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how do you justify watching porn to your SO

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NoRéN

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sn00zer said:
This....honestly I cant imagine people's porn watching habits not being cut down significantly when they are in a relationship....if you are choosing porn over sex though there is likely a problem either with you or the relationships
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Or have her pop a xanax and wait until her attitude changes.
 
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R3TRODYCE

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All my exes made videos for me so I never had to but even with the temptation I feel weird watching them. I bet this is how super villains are created.
 
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bidguy

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SquiddyCracker said:
Not touching this topic with a ten foot pole.
Does so anyway.

OP: If your girlfriend gets jealous, discuss it with her. Does she wish for you to solely have sexual attraction to her, and no other women?
Or does she accept that you might feel attracted to other women, but doesn't want you to act out on it (e.g. masturbate to porn)?

If the above is the case, then you simply have to discuss things with her to determine how robust these attitudes of hers are. If you can't work something out (like, perhaps the two of you can make private "porn" for you to masturbate to when she isn't around to satisfy your sexual needs), then you might have to part.

It's also possible she feel like she can't compete with the women you masturbate to, which may lead to her self-esteem dropping. Perhaps she thinks that if you watch porn, she's simply not hot enough to pull in all of your attention.

If this is the case, then talk things over with her, try to explain to her your sexual urges and needs, and how you may be attracted to a wide variety of women and wish fulfill your sexual urges via fantasies (e.g. porn and masturbation), but that she is still the woman you wish to be with - and that you find her insanely attractive.
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sounds like too much work
ill just act as if nothing ever happened

thanks for the replies
 
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Gherid__lacksGPS

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If you need to watch porn while you have an SO, then you should probably get a new SO. Or, you need to get some fucking discipline and not be a douche.
 
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Pumpkin King

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criesofthepast said:
Any of you ever fap to pics of your girlfriend?
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Ew. Gross! :)

Seriously, guys watch porn. Many women feel insecure about this. If she is home, and you would rather watch porn than do the deed with her, just bail.

If you're alone, just hide your browser history better. And save some energy for her.

Or, just be single.
 
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SquiddyCracker

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vogelkacke said:
sounds like too much work
ill just act as if nothing ever happened

thanks for the replies
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I tried.
 
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tell her it's normal, harmless, end 99% of men watch porn regularly. it's nothing to be jealous about. no woman on the planet could be so sexually attractive and available as to completely diminish the value of porn. except in the case of men with lower than average (?) sex drives.
 
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After we had sex for the first time:

Me: "I like watching porn, do you mind?"

Her: "well no..."

Me: "Alright"

And 4 years later I married her and I continue to enjoy my porn...
 
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AyaisMUsikWhore

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Have her watch it with you. I know some women including myself hate porn but she would be lying if it didn't make her want to try new things. Just watch it with her, get some popcorn, make sure everything is cleared so when the shit hits the fan, there will be no excuses.
 
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toxicgonzo

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I tell her she is not as physically attractive as the pornstars I watch. I would rather have a relationship with any porn star than with her but that I settled for her instead.
 
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Gherid__lacksGPS said:
lol. I know it's not a popular opinion, but if you're in a serious relationship, you should not be spanking off to other women. I guess I'm just a queer, though. :shrugs:
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oh, interesting. well, to me is porn is just another daily reliever, like pooping and peeing. so this thread kind of reads to me like 'how do you justify peeing to your girlfriend if the uretheral stimulation you get from it makes your gf jealous?". Hell if i know.

where is the line drawn by people who are jealous of porn anyway? is imagining having sex with other women ok while you pop one in the shower?
 
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Snot Rocket

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I told her that I was jackin my cock before I met her and I wouldn't ever stop because its a primal instinct I cannot shake. She understands, reciprocates and has no issue with it. She even bought em some jizz rags so I'd stop using the towels lol
 
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Brian Fellows

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Snot Rocket said:
I told her that I was jackin my cock before I met her and I wouldn't ever stop because its a primal instinct I cannot shake. She understands, reciprocates and has no issue with it. She even bought em some jizz rags so I'd stop using the towels lol
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