America needs better sex ed for that. Seriously.
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How many sexual partners for girls is too many?
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America needs better sex ed for that. Seriously.
Winterfang
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Last time I was in the topic, the concept of Roast beef vagina was brought up. I'm assuming some Vags just look like that and it has nothing to do with intercourse.
Edit: I search Google in the subject and it seems a lot of ladies are insecure or displeased by the looks of their body parts.
Edit: I search Google in the subject and it seems a lot of ladies are insecure or displeased by the looks of their body parts.
Buy her a toothbrush?
You can still taste their cum you two kiss, can't you?
Infinite_Daremo
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I dunno why the amount bothers men. She'd see a lot more action being with the same guy. If she's STD free I wouldn't be bothered unless she did some comparisons.
Spectrum128
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Seems unnecessary to worry about it. She probably took most of the loads on her face and tits anyway.
I couldn't give a shit if Mrs Smoky used to gargle, let alone swallow. My only concern is trying to squeeze in a blowjob before she picks up Animal Crossing.
Your tag is just too perfect for this post. LOL
I'd say you should get over it, that's slightly above average at most.
We fit in anywhere.
SmackDaddy
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LOL never opening up on this site again. Yeah, the thought of other dudes popping a wad on my SO's is freaky to me. but there is comfort in knowing I do it better.
All the time.
Damn. Fuck me indeed.
What ?
andthebeatgoeson
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Until you figure out the number is increasing.
Carfo: 'but you told me 19 before.'
Just kidding. Must be nice to remember how many people you slept with. Not saying I had a lot but the exercise became pointless to me around college. After 20 and away from the close social structure of high school, it's easier to have casual sex. It's not that big of a deal and he's the type of hypocrite that makes it harder on guys. Not that sex is a valuable trait but he is having sex too. He's just jealous of someone having more toys then him. He's selfish.
I don't want a girl that had a thousand encounters but I can also reconcile my emotions as being selfish. When I was in high school, college and more, I was actively pursuing sex. It would be bullshit to call off my relationships for a number.
Infinite_Daremo
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Make her use your unit as the stylus. Win/Win.
Choke on the Magic
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Sad, sad little posts in this thread.
The solution is simple. Your friend and his girl just need to get checked out. If you're both clean, play ball.
The solution is simple. Your friend and his girl just need to get checked out. If you're both clean, play ball.
Pawns in the game of sex chess
I've rubbed my chap on an awful lot of ugly things but I'd never stoop so low as to nudge it up against a 3DS.
I have many female friends and I have slept with some of them.
Hell, you've met a few
that I've slept with
Winterfang
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He has lots of females friends and he hasn't slept with some of them.
I don't care about how many people girls (that I'm not dating) have sex with - a lot of my closest friends are girls, and sex life discussions are one of the best features of those relationships.
On the other hand, I do care a fucking lot about my girlfriend's number, and it's never not bothered me. I'm the jealous type, though. I also got burned pretty badly by my first serious relationship but I have no idea if that's even a factor anymore.
On the other hand, I do care a fucking lot about my girlfriend's number, and it's never not bothered me. I'm the jealous type, though. I also got burned pretty badly by my first serious relationship but I have no idea if that's even a factor anymore.
Infinite_Daremo
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But Vita's perfectly ok?
Because you'd be jealous that you didn't get as much at that age? :0
Dat Oh, Oh... OhhhhLED.
SquiddyCracker
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Chances are, you (and everyone else) come in contact with traces of cum, piss, and feces on a daily basis.
Infinite_Daremo
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You'll give the poor guy a complex.
Username quote.
You shouldn't care. This is so much unneeded stress on yourself and probably your relationship.
Caring about a number is such a juvenile thing. No mature adult who has lived lived their life ( and realizes that other people have lived there's) would have the time to waste giving a shit about someone's "number".
My mother is in her 40s, divorced, and dates regularly. I could imagine her laughing at the absurdity here.
It's subjective. For me, 30+ guys is a flag, but not a deal-breaker. She might've been a pump-and-dump for all those guys, it could have been the other way around where she was doing the heart-breaking, or maybe a combination of the that and some more. Also, more partners = increased risk of disease, which is a more legitimate worry.
It also depends on what the end game is; if I just wanted sex, it wouldn't matter provided she's clean. If your buddy is all hung up over the 30+ number, he may want something serious, which to me is a little funny after only a few months. Sounds like he's hung up over her looks more than anything else.
