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We're genuinely hoping it doesn't go down like the end of that movie did. OP whatever you do, don't even think about picking up any random suitcases.
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So Im going on a date (or something) with a prostitute
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Well, "friendship" is a type of relationship. And they are obviously already having sex, making it another type of relationship entirely.
terrisus
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A business relationship.
I would buy that shirt in a heartbeat.
yeah. it's going to be a weird transition into whatever. i hope we get updated!
Is it that weird? People end up dating people like waitresses and whatnot. So the business was sexual in nature. Who cares?
Because that is totally the same
They both live off tips.
God Dayumm
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Is sex with the boss a business relation?
Both are jobs where you provide a service to people for cash and tips. People are so damn weird about sex.
Brian Griffin
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I assume that it's illegal to give someone cash for sex but an item worth X dollars as a "present" is totally OK.
Is this true OP? Did you give her the receipt as well so she can get cash eventually?
but then all of your popcorn will fall out... ?
Dunno, call me old fashioned but I see a lot of difference between bringing me food and letting me penetrate them with my penis.
Although the line with waitresses of "so you just did one service for me, how's about doing another" is interesting
Kano on the Phone
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You're definitely old fashioned.
Sex is fun and it's easy. I can't wrap my mind around people that somehow think it's a worse way to make a living than waiting tables or some shit.
Didn't say it was worse, I said it was not the same.
The sex trade exists entirely because sex is not easy.
Some may consider it on par with waiting tables, but in an emotional sense (when you have a relationship with a person who sells themselves) polygamy is not a natural urge and makes partners jealous.
That does not make people old fashioned. It makes people human.
Polygamy is completely natural. Monogamy is the unnatural state. That "jealousy" is a learned thing.
Eighty Deuce
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What's the difference between paying for a movie and dinner vs giving a "gift" for sex?
Been watching the boondocks too much
This all looks good from here. I agree.
Cool. I'll tell all my waiters/waitresses they need to have sex with me. It's just the same. Hell, I'll even double the tip.
DoktorEvil
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Rentahamster
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You're not talking about what he's talking about.
Deified Data
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Are we really having a debate over whether someone should realistically differentiate between being a waitress and being a sex worker?
Conventions exist about sex. They're not going away. A lot of people associate sex with intimacy and would have a hard time being with someone who made a living out of having sex with other men - that doesn't make them prudish or judgmental. You can have an aversion to something without placing a moral judgment on it.
Conventions exist about sex. They're not going away. A lot of people associate sex with intimacy and would have a hard time being with someone who made a living out of having sex with other men - that doesn't make them prudish or judgmental. You can have an aversion to something without placing a moral judgment on it.
And they're saying that ordering a meal from someone and engaging in sexual intercourse with someone are on two entirely different planes as a service. So, you're not saying conflicting things.
Only if you strip it back to it's raw animalistic essence.
Learned behavior is old fashioned? We are completely governed by learned behavior in everything we do. Would you turn up to work tomorrow with no clothes on because it's an learned behavior/unnatural state?
Having a partner that has sex with multiple men in the normal course of a work-week will probably not end well for the self-confessed "loser" OP with low-self-esteem. Any argument that his emotions are old-fashioned learnt behavior probably won't be much of a consolation.
terrisus
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I had been wondering why so many people had been showing up naked recently.
Also, you would turn up to work tomorrow with no clothes on if your work was
prostitution
TheContact
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To me it sounds like op is getting played. An escort has never been with another guy since op was last with her? Highly doubtful but good luck op
terrisus
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No, he was never with another escort since he was last with her.
Just be a gentleman. Maybe she sees herself as more of a courtesan than a "prostitute", not that it matters. But yeah, don't test her love or be weird or anything. Just be a nice person and see a movie and try to have fun, and no you don't have to pay her, like other people are suggesting. GAF helps you over think things.
The gift IS money.
Find a girl who likes computer games and pay her in Steam bucks.
Zen_Arcade
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The most intimate parts of the relationships with the girls I've dated weren't when they handed me food. I also wouldn't have gotten jealous if she handed other people food.
terrisus
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Speak for yourself
As the saying goes, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
Angry Grimace
Two cannibals are eating a clown. One turns to the other and says "does something taste funny to you?"
I don't entirely get why you keep trying to insist being a sex worker and a waitress are comparable. I suppose its true on some sort of cosmic level, but its disingenuous at best to suggest that prostitution is just like any other occupation.
Because it really is just another job providing a service, and the only difference is what you've been taught to accept culturally.
Angry Grimace
Two cannibals are eating a clown. One turns to the other and says "does something taste funny to you?"
Except people don't just forget their cultural mores because on a totally basic level, every occupation is simply providing services. That argument is specious because it relies on the presumption that what we've been taught culturally is actually irrelevant; you can't just oversimplify everything down to some base level. You might as well argue in favor of dating an assassin since its just our culture that has told us that killing people is wrong.
I'm not saying prostitutes don't date people or that they can't be good mates, I'm saying that its asinine to act like a prostitute is functionally equivalent to a waitress on any level but the most basic one.
Zen_Arcade
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The difference is no one is going to get mad when they're in a relationship with a girl and she has to go to work and hand people cheeseburgers. Pretending they're the same is disingenuous at best, because there are people that tie and have experienced personal intimacy and connection with another person during sex, and while I'm sure there's some fetish out there that will make people serving them food have the same effect on people, it's not nearly as common or understandable to the general public.
Out of interest, would you offer up your sexual services to men should you need a job? It is after all, just the same as pulling an espresso in Starbucks or changing someones motor oil - with no emotional connection whatsoever.
Autumn Wind
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I have seen a few escorts but none that I would ever take for a night out. I just prefer doing a lot of things (going to comedy shows, eating lunch/dinner, etc.) alone.
Not really, just the waiter.
You give her cash as a gift and she have sex with you without the two being related. I know its fucking stupid.
Update: I been in touch. She is working all weekend but she is going to tell me when she has time.
He was making a pun.
This is such a mundane statement that given her situation's context becomes amazing. Anyway I dunno OP, think she does this befriending thing often to secure a repeated customer or do you think she legitimately wants a friend?
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