First off, sorry for mssing this. Dude was kind enough to link but not without saying I was scared to respond. I honestly didn't know it was there and our conversation was fairly complete. Honestly, I feel quite silly replying so late, but since my [fake] honor was challenged twice abut this post, I'll go ahead and reply and hope you don't actually care lol.
I have to be honest. You have an incredible reputation--one of the most unanimous reputations I have ever seen on GAF--of being disingenuous. You've got a negative tag over your reputation from some admin (I have no idea who, long before my time I'd assume). People have stated it in this thread, in response to nothing--you literally have posters spontaneously announcing that you're not worth talking to because of your reputation. marrec is making this claim about you right now, just a few posts above. Clearly your reputation distracts from conversation in the thread.
I agree that the reputation distracts anytime a conversation about religion, abiogenesis, & nothing else in particular comes up. However, I think the reputation is largely unwarranted. The way it normally goes and there's not much I can do about it outside of actually agreeing with statements I don't agree with. It also comes up when the replyer misunderstands something that I stated.
However, because the conversations are primarily about religion, the perception received is inconsequential. I know the demographics of the place and although I agree with most on most things, religion will always be an all or nothin proposition on this board.
The perception is that you enter a thread, you make a claim (often of the form "[[some] liberals/atheists] are incorrect in <x> way."), and when called on your claim, you rejigger your claim and say "That's not what I meant, this is what I meant" or do not reply at all--effectively, being slippery or coy or evasive or disingenuous.
I dind't rejigger anything in the slightest and this why I think many on the board could be just as disingenuous. If you think I "rejiggered" my response to you, it would be wise to explain why instead of accusing me.
This kind of proves my point that the reputation is unearned. Never said anything about liberals (Gaf is the only group that ever consider me less than liberal in my views) but your brain puts it in there. This is why when I challenge no one seems to be able to find a quote to the contrary. Instead they twist a reply to match what they think.
It's similar to how I always have to say I believe evolution because I inevitably am perceived to be a YEC just because i believe in God. Your example is the most basic form of disagreeing on the board and I say more than most, probably more than I should, but it's always to the point.
It gets more vague as I am required to narrow my view because my view simply isn't that narrow. You can't make me do something I can't do which is exactly why I could expoind anymore than what I said to you. There was no where else to go. Do like you do for everyone else and take their one post at face value. If it's a troll (It might be a troll sionce I never grasped what that is), ban me. If it's not but stupid, ignore it.
Now, imagine that after hearing of your reputation, someone enters this thread.[/QUOTE]I want to make this pretty clear though. The perception does not concern me. I am on Gaf and I speak what I speak because I'm pretty confident in what I say. I tend to be respectful of other posters until they insult me. I've barely raised my text voice at all in this thread and don't intend to. So where does the accusations of being disingenous spark from?
What they see is:
- You make a claim of the form "some atheists are incorrect in <x> way"
- I respond to it asking you something to substantiate it.
- You reply that I have misinterpreted your claim and restate it in a different way
- I apologize for reading your claim incorrectly, do my best to assess it again, and I ask if I have read your claim correctly this time. I go out of my way to make sure I am reading your claim correctly BEFORE I actually discuss whether or not I agree with it.
- You reply saying "I said what I meant" and "Be my guest to read more into it thought", essentially making it impossible for me to discuss your claim with you because you won't confirm whether or not I understand the claim to begin with.
Imagine yourself as this third party reader who has never seen you post, but knows you by reputation. And they enter this thread. Do you think they'd be likely to agree with the description I posted above of your reputation, or disagree with it, based on how you've presented yourself?
Again, the reputation part isn't an a real issue. Even with Mods, it's not an issue because all you have to do is ban me and it can be entirely on wrong headed perception of my personality. You would be wrong but there would be nothigng i could do about it.
In regards to you actual post, I think you're being a bit unfair. I made a pretty clear cut statement, you misinterpretted it, & then you expect me to re-explain what i already said. Why should that be an expectation? I have no reason to evade anything unless it's to avoid trolling. i said what i meant and if you need further clarification, ask in a way doesn't imply your view was the corect one. Otherwise, why should I spend more time on it?
I assume you do not intend to come off as disingenuous or coy or evasive or trolling. So it's obviously a case where people aren't fairly perceiving the real you. That's OK, it happens to me sometimes, and it can be really frustrating. I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here--why do you think people feel you are like this? How do you think people should read your posts differently to come to a different conclusion about you? What kind of tone and what kind of words should people use when they're responding with you to get what they consider is a more satisfying discussion out of things?
You are correct. I am not disingenuous. I speak my mind pretty clearly and there's nothing duplicitous about the answers. Since I never am disingenuous, I never think I am disingenuous and so how I come off is how i come off.
You don't have to respond to this if you don't want to. I just feel like I'm doing my best to give you the benefit of the doubt and you're really not helping me and I have no idea what else I can possibly do at this point to try to empathize with your perspective in conversations or when trying to moderate a thread.
I never have an issue with replying unless I'm angry which is rare nowadays. What I don't do is backtrack to see how many replies I have. If it's important enough, let me know. I assume most things are never that important. Bottom line is I will say things as I like to. I'm not interested in being given benefit of the doubt although I do appreciate it. If people want to take time to figure out a double meaning to something I stated, that's their time to kill.
Otherwise, I am so predictable as to know what I'll say on a particular thread. I'm a broken record. there's nothing new to see and the replies I make have been the same replies I've made since I got here. If that's yours or others definition of disingenuos, not much I can do about it until you (As the Mod Collective) do something about it. It's not like I look forward to religion bashing threads and dismissing that retaliation as garbage, but everyone knows I'll do it most times. Otherwise, I'll say whatever I feel like until the rules of the board change to not allow me to do so. It's only my reputation that's sullied in the process and I can live with that. I've been all this time.