It also depends on what the end game is; if I just wanted sex, it wouldn't matter provided she's clean. If your buddy is all hung up over the 30+ number, he may want something serious, which to me is a little funny after only a few months. Sounds like he's hung up over her looks more than anything else.
Yeah, I know. That doesn't mean it's just something I can turn off though.
SilentRacoon
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Depends, how "smoked" has to be to be considered a medium-rare term delicacy?
I prefer them all nasty on the outside, and pink and soft on the inside, It helps as a perimeter on keeping away curious onlookers.
But serously, you guys bothered by this kind of stuff, does it also make you feel uncomfortable the fact that she might have been pleased(maybe even more effectively than you ever will) coountless of times by an inanimate object?
I prefer them all nasty on the outside, and pink and soft on the inside, It helps as a perimeter on keeping away curious onlookers.
But serously, you guys bothered by this kind of stuff, does it also make you feel uncomfortable the fact that she might have been pleased(maybe even more effectively than you ever will) coountless of times by an inanimate object?
If I was casually dating a girl, I wouldnt really care. If I was marrying someone, I would prefer the number to be under 10 or so. It probably wouldn't be a deal breaker though, unless it was something ridiculous and the person had a lot of one night stands.
To be fair, I'm not really a one night stand person. I've had one or two in my life but no more than that. I don't have some sort of ridiculous double standard.
To be fair, I'm not really a one night stand person. I've had one or two in my life but no more than that. I don't have some sort of ridiculous double standard.
..I ..uh. No nothing. Carry on.
Sanky Panky
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Aide from health concerns that apply to both men and women, I hope this thread helps us men reflect on OUR insecurities behind this question. Aside from an archaic and sexist sense of ownership over your partner's sex object/vagina, there is nothing but insecurity behind that question.
This is not a legitimate worry at all.
I worked in an STD prevention clinic while in college, and I can't tell you how many cases of "b-b-but I've only been with 1-2 people!" we got.
The second you start having sex you're at risk, and it's incredibly foolish to think that perceived number of partners is any sort of protection.
That's not what I typed, though.
evilernLeGG
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The whole idea that someone who has slept with lots of people can't ever be in a committed relationship is absolutely absurd.
You do realize that sex is different with everyone, right? Even with someone who has multiple partners. Humans like sex. It feels good. So we like to do it. I've been with a number of women, and I've also been in committed relationships (two of them were 5 years each) in which I've never been unfaithful.
So just because I enjoy casual sex in between relationships means that I can't form a healthy and faithful relationship? That's fucking ridiculous.
Even hookups can feel different. I have a really good girl friend that I've been friends with for years. Whenever we're single, we hook up. We don't date, and we have an understanding . That's a casual hookup, and I care deeply about her.
There's also the reverse here that people saying it's gross are putting a spectacular spin on the meanings of sex. So you're going to be with someone forever just because you have sex with them? What if you like them, start dating, sleep with them and then find out you don't like them anymore (or God forbid they don't like you!). Stop the sex with anyone else because it's gross?
I understand people have different morals and values, but I'll go ahead and put my "blanket statement" on it: In my experience, the people who have this kind of view are insecure, young or just shy and instead of accepting this, they convey this "slut shaming" as an outlet for their jealousy.
You do realize that sex is different with everyone, right? Even with someone who has multiple partners. Humans like sex. It feels good. So we like to do it. I've been with a number of women, and I've also been in committed relationships (two of them were 5 years each) in which I've never been unfaithful.
So just because I enjoy casual sex in between relationships means that I can't form a healthy and faithful relationship? That's fucking ridiculous.
Even hookups can feel different. I have a really good girl friend that I've been friends with for years. Whenever we're single, we hook up. We don't date, and we have an understanding . That's a casual hookup, and I care deeply about her.
There's also the reverse here that people saying it's gross are putting a spectacular spin on the meanings of sex. So you're going to be with someone forever just because you have sex with them? What if you like them, start dating, sleep with them and then find out you don't like them anymore (or God forbid they don't like you!). Stop the sex with anyone else because it's gross?
I understand people have different morals and values, but I'll go ahead and put my "blanket statement" on it: In my experience, the people who have this kind of view are insecure, young or just shy and instead of accepting this, they convey this "slut shaming" as an outlet for their jealousy.
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