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So Im going on a date (or something) with a prostitute

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Timeaisis said:
What is this "Rule" I keep hearing about?
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If you make a shitty relationship/sex thread you will get banned by White Man, as there has been an influx if shitty relationship/sex threads.

People talking about how this might not help his self-esteem, how do you feel about the whole "fuck a fat chick to boost your confidence" thing I see all over the net?
 
Go for it. As many have said, life is too short and the risk seems low from the way you describe it.

I would only recommend that, whatever happens, this is just for fun, please, please don't "fall in love". Have some money with you in the remote case she's actually working with a pimp that will beat you if you don't pay.

There's a big chance she's just testing you for free this time but will ask for "presents" if you want to repeat the experience. Don't take anything she says seriously at this stage.
 
With the OP being so awkward and having issues going on, I doubt he will be able to tell the difference from she liking him or just trying to get money. But if he is having a good time, not sure it really matters as long as she isn't totally draining his wallet dry. Go on the fucking date. Movie tickets, popcorn, maybe drinks afterwards is better than sitting at home doing nothing. Get some life experience! Have a story to tell.

I know it is hard to imagine, but some strippers/escorts do actually like going out without money being involved. Maybe she thinks the OP is nice, could have a nice relaxing time with him or maybe she is trying to extract more money out of his wallet. Only one way to find out. Either way he gets a movie with some nice eye candy on his arm.
 
Hermii said:
“We can go like friends:) ”
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dskillzhtown said:
With the OP being so awkward and having issues going on, I doubt he will be able to tell the difference from she liking him or just trying to get money. But if he is having a good time, not sure it really matters as long as she isn't totally draining his wallet dry. Go on the fucking date. Movie tickets, popcorn, maybe drinks afterwards is better than sitting at home doing nothing. Get some life experience! Have a story to tell.

I know it is hard to imagine, but some strippers/escorts do actually like going out without money being involved. Maybe she thinks the OP is nice, could have a nice relaxing time with him or maybe she is trying to extract more money out of his wallet. Only one way to find out. Either way he gets a movie with some nice eye candy on his arm.
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This post coupled with your tag is awesome.
 
I used to know a call girl. I went on a few dates with her, and found out about the call girl stuff later. Still hung out with her after, she was a pretty cool chick.
 
I think this is a terrible idea and she's taking advantage of your mental state to line her pockets with your money.

But hey, let us know how it goes. Whichever way it goes, GAF will love it.
 
Cuban Legend said:
Hmm... I dont mean to judge but White Man seems a touch jaded as I don't remember there having been THAT many shitty relationship threads on front page at one time lately, Or maybe we all need to just get our dicks wet and relieve stress so we stop hating on each other and our "shitty" stories.

well regardless I hope this ends well for the OP and for White Man. We all deserve some action, as long as it'll keep us off each other's throats/dicks.
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He's not out of touch. You obviously weren't around for the 4 threads that showed up in one day on shitty relationship stuff that could've just been posted in the thread.
 
Hermii, I hope your "date" is gonna go well. Be cool and don't give it too much thought. Just enjoy the moment.

NinjaBoiX said:
So he said, "this is how I'm going to treat every relationship thread", but what did he do? Thread wasn't locked, OP wasn't banned, I don't get it.

What was the treat?
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White Man did ban the OP (because he thought OP was lying) but he unbanned him two days later (since OP had provided pics to prove that it was true).

I think relationship threads are fine once in a while.
 
"friend zone is better than no zone" would be a gaf shirt best seller without a doubt
 
butzopower said:
If you make a shitty relationship/sex thread you will get banned by White Man, as there has been an influx if shitty relationship/sex threads.

People talking about how this might not help his self-esteem, how do you feel about the whole "fuck a fat chick to boost your confidence" thing I see all over the net?
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I am pleased that your
unjust
ban was brief.
 
-Eddman- said:
I would only recommend that, whatever happens, this is just for fun, please, please don't "fall in love". Have some money with you in the remote case she's actually working with a pimp that will beat you if you don't pay.
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A lot of self-employed escorts don't have pimps.
 
BurnOutBrighter said:
Yeah, we know there's no hope for this either way.
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No hope for what, exactly? If OP understands the boundaries, he can go out and have a nice time with this girl. If he gets attached is when there will be trouble. If he thinks of it as 'going to see a movie with someone he's familiar with' and nothing more then it will be OK. I think OP should take it as a compliment, in a way: An escort has sex with lots of men, but in this exchange she sees him as a respectable client who she wouldn't mind hanging out with. It ultimately does feed her business, but OP can get something out of this exchange.
 
I know some prostitutes that got married and stuff. Dunno what happened afterwards though. Whether it is happily ever after or not.
 
Just go out and have fun; take a step towards being social with women on a semi regular basis.

Maybe she wants to get more money out of you, maybe not. There's only one way to find out.
 
A movie isn't really a good date. You'd at least be getting conversation if you got coffee or something.

I feel like the chance for a normal, healthy relationship was lost the moment money was exchanged for sex. Now it's a business arrangement. Now you're going to spend all your time together wondering if she enjoys your company or your money. There's a remote chance it could work but why choose to fight your way out of such a negative first impression? There are a thousand ways to meet someone and avoid those types of complications.

I can't make decisions for anyone else, but I think it's a terrible idea.
 
A looser (sp) better wrap it up. I hope to God you aren't getting to know this lady better by taking throughout a theatrical experience too. And go out to lunch if you want to know if they're worthy of your time.
 
lenovox1 said:
Umm... We don't know if she typed that in English, and, even if she did, English probably wouldn't be her first language. You can't add context that probably never existed.
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She is Korean and she studied in France, so I think we can cut her some slack for that.
Rentahamster said:
Just go out and have fun; take a step towards being social with women on a semi regular basis.

Maybe she wants to get more money out of you, maybe not. There's only one way to find out.
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Right. Its not like I cant bail after this, I really don't think I would like to have a relationship with her anyway for obvious reasons, but if she wants to hang out and see a movie with me why not. Maybe she is genuine. I will probably find out if she is not, if not I know GAF will rub it in my face when I tell them about it.
 
If you're genuinely interested in her, I'd say avoid a movie right off the bat. Get to know her - go get coffee, have a conversation that doesn't end/begin in intercourse. If you want to make this not-awkward, just treat it like any other prospective relationship.

That said, the signs are pointing to this being a bit weird - maybe even extortive. Be careful.
 
Hermii said:
She is Korean and she studied in France, so I think we can cut her some slack for that.

Right. Its not like I cant bail after this, I really don't think I would like to have a relationship with her anyway for obvious reasons, but if she wants to hang out and see a movie with me why not. Maybe she is genuine. I will probably find out if she is not, if not I know GAF will rub it in my face when I tell them about it.
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Don't infer what we'll think. We're rooting for you (mostly?) and for this to go well.

The best case would be a friendship if you don't want a relationship. The worse, you don't talk to her ever again. Such is life.

Make sure however that there is no third party involved to try and attack you.
 
Hermii said:
Right. Its not like I cant bail after this, I really don't think I would like to have a relationship with her anyway for obvious reasons, but if she wants to hang out and see a movie with me why not. Maybe she is genuine. I will probably find out if she is not, if not I know GAF will rub it in my face when I tell them about it.
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If she's genuine then I don't see why this wouldn't be a good thing. We're mostly rooting for you, we just don't want you to get burned.
 
What's this "relationship" business you guys keep bringing up? Didn't she explicitly say they're going as friends? And I highly doubt dating a prostitute would be a fulfilling partnership.
 
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