King of Foxes
Banned
First up, I won't be taking revenge but this is to vent and ask what you would have done.
So I had a friend from the 5th grade all the way through highschool and into my mid 20's. We were close as in there was a solid group of about 5 of us with a wider social group. This guy has always been one of the "bros", stupid pranks etc.
So anyway once we hit our 20's that kinda starts to get old to me and we drift away a little but still hang out. One weekend a bunch of us all go to Denmark for a festival, its us and our girlfriends, we all hang out and party etc and then thats it. About a week after that my girlfriend at the time tells me "I got a txt from Alex asking if I wanted to catch up for a coffee." That was a bit weird as the weekend away was the first time she had met him and swears she never gave him her number. I actually asked him about it and he said we all swapped numbers when we were drunk/high.
I never gave that another thought and as the months went on my relationship with that girl Kira ended.
Fast forward another year and then Alex and I are hanging out and he admits to me he has been sleeping with TWO girlfriends of guys in our wider circle of friends. I tell him I think thats shit, he should stop but agree to secrecy. This caused me to drift further and further away from him as he seemed stuck in the highschool phase. Even more years pass and then one of the girls who married the guy she was with (but was sleeping with Alex) has her second baby and rumors start that it looks a LOT like Alex. I keep my mouth shut and keep distance also.
So fast forward to this weekend, I'm out and run in to Kira. It's been a few years and we ended on ok terms so we start to chat. She tells me that while we were together Alex straight up asked her for sex and even showed up at her work TWICE. She never told me this as she didnt want drama. We say our goodbyes and I think fuck it, im going to see Alex.
I go to his place, he is married with a kid now and straight up confront him about it. He says she is lying at first but after a little bit he ends the conversation with "Who cares it was 8 years ago, who gives a fuck I didnt even get to fuck her."
This pissed me off because he is obviously a serial pest and I ended my side of the conversation with "You better hope no one asks me why we are not friends anymore because I will spill the beans."
I have no intention of wrecking peoples homes now but I am still rather pissed off. After all that he has facebooked me several times calling me a liar and from what I can tell trying to set up a paper trail to show his wife that I have been crazy with accusations about him etc
Part of me does want revenge and to shine the light on his scummy behavior but I can't break up familes.
So what would you have done in my shoes?
So I had a friend from the 5th grade all the way through highschool and into my mid 20's. We were close as in there was a solid group of about 5 of us with a wider social group. This guy has always been one of the "bros", stupid pranks etc.
So anyway once we hit our 20's that kinda starts to get old to me and we drift away a little but still hang out. One weekend a bunch of us all go to Denmark for a festival, its us and our girlfriends, we all hang out and party etc and then thats it. About a week after that my girlfriend at the time tells me "I got a txt from Alex asking if I wanted to catch up for a coffee." That was a bit weird as the weekend away was the first time she had met him and swears she never gave him her number. I actually asked him about it and he said we all swapped numbers when we were drunk/high.
I never gave that another thought and as the months went on my relationship with that girl Kira ended.
Fast forward another year and then Alex and I are hanging out and he admits to me he has been sleeping with TWO girlfriends of guys in our wider circle of friends. I tell him I think thats shit, he should stop but agree to secrecy. This caused me to drift further and further away from him as he seemed stuck in the highschool phase. Even more years pass and then one of the girls who married the guy she was with (but was sleeping with Alex) has her second baby and rumors start that it looks a LOT like Alex. I keep my mouth shut and keep distance also.
So fast forward to this weekend, I'm out and run in to Kira. It's been a few years and we ended on ok terms so we start to chat. She tells me that while we were together Alex straight up asked her for sex and even showed up at her work TWICE. She never told me this as she didnt want drama. We say our goodbyes and I think fuck it, im going to see Alex.
I go to his place, he is married with a kid now and straight up confront him about it. He says she is lying at first but after a little bit he ends the conversation with "Who cares it was 8 years ago, who gives a fuck I didnt even get to fuck her."
This pissed me off because he is obviously a serial pest and I ended my side of the conversation with "You better hope no one asks me why we are not friends anymore because I will spill the beans."
I have no intention of wrecking peoples homes now but I am still rather pissed off. After all that he has facebooked me several times calling me a liar and from what I can tell trying to set up a paper trail to show his wife that I have been crazy with accusations about him etc
Part of me does want revenge and to shine the light on his scummy behavior but I can't break up familes.
So what would you have done in my shoes?