and she replied drunkenly that If I didn't liked it I should gtfo. I tried to pull her to the bed but she didn't wanted me to touch her and even became a bit aggressive. The day before she asked me to wake her up early as she had a appointment at 8:30 am with her physiotherapist.

I tried to wake her up at 7:15 am and after many tries she came awake and she didn't remember shit. She asked why she was lying on my clothes and I told her what happend at first she was in denial and couldn't believe it but then she just cried and said sorry took a shower and said sorry again and went to her appointment. She talked with her physiotherapist what happend and he basically confirmed it was a dumb move to take the sleeping pill after all those shots of Bacardi & Eristof. In the meantime my friend picked me up as I didn't had any clean clothes left. Went to my place took a shower took some fresh clothes then came back to finish the job at her place.

She even managed to get bruises all over her body like these.

Shots of alcohol and sleeping pills at 3 AM? Is she trying to kill herself? How did she get bruises?

 

[Mistah]

Shots of alcohol and sleeping pills at 3 AM? Is she trying to kill herself? How did she get bruises?

probably felt from the stairs :s

 

[Ekdrm2d1]

probably felt from the stairs :s

lol god.

Almost happened to me a few months ago.. Caught my balance

 

[Derwind]

Tit for tat, she piss on your clothes, then get drunk of your ass one night when she's sober and shit in her hamper.

Simple.

 

[Winterfang]

probably felt from the stairs :s

I'm 100% sure that was the case. Almost exactly a year ago (Easter Sunday) my best friend and I got almost black out drunk. She felt on the stairs of my house and she got the same exact bruises all over her tramp stamp.

 

[andthebeatgoeson]

Get out or get framed.

 

[Mistah]

Get out or get framed.

I'm at my place currently. Going to take the plane tomorrow.