TheXfactor
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I don't know, i just can't stop thinking about it for some reason but to break up with someone because they smoked too much is something i never had to do before. and i just got questions about it, mainly due to it cause i kept thinking to myself that i was being judgemental of her habits.
But anyway, i dated this girl for about a month, and i really liked her. i liked her personallty, i thought she was very pretty, and i knew she smoked weed, that wasn't an issue.. or so i thought. so when i was dating her, she smoked weed about twice every week. which was perfectly fine, i mean i dont smoke weed myself(just a choice i made, dont care if anyone does it just not my thing) and it was what ever. Then she started doing it everyday, like i would come see her and when she would see me, she was high. i could tell she was by the way she acted and her eyes. and it got to the point where i was seeing her high more than i was seeing her not high, by a huge margin. She had to go to class(college) she needed to get high, getting her first tattoo has to get it high before she gets it, gets the tattoo needs to get high to celebrate, has to go band practice(she plays an instrument for the school ensemble) needs to get high before it. She is telling she is trying to smoke weed so much before things because she is trying to make it so it makes her concentrate better? See i wouldn't know about this, maybe its true maybe its not that it could help you, but it just seems excessive.
and... I just felt uncomfortable with it. I mean I don't know how much weed really changes a person, but i felt like her emotions weren't really there when she was high? Just really chill. And i knew she wasn't gonna change so i just ended it with her for told her the truth, that it was just too much for me.
and my question is was i wrong to do this?does weed really change you a lot? should i expect girls that smoke weed smoke this much, is it normal?
But anyway, i dated this girl for about a month, and i really liked her. i liked her personallty, i thought she was very pretty, and i knew she smoked weed, that wasn't an issue.. or so i thought. so when i was dating her, she smoked weed about twice every week. which was perfectly fine, i mean i dont smoke weed myself(just a choice i made, dont care if anyone does it just not my thing) and it was what ever. Then she started doing it everyday, like i would come see her and when she would see me, she was high. i could tell she was by the way she acted and her eyes. and it got to the point where i was seeing her high more than i was seeing her not high, by a huge margin. She had to go to class(college) she needed to get high, getting her first tattoo has to get it high before she gets it, gets the tattoo needs to get high to celebrate, has to go band practice(she plays an instrument for the school ensemble) needs to get high before it. She is telling she is trying to smoke weed so much before things because she is trying to make it so it makes her concentrate better? See i wouldn't know about this, maybe its true maybe its not that it could help you, but it just seems excessive.
and... I just felt uncomfortable with it. I mean I don't know how much weed really changes a person, but i felt like her emotions weren't really there when she was high? Just really chill. And i knew she wasn't gonna change so i just ended it with her for told her the truth, that it was just too much for me.
and my question is was i wrong to do this?does weed really change you a lot? should i expect girls that smoke weed smoke this much, is it normal?