SquiddyCracker
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Yeah, but how long do you think like that?
Certainly, in the infatuation phase it wouldn't be out of order for most of your sexual needs to revolve around your SO. But after it?
You'd probably be in a miniscule minority.
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how do you justify watching porn to your SO
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Yeah, but how long do you think like that?
Certainly, in the infatuation phase it wouldn't be out of order for most of your sexual needs to revolve around your SO. But after it?
You'd probably be in a miniscule minority.
FUBAR McDangles
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She's 100% fine with it. Sometimes watches it with me. She watches it herself sometimes.
CarpeDeezNutz
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Yeah you might be right. I have always been like this. As soon as I like a girl all I think about is her. Other girls mean nothing to me, it's good sometimes and it sucks other times (getting jealous). But yeah, once I find a girl I don't give a shit about porn.
mullet2000
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I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with someone who I would have to justify it or fight about porn to, to be honest.
Maybe it's my age group or something but every GF I've had has watched porn as well. No issues.
Maybe it's my age group or something but every GF I've had has watched porn as well. No issues.
Bay Maximus
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I wish I had a libido switch that I could turn off save for one person. I don't cheat physically, but my brain is a dirty whore.
OP: uhhhh, I would talk it out. People in relationships should be able to discuss things like adults.
CarpeDeezNutz
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Wait... For me porn is a filler until I meet a girl. Is it different for you?
I had a healthy sexual relationship with my last gf. Both of us watched porn every week. I probably watched more than her though.
I pretty much fap as much when im single, not getting sex regularly and when I have a gf and get it virtually anytime I want.
They are different needs.
DragonKnight
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Try hard mode. No porn no girl.
velociraptor
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Femmeworth
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I used to look at porn and masturbate pretty much every day, but I gave it up to help with my sexual dysfunction. It's surprisingly easy to do, at least for me. Not necessarily suggesting this for anyone else. My SO watches porn so I don't think she cares either way.
CarpeDeezNutz
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Fuuuckk no cheats?
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Just be honest, tell her she won't do the sick shit that gets you off.
Bay Maximus
Banned
I don't watch porn anymore and I haven't for some time (way before my current GF). I think my GF is beautiful and attractive and I would never cheat but I'd be lying if I said I didn't get an eyeful around campus or the mall on occasion. And I'm sure she would too. *shrugs*
Head of Vengarl
Banned
Justify? I don't really have to. It's kind of a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. She just assumes I whack off every day when she's not around. And she's right.
SillyEskimo
Member
It's never been an issue. If it was, I would consider it an issue with her, not me.
So you never masturbate when in a relationship? How long have you been in a relationship with the same girl?
People don't always share the desire for sex at every given moment. Hard to believe I know.
ezekielpacman
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Offer to substitute porn for actual sex and receive that inevitable rejection.
Acrylic7
Member
lol. Only do this if you watch regular porn.
Shit gets real on my monitor. Call the police on my ass.
CarpeDeezNutz
Member
I save it for her. I get in this lockdown mode where all I think about is my gf. I am the weirdo I guess.
This, but fapping increases when I'm more alone. They are different kinds of enjoyment, but porn you can watch together also.
Never had this problem and if I ever had, then she would have to get over being stupid about it.
EnVy_CaLiBeR
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Watched it with her, masturbated to it with her, and we've had sex with it going on on the laptop before as well. Doesn't seem like a big deal really.
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Henchmen21
Banned
Do they have Enya playing in the background?
I think she's trying to tell you something.
velociraptor
Junior Member
I know I am in the minority here but I think watching porn and jacking off is a very sad act, especially if you have a girlfriend or significant other. Why would you need to masturbate when you can have sex whenever you want? I would happily stop watching porn if I was in a relationship again.
H.Protagonist
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We have our own kinds of porn. We don't care about yours. 
Because you can't have sex whenever you want. Plus, looking at porn together is fun.
Cow Mengde
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Tell her the alternative would be you plowing her ass at least twice a day.
Spring-Loaded
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Perhaps they :
- don't live together
- aren't always in the mood at the same time
- consider the watching porn and having sex two separate things
different people feel differently about different things
Because having a relationship does not equal having sex whenever you want. Different people have different sexual needs and desires, especially as time goes on.
How many of you actually watch porn while you're dating? How often?
Seriously, it's a bit depressing to think guys are masturbating to porn in secret while in a relationship that will eventually provide them with a sexual release if they so desire.
Some self restraint doesn't have to be such a bad thing when in a relationship.
Seriously, it's a bit depressing to think guys are masturbating to porn in secret while in a relationship that will eventually provide them with a sexual release if they so desire.
Some self restraint doesn't have to be such a bad thing when in a relationship.
AlteredForms
Banned
Ew. Gross!
Seriously, guys watch porn. Many women feel insecure about this. If she is home, and you would rather watch porn than do the deed with her, just bail.
If you're alone, just hide your browser history better. And save some energy for her.
Or, just be single.
Do you pleasure yourself to images or videos of pornographic actors or actresses?
I know that feeling lol. There is porn where I inmediately erase my browser history after watching it
Skellig Gra
Member
It's not that simple man. Women can be fickle creatures and they can also piss you off too. Not always around. The list goes on.
Devolution
Member
So guys have to be a on-demand jizz machine? Self-restraint isn't that hard, and if anything it only improves your sex life.
I'm not saying never masturbate. I guess I look at porn as being the sexual equivalent of fast-food, in many ways.
OriginalNameGuy
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"I need to get off."
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