DarkJediKnight said:
CRAP!! I mean, we like each other. But her parents made it pretty clear to me in a private conversation that they would like me to be part of their family.
We're both in University at the moment and I'm still somewhat in debt. I know pretty well that if I do ask, she will say yes. But.... FUCK... help me out here!!!
You're not ready, I think with what little you posted, that's pretty much clear. What you do about it is up to you obviously, but since you're asking random internet people for advice, I'll give you mine: talk to her parents and let them know how you feel. They claim they're ready for you to be family, and that's what families do, they've got each others back. Tell them how you feel. They will understand, and if not, then whatever. If they don't respect your opinions and who you actually are, you shouldn't care about what they want you to do. The decision to marry her should be your choice and no one else's (well, hers too of course). Then on the off chance you think you are ready, take into consideration other factors, like your debt. You will be sharing that debt shall you decide to get married, make sure that's a priority thing to take care of before hand as it could seriously fuck up your lives together however much people don't want to accept that reality and turn a blind eye to that.
Good luck, godspeed, etc.
