Sunster
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So if, for instance, you're 28 and have a friend who's 56, do you have to stop being friends with her when you're 29 and she's 57 since she's not twice your age anymore, and won't ever be again?
idk I'll ask her.
So if, for instance, you're 28 and have a friend who's 56, do you have to stop being friends with her when you're 29 and she's 57 since she's not twice your age anymore, and won't ever be again?
Should have polled how many people are married lol.
idk I'll ask her.
Sure have, the common factor being me and nothing else.
I'm surprised with some of the people in this thread saying they've never had women friends. How is that even possible? Like, not in mocking kind of way, but half the planet is women and you haven't had a SINGLE women friend? I don't believe that.
I'm surprised with some of the people in this thread saying they've never had women friends. How is that even possible? Like, not in mocking kind of way, but half the planet is women and you haven't had a SINGLE women friend? I don't believe that.
I'm surprised with some of the people in this thread saying they've never had women friends. How is that even possible? Like, not in mocking kind of way, but half the planet is women and you haven't had a SINGLE women friend? I don't believe that.
No. They've gotten even stronger, actually. My ladypals are my bloodsisters at this point. : D
(Responding as a bisexual male)
When you guys say you have no friends, what do you really mean?
I'm the most introverted guy I know by a large margin, 39 years old, single and I happily spend 99% of my time by myself, yet I wouldn't say that I have no friends. I do communicate and occasionally meet with a number of people I like to call friends. Some of them I'm pretty close to and we always do favors for each other.
I'm gay and I think I used to have more girl friends in the past. Nowadays my friends are mainly guys, a healthy mix of straight and gay, all unmarried.
When you guys say you have no friends, what do you really mean?
I'm the most introverted guy I know by a large margin, 39 years old, single and I happily spend 99% of my time by myself, yet I wouldn't say that I have no friends. I do communicate and occasionally meet with a number of people I like to call friends. Some of them I'm pretty close to and we always do favors for each other.
I'm gay and I think I used to have more girl friends in the past. Nowadays my friends are mainly guys, a healthy mix of straight and gay, all unmarried.
I always had a great time with girls growing up, but somehow it never resulted into friendships.
in my case "no friends" means I don't socialize with anyone. no get togethers, no phone calls or messages. the people I used to hang out with were on my facebook page, but hardly had any interaction with them. last year I gave one of them a steam code of a game I thought he'd like, we had a little chat afterwards, very friendly superficial small talk. a week later my facebook account was blocked (I used a stupid fake name when I made my facebook and instead of just be upfront and tell me to change it, he reported my account - fucking spineless piece of shit).
I never managed to have gay friends. *shrugs* it's all good, though. I'm a lot happier being alone.
It means you have no friends. You have no one outside of family that you can call up on a whim and have a casual conversation with, or grab a coffee, see a movie, etc
I haven't had a friend since graduating high school 5 years ago. I have acquaintances, people who I know and talk to in class or at work, but I have no contact with any of them outside of work/school.
Wow I find that kind of depressing, and I think of myself as extremely independent/introverted/avoidant person who is not at all a fan of socializing... But yet even I get the urge to share an experience or recommend something I've seen or used with a friend. I almost always prefer to do it over text messaging though, but my friends do manage to drag me into a get together/hangout once in a while... I typically dread those as I really don't like leaving my house (and I don't like hosting either), but I look at it as a tax of sorts I have to pay to maintain a friendship that I care about. I've lost a ton of friends over the years because I didn't want to see them as often as they deemed necessary to maintain a relationship. I don't blame them for it, but I wish everyone was okay with "long distance friendships" and only meeting once in a blue moon.
And sometimes I even have a good/great time spending time with a friend/friends. But usually I just wanna go home as soon as I can and hope they don't drag me out again for a long